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28volts

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    married male
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    central georgia

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    28volts
  1. Both of us are straight and both of us do not get off on seeing girl on girl action. Don't know what it is, but I the male don't feel anything. My wife will not go down or play with a woman, but contact during fmf she doesn't mind. On the other hand, if she is occupied with performing oral or intercoarse she doesn't mind the extra stimulation from a woman on her breasts and clit. We just make sure the other couple understands this.
  2. Well I have found that meeting other couples that like to to swing separately is a way to go. I have two girlfriends off of two couples and I am trying for a third. Reason for that is our schedules don't match right now and the dates aren't as often. With the two right now, I see one of them each month. My wife meets the male from one of the couples, and then she has her single male friend. I am very passionate and a romantic and find that a lot of women miss that. My wife and I both have a large appetites and do also love mfm and fmf with these couples. Don't know if that's rare, but it works for us.
  3. Hello Bunny, Let me tell you, I have had some problems myself. For a guy to be hard he must be thinking of it. He could be distracted....his wife moaning or maybe he's watching his wife. That could be the problem, for me it just gets me more excited. It could be that he is worried about performing. I love to satisfy women and apply too much pressure to myself. That will distract me by thinking of it to much. I do not use any drugs and can get hard many times, but if my mind is not relaxed then I go limp. The big head tells the little head what to do. My wife tried this one time, after I told her I was have problems staying hard, which pressured myself even more, she helped me with her..fmf..and boy did that work. I am more relaxed with that woman now. I am sure that one guy is aware of his situation since he already takes a drug. Every guy is not the same, just like women. Some women like to be taken control of, others like to have equal say, some like their nipples pinched..on and on.People like different things to get them excited. That's what makes this so exciting...to find out what another woman wants to have done to her. It is not your fault Bunny. It is not his fault. He just needs to find his groove.
  4. My main attraction,what I voted on, is what really gets me is a woman's eyes. They can be any color, but with something or depth to them...it's hard to explain Now, what my eyes tend to gravitate to is what she is showing me....nice tight jeans...the butt, a low cut blouse...the boobs, a mini skirt....luv them legs. I love the shape of a woman's body. But, I have to love those eyes. Mr S
  5. ....your liquor bottles all have labels with numbers on them ....your kids are the ones asking....where are you going...who you going with...and when will you be home ....your out at a restaurant and notice a couple looking at you that you have never met before Mr S
  6. I found out I just either get too distracted (sounds) or too excited very quickly with same room. Now don't get me wrong, it has it's advantages also (3some,4's,5's, etc..:-). I have been with my wife for 18 years and changing how I do things is not going to happen overnight. I've come to realize that. I love to take my time with a woman and explore ever inch and try and find out what makes her tick facelick ..without having people take notes. It's like me enjoying a meal and everyone is staring at me, watching me chew my food.....you have to ask WHAT ? ...do I have sauce on my shirt? Everyone is different and it wouldn't be any fun if we all worked the same way. About him looking at you have sex with another man does send a signal that you two need to talk about. Go at your own pace till you figure what you want and even then things could still change on what you want. If you guys can, go to a club and get comfortable that way, before trying the other.
  7. I agree with Tybee also. We always do same room, but with different things going on at different times, it can sometimes get distracting for my partner or myself wanting to watch or trying not to listen. We have been in same rooms while I'm going at it and the others have finished,sometimes talking,joking and I haven't even started or finished yet.We are thinking about doing seperate rooms, if everyone is comfortable and things aren't working . I like to give my partner full attention at least once a night. facelick and receive a Mr S
  8. Ok..ok..ok..calm down.I never said anything about f***ing. I do not even place my tongue anywhere it is not invited. Let me say this again,I see how the evening is going and after good conversation I continue any further talk with flirting verbally on occasion and watch the response of the couple we are with.If the response is not negative then I proceed to make light physical contact..a slight caress on the arm,hand or back.This can go on,unless the woman tells me or shows a negative response. My question was,that if I follow this and the evening ends without a hint of anything,like some people are maybe being polite and say it was a nice evening, then I go home wondering if they considered me pushy. Mr S
  9. I'll make sure when we head that way I'll blow you a Mr S
  10. Yes sexy,I do go in progression..and the massaging does happen only if they allow,which answers my question on that one.I usually start with verbal then it increases to caressing,it's just like I said about some people not giving any signals,the nightends and you are left to wonder. Mr S
  11. I think some people don't give enough to go on or they just don't tell you,you get to the end of the night,you say goodbye and then you wonder if you might have been to pushy. Live close to Macon. Mr S
  12. PUSHY or FLIRTING...this is my issue I love to flirt and use touch, massaging or caressing as a sign of my approval I have seen in some of the threads and ads that people do not want pushy males. Please help me realize the difference between both or what is your interpretation of either. I would not like to push any women away that I feel I have a connection to. This is just my way of showing affection Any suggestions would be helpful. :surrender:
  13. Late comment but, that is why you need to just post on your profile what you are looking for.Everyone wants something different.As long as they do not enter or push themselves on us I have no problem. As for the single guys, sorry but if your not what she's looking for then oh well, and if she is looking to play with just the wife, sorry ain't going to happen here. It's as simple as that , tell them no. I read the profiles and screen them with bifem that love playing alone.Look only for couples that swap.Only other suggestion I have is, make another site that caters to bi women.
  14. Ok, here it goes. My wife and I (still virgins)were at a meet and greet and a older couple introduced themselves.We had small talk, during it the couple would mention several times that they just liked to watch people and would describe what kind of soft play they liked.I first started talking to the man, but when he introduced his wife and she did the talking then, to me.The same type of conversation continued, with her mentioning the same thing her husband did(watching,soft play)several times.We had mentioned we were newbies and were looking for the right couple.My wife got bored with her talking about watching and would turn to other more interesting conversations going on at the other tables. My questions are, Was she playing a game ? Is this what everybody talks about,games? Does anybody take a more direct approach? We are still new and not sure if more direct (to the point) conversation or physical contact is allowed when the topic goes towards sexual content.Let her touch me or I touch her.In my opinion, she should have asked us if we would be interested in play or as I would like to hear, Babe I want to s**k your d**k . That would have gotten my wifes attention and mine and there would be no miscommunication. A hand on my lap would have said the same thing.Anyways, any help will be appreciated. Thanks S& J
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