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  1. We've been in the lifestyle now for about 6 months and have had some really great experiences. We had our 2nd experience with the same group of people the other day. My husband had always described himself as a watcher, and his fantasy was to see me gangbanged, or in a mfm situation. We've done the mfm thing - which I didn't really care for, but I found myself enjoying being with couples because I'm more comfortable playing with a male if his significant other (and mine) is there. I just feel safer that way. I have always been honest with my husband on my comfort level, and thought I had communicated this well. I was perfectly fine with him playing with tits, and on occasion, with the right person, having his cock sucked. I consider my husband to be "mine" and personally felt like I wasn't ready to share him. He said he was fine with this, because his fantasies never involved me or him with another woman, but he did want to see me with another man. The other day while we were playing with this other couple, he became pretty intoxicated and asked me and the other male if it was ok for him to go down on the other female. He had already been playing with her, and when I left the room and came back, they were doing some things that I just wasn't comfortable with while I wasn't there. He asked "Can I go down there?" and I asked "where?" hoping that he was talking about me, but he indicated that he wanted to go down on her. I felt put on the spot so I said (not very enthusiastically) "I don't care" and he proceeded to do this. He is tongue tied and generally complains the next day about giving oral, but otherwise is usually ok with this and offers it to me. But this was something that we previously discussed was not ok with me. He also is very talented with his hands, and made several references that her husband (the other male) didn't know what he was doing when it came to pleasing his wife. Also, when we were playing, my husband moaned a great deal (as much as with me) and made mention to how great it was, then when he came to fuck me, he got soft. I'm just wondering if anyone else thinks the line was crossed, and if so, what can I do about it. I've pretty much told him (and he acknowledges) that I felt as if he cheated on me right in front of him. I tried the lifestyle because he suggested it - as a fantasy of his - and I have grown very fond of the social aspects of the lifestyle. But he says he feels like he is expected to do things with the woman and that people don't generally like to swing with couples where the male is a watcher. Does anyone have any words of advice?
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