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  1. That is why you strengthen your pelvic muscles through resistance training with squats and other leg exercises so that when you want a powerful orgasm you just squeeze your pelvis, in other words doing kegels while having sex, and it will bring a more powerful orgasm than not doing it or having someone stimulate it because you are bring a lot of of fresh blood there and because it is so strong it creates a lot of chemicals that are involved in the orgasm. Also do some cardio right after the resistance training so you can have multiple orgasms because cardio build endurance. The same thing applies to women. When you both have strong pelvic muscles and you do kegels inside of her she will also have stronger orgasms than other ways and she will also put good pressure on your dick which makes the orgasm even stronger for you. If you kiss and hug while doing this the orgasm will be even more powerful.
  2. It's most likely because the A-spot is being hit with anal sex and some women really like that but that is the least effective way to get to it. What you want your man to do is have you bend over doggystyle and he inserts you with his dick but doesn't thrust just go all the way in and squeeze his pevlic floor like he's doing kegels inside of you. This allows him to hit your back vaginal wall directly and not using the rectum. It is also good for him because he is squeezing his prostate which gives a powerful orgasm BUT if he doesn't exercise his pelvic floor a lot he will come fast due to his nerves being weak in that area. Get him to do squats with some type of resistance be it weights or resistance bands (every other day) and run for a good while(everyday) and eat 1.5 hours before and up to 1.5 right after he works out. Squeeze your pelvic floor(like when you prevent peeing) when you lift up during the squat. Make sure he get good amounts of complex carbs, good fats, and protein. This will help his pelvic floor get real strong and give him endurance so he can hit your walls harder and harder the stronger he gets and also allow him to have more orgasm and last longer than he would now. A-Spot Anterior fornix erogenous zone - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Also, it would be good for you as a female to do the same thing because if you strengthen your pelvic floor you are going to squeeze his dick harder when he hits your walls due to a natural reflex. You will also have more intense and numerous orgasms.
  3. Popular Science Blog - New Study: Fertile Strippers Make More Money New Study: Fertile Strippers Make More Money "Psychologist Geoffrey Miller and colleagues tapped the talent at local gentlemen's clubs and counted tips made on lap dances. Dancers made about $70 an hour during their peak period of fertility, versus about $35 while menstruating and $50 in between." "Women on the pill averaged $37 (and had no performance peak) versus $53 for women off-pill. The contraceptive produces hormonal cues indicating early pregnancy, not an enticing target for a would-be suitor. Birth control could lead to many thousands of dollars lost every year."
  4. Birth control pills are good for not having kids but for your sex life, as far as having the best experience you can have, they aren't too good. Here's why. Sex involves hormones, pheromones, and how our genes interact with these things. They turn them off or on which gives us the best or not so good results as far as relationships and sex partners. When you take birth control pills you trick the body into thinking you're pregnant which means the type of men you date will be different as well as the amount of arousal you will have. When you aren't the BCP, IUD, PATCH or any type of hormonal birth control, you ovulate and this causes a HIGH(depending on health) rate of arousal which means awesome sex. It also means you will pick men who are the opposite of you as far as genes but who is also the most healthy(usually the more rugged masculine type) in your pool of choices. The same for a man. He will be more attracted to a woman when she is ovulating than one who is on BC. If you want to not have kids but don't want hormones in your body, get lady-comp and cyclebeads. These two things let you know when you are fertile and the lady-comp lets you know the actual day you are ovulating. I recommend you use both of them because you want to make sure that they both come up with the same conclusion so you don't make a wrong reading and end up pregnant. Study your cycle for six months before going bareback to make sure your fertile days and ovulation always occurs at the same time and you know when to have sex and not have sex or at least with a condom and lube. Use astroglide because this lube helps keep sperm from being motile. If you were on BC make sure they are out your system which can take 6 months- 1 year depending on your metabolism(exercise speeds it up) because the hormones build up in your fat cells and can have your menstrual cycle go out of wack once in a while and can give a false reading and cause a pregnancy. Also take "hot plants for her" supplement so you can make sure that your menstrual cycle is stable and also so you can have the best feeling when you have sex. There is a male version also called "hot plants for him". Make sure you eat some plant fats such as nuts and seeds or avocado with some type of protein when you take these pills so they can be absorbed and bioactive very efficiently. Be aware you both will be very horny so make sure you are ready for mind blowing sex all the time. Cycle-beads: CycleBeads - Natural Family Planning
  5. Maybe I'm paranoid but if your sister in law is malicious like she sounds, I think she asked for the number so she can be nosy and find out if they were swingers and who else at the party were swingers or maybe to gossip about you and find out more. She will just do it in a friendly way by becoming a friend to the female, act like she wants to know about swinging, and then actually have something to talk about as it pertains to you as far as where you frequent and who you hang with. She will love to have someone to blame for the "problems in the world". Misery loves company. I think if you don't want to be the talk of the town make sure that your swinger friends are aware of the type of person she is and how to react to her manipulative ways. It will save all of you from stress.
  6. Man, all I did was ask a question and besides a few people who gave honest answers, all I'm getting is people who are trying to be sarcastic and basically saying I'm exaggerating. I can understand someone thinking I'm just talking nonsense but to go into all this nonsense and trying to put me down in a round about way is NOT what I expected from "swingers". I guess I was wrong. You learn something new everyday. You can believe what you want but I'm not exaggerating or just think I'm better than others. I guess I will leave my questions to myself next time because if this is the reaction I get when I ask a simple question, what will happen if I ask a profound question that might go against what most of you think is the only way?. As for not believing me because I stated the process is too deep for posting, I'm not lying it is too deep to get into because there many things you have to do to get it to work right because it requires a whole different thinking of sex than what we are taught in society. If I could do it, YOU could do it but not just because your a human. You have to do a lot of personal work to get it to work but it is worth it. I thought swingers were open minded but from some of these post, I think a lot of you are no different than average people in the vanilla world, You would just like to think you are!. PEACE.
  7. Thanks again for the replies. I went through this process thinking I may cause problems between a couple because I saw something that made me think twice about something else I came up with and I was just thinking it may be good to keep it to myself but I wasn't sure this is why I asked this question here before actually doing it because once something is done there is no turning back. I realized after reading the post and also watching something else that the reason why swinging is so special is that swingers, for the most part, are people who don't mind the great sex and willing to take it on and if problems arise they can talk it out because when you really think about it most problems in relationships come about due to lack of communication and swinging is really about communication with your significant other a swell as other people who are on the same wavelength as yourself. This is why it feels so good. We are all acting as one which means our sexual "energy" is focused and increased due to more than two people feeling the same things. It is basically a unified consciousness. Anyway, thanks everyone for putting everything back into perspective for me!.
  8. Thanks everyone for your answers I really appreciate it. To make it clear I'm not arrogant just aware of the knowledge I have and how it effects people so I want to make sure I'm not causing problems instead of bring pleasure. Also, I know what swinging is about but you have to remember we are still humans and crave something that gives us enormous pleasure regardless of how our logic tells us we are supposed to behave. This is why drugs like cocaine and crack tears apart families and relationships(not to make it sound like I'm a drug). I'm sure the person who created cocaine had no idea he would be creating such a problem for the world. He thought it would revolutionize medicine. I'm just wondering what the outcome would be if I slept with someone who is in a loving relationship but has never had the type of sex that I can give especially when the average person doesn't do some of the things that I do. As far as selling the knowledge, I'm not in the business of selling sex info right now, maybe when I get older but I want to be known for other things first but I will give a hint. It's all about using the different parts of the body before you have sex, concentrate these chemicals that are made in the body in the sex organs, and when you are about to have intercourse, use you muscles and this means standing up NO lying down. Another hint if you have to eat whole foods and certain nutrients to allow the brain and sex organs to function at their maximum capabilities. Doing certain Exercises daily will make this even more greater. I took years to learn how the body works and the last year to master my techniques so I can't give it all in one post. It's too deep to learn. Again I'm not being arrogant just telling the truth. Anyway thanks for your answers and not being disrespectful.
  9. I was wondering how would the man in a couple feel if another man makes his wife have more orgasms than he has and they were also more intense than anything she has ever felt before from sex?. Do you think this will cause a break in the marriage or will it make it better? I ask this because I know some techniques that can do exactly what I described but I don't want to cause a rift in a relationship. When I do it with a single woman I don't have to worry about her significant other getting mad at her constantly thinking about the orgasms I gave her but if it's a couple I don't know if this is the same case. The techniques I use require a lot of exercises on my part to build strength and can't be accomplished in a week and some men might not even feel like doing the work and I'm worried the women might try to cheat with me to get these orgasms and I'm not into that. I really want to try some group sex with this knowledge because I love to see a woman in total ecstasy but I don't know if it's a wise thing to do. Can anyone help me out?
  10. I can't agree with this because even though the condom might not protect parts that aren't covered with it, it still protects the urethra hole on a man and that will be the most painful part if a blister goes there. Also it is a skin disease along with hpv and making sure your skin is well hydrated will help prevent tearing which prevents these diseases from getting into your system but that is another story. I just know I don't want a blister on my dick head or the shaft of my dick because that would be PAIN and condoms do protect that part.
  11. highlander, can you tell me if the data compiled for HIV and other statistics come from private or public clinics because if they come from public that means a LOT of people are infected but the statistics won't show it due to the records being confidential?
  12. I hear what your saying and I agree with you, unfortunately we live in a world where most people lie about things that are small so you know they will do it something such as an std. The only thing you can do is protect yourself to the fullest every way possible while still enjoying yourself by learning how the body works and finding ways to keep it as healthy as possible and doing this means listening to all sides that have ways of doing this and if others have something to say about you taking precautions, that's their issue. Here's something you should read: New Study in Suburban Population Shows Herpes is Very Common | Infection Control Today "ABOUT THE STUDY The study took place at six randomly selected PCP offices in relatively affluent areas in each of six U.S. cities (Atlanta, Baltimore, Boston, Chicago, Dallas, Denver). At each office, approximately 150 people age 18-59 volunteered to participate. All blood samples were sent to a central laboratory to determine if the sample was seropositive for HSV-2, in other words, had the virus that causes genital herpes (GH). All samples were analyzed using the Focus Technologies HerpeSelect® 2 ELISA IgG test designed specifically to detect HSV-2 antibodies in the blood. In total, 5,732 people were screened; 5,452 provided an analyzable blood sample and 5,433 completed a questionnaire. The final sample was 75 percent white, 14 percent African American, and 4 percent Hispanic. Eighty percent were employed full- or part-time, 74 percent had some college or higher education, 45 percent had a household income of $60,000 or higher, and 68 percent were married/living with their partner. The overall weighted HSV-2 seroprevalence was 25.5 percent - that means 1 in 4 people tested positive for the virus that causes genital herpes. The seroprevalence increased from 13.4 percent in the 18-29-year age group, to 25.2 percent (30-39 years), to 31.2 percent (40-49 years) and 28.0 percent (50-59 years). Seroprevalence among women (28.3 percent) was greater than that among men (22.0 percent), and was consistently higher across all age groups. Of the 1,387 people that tested positive for genital herpes, only 12 percent knew they were infected. The study showed that higher levels of education, income, and marital status did not reduce the chances of having genital herpes: those with some college had a prevalence of 27 percent, college graduates had a prevalence of 22 percent, married individuals had a prevalence of 24 percent, those living with their partners had a prevalence of 29 percent, and those with household incomes of $60,000-$80,000 had a prevalence of 25 percent while those with incomes over $100,000 had a prevalence of 22 percent. The study was sponsored by GlaxoSmithKline, one of the world's leading research-based pharmaceutical and health care companies. " I found an article that went in depth but I can't find it. It showed how a good amount of the people were asked if they had an std would they tell their partner and they said NO. When you take into account 30% of babies are born where the father isn't their biological father, I wouldn't expect someone to tell you they have an std., you just have to assume someone has one until they prove otherwise.
  13. First let me say I'm sorry to hear this news but its not life threatening and you can still live on and enjoy yourself. Secondly, I think you should try to keep the virus at bay by eating whole foods as well as take avocados, coconut oil and essential oils(only a a drop is needed) daily to improve your immune system and maybe help your body get rid of the virus BUT this is in theory as it hasn't been proven but these oils mainly the herbal essential oils and coconut oil are antiviral. Third, try to keep your skin well moistened with fats such as the coconut oil mixed with burts bees Repair Serum. This will keep the skin flexible and prevent future infections from herpes because herpes only passes through tiny breaks in the skin, mouth, anal, vagina into mucous membranes, which is why lube during sex is important also because it helps prevent tears in the vagina from friction. You probably got it through oral sex and study show oral herpes is on the rise specifically with young people and their love for oral sex and multiple partners. A non-latex dental dam should be used when performing oral sex and condoms also. There are so many choices for condoms that their is no reason why they can't be used when used correctly. The same for dental dams. You should put some lube on your dick before putting a condom on, then put on a nice vibrating cock ring to keep the condom in place also to enhance the sex for both partners. When using a non-latex dental dam, apply lube on the labia and then just go at it. It might seem out of place to do this but it isn't that bad once you train yourself to realize you can have fun and be safe and that it's not about the person being trusting but being healthy. They might not even know they have something. The only time raw sex is done should be with one special person and that should be your mate because you obviously know more about each other or you should if you take the relationship to that point. Also, burts bees has a lip balm that should be used to protect the lips and prevent herpes infection as well as occurence due to the oils being antiviral. Enjoy yourself, live life and realize sex is fun but it can only be better when the body is in top shape and protected at the cellular level. Exercising with weights and some cardio will help the body make use of the foods you eat better which means a better immune system. Plants, knowledge and technology are WONDERFUL things. Burts bees Repair Serum Burts bees lip balm Take care.
  14. Do you think it's more of a male bonding type of thing?. What I mean by this is that maybe the man gets off on watching other men doing the same thing he is doing and it makes him more comfortable with the actual act of sex which increases the sexual energy even more. Also, how do women feel when they have group sex with one man?. Is it a female bonding type of thing also?.
  15. I was reading an article where the person said that she witnessed a gangbang and felt it was very homoerotic and maybe the men had latent homosexual tendencies. I don't feel that way, I just like to see a woman get pleased and get as sexual with a lot of men but I was wondering does anyone think what the writer of the article stated was true in a sense?.
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