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  1. My mother taught me that spitting wasn't ladylike Actually, I enjoy the build up of the guy's orgasm and although I have never felt the need for a warning, I love hearing it. I HATE vomiting (yes, there is a point to that admission) so I have developed a great deal of control over my gag reflex. The added benefit to this is that I can deep throat it when a guy comes. I would feel very put out if a guy pulled away from me during oral sex when I started to orgasm, so I enjoy reciprocating. PrettyLady, I would think that right before grabbing onto a penis is a good time to broach the subject.
  2. Chicup, What you are talking about is something different than whether or not male bisexuality is enough to lose respect for a person. An individual who 'suddenly' decides they are bisexual after they are married and wishes to pursue that is something completely different. I would say that a swinger couple, dealing with this issue, puts it into completely different territory. We are debating an ethical issue, is male bisexuality unethical? People don't lose respect over "undesireable traits" they lose it because they have gambling problems or are drunks or cheat on taxes NOT because they don't put the toilet seat down after using it or leave all the lights on in the house. I am making an assumption here but Mrs.Chicup would probably lose respect for you because you had not been honest about that attraction, if you had been hiding it all this time. It isn't being PC, Tia Vampire actually DID put it on the table...is male bisexuality an ethical issue? For her it is and she stated it to be so without hesitation. If it is for you guys, then so be it, but that does not make the OPs question or the turn of the thread politically correct.
  3. As long as I can caveat that statement with the limit that those sexual preferences are taking place between two consenting legally recognized adult homo sapiens. I have played Devil's Advocate countless times on this topic but I do, honestly, believe that the majority rule is the correct one in this case.
  4. Thrax, I have Oolong and Green Tea LikeMinds, I am the same way with cookie dough, if I eat too much I go into a sugar coma! LOL I figured, in theory, the naked baking might be a fun way to get back in the saddle. Of course, it could be naked thumbwrestling and naked armpit farting... I'm willing to go that extra mile.
  5. If the gentleman that I was with was a jump refusal (Army airborne term) then I would go to the full body massage with lots of tongue action and kissing. If he didn't want to do that, I would suggest that we (if we were at the house) go down to the kitchen and fire up the coffee pot and make chocolate chip cookies. If I liked the guy enough to have sex with him that means I like his company not just his dick. The hubby can keep the other wife entertained while I and the gent get better acquainted. If all goes well then he'll have me bent over the bowl of cookie dough!
  6. Not no but HELL NO. There is no such thing as "Charity" sex, that is just whoring yourself out. You either WANT to have sex with a person regardless of what your reasons are or you do NOT want to have sex with a person, also regardless of the reasons. It's just insulting to both parties.
  7. Disco, Glad to see you chime in but it really doesn't matter what you say to us, it only matters what you say to Vyper. Vyper, Once again you don't mention how it went with the other woman. Did you enjoy yourself?
  8. bad teeth or poor dental hygiene too much perfume/cologne women who swear they can't orgasm and it is pointless to attempt it (why are they swinging?) women with tons of makeup on guys who try to "oneup" your husband men who live with their mothers people who don't show up to meetings
  9. This is such an astoundingly hilarious stereotype...IF men were physiologically and anatomically built to bear children then OF COURSE they would be able to bear the pain of childbirth. Plus your assumption that men as a gender cannot bear a finite amount of excruciating pain is both disrespectful to those who deal with it on a daily basis and has nothing to do with their sexuality or whether they deserve respect as a person. If you are saying that bisexual men are unworthy of respect, I would have to ask you to logically explain the connection between their sexuality and how they conduct themselves and live their lives. You initially state that you would lose respect for YOUR man, which is your own personal issue and I have no quarrel with but then to base that lack of respect on an completely irrelevant and irrational stereotype is appalling, especially when you are accusing ALL men of this supposed flaw.
  10. We were recently contacted by a gent who was wearing a full Batman costume. It was one that could have been worn in the movies, pointy eared mask, fake abs, cape and all. I wanted so very much to just respond with: Dear Sir, You are wearing a Batman costume. Thank you for your interest but we as a couple are looking more for the Green Lantern type. His abs are real. Best Regards... I didn't do this, but I so very much wanted to.
  11. Maybe you are safe and she trusted you to treat her well and provide a comfortable environment. Many times women will go with the guy who has a job and a sane life even if there is no mad passionate love to go along. Or maybe you were the first really good male lay she had had up to the point where you two were together. Maybe she didn't want to tell you that she was a lesbian for the most part because then you wouldn't marry her. Or maybe she really has no clue why she has done these things and you were the one solid thing for her to cling to. Make no mistake I am NOT trying to justify her actions, just possibly adding a little female perspective that is very likely WAY off base. I noticed that you said that SHE would have sex with a guy this weekend, you did not mention if you were going to be with the other female. I hope everything turns out for the best.
  12. There are those types as well, I can't stand them either. I am actually more of the soap boxer type, I never leave home without it. The people who expect others to treat them as Socrates are actually great fun to bring down a peg or two.
  13. I'm just the opposite, I love finding the lecturer and debating everything down to the tiniest detail. Partially because I am TERRIBLE at light conversation and have no clue what topics are fair game. You may find that the person who seems to be a snob is really just utterly terrified of saying the wrong things or doing the wrong thing. I am usually the one who appears to be a snob because I am so poor at social interaction until I have been around the person enough to be comfortable. I am not afraid of going up and saying hello to people or starting a conversation, I just know that it will end with them giving me a disapproving look because I said something they considered weird. I'm not trying to point fingers , I know that I am weird, but I wish that socially competent people weren't so put off by those of us who don't have that ability. LOL I find that normal people have lots to teach me if I can get them to talk about something other than the weather or the condition of the building/town/roads etc. Take pity on us TLB, turn the lecturer towards a subject that you both can have a lively and enjoyable conversation on. If the person is actually nice they will happily change the subject, and if they are jerks then you can prove that they don't have a clue what they are talking about. I love it when people actually TALK with me, they become more attractive and wonderful by the minute.
  14. That's called rape and you need to call the cops on his ass and file for a divorce.
  15. If you have never told her specifically that you feel left out and are resentful of the fact that she ruins it for you, if anyone but the women get it on, then she may be assuming that you are getting enough fulfillment watching her and the other woman. You may need to accept that this is the end because if she is the least bit pissed at you about your needs then there are a million and one ways that she can "innocently" screw it up once you and another woman are ready for action. If nothing else find out what happens if you ask that there be no more girl on girl action just straight swap.
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