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  1. Thanks again. More recently, our lines of communication are opening up. It is a work in progress. I have been trying new things and doing things to spice up the bedroom, but actually seem to be running out of new ideas (recycling some old ideas works well at times, too). Great advice, thanks.
  2. First I want to say thanks to everyone with advice. I do think deep down, I felt the same way about waiting. I think we are a long way from swinging at this point for the fact that we are very conservative, shy, etc. One of the other reasons that I want to swing is that sex is good when we try new things, the more daring, the more thrill. Swinging sounds like the ultimate thrill and for how shy we are... well you get the idea. However, I have pictured ourselves after the first time and I get an uneasy tension in my stomach. I can't decide if it is nerves, excitement, or a sick feeling like I shouldn't be doing (even thinking) this. Any ideas? Something I did not mention previously is that I have seen a doctor for my ED and have been prescribed Cialis for this. I guess I don't mean to change the topic, but I have found that the Cialis is quite expensive (even with insurance coverage). I tried an herb (I think it is an herb) called Yohimbe which works OK. Does anyone have any other Non-Prescription solutions? I just don't want the herb that I am using now to stop working through overuse.
  3. I am very new to all of this, so please be patient with me. My wife and I have only talked about swinging a few times and we are unsure that this is something we would want to do. One of the reasons I would like to experience this is to find out something about myself. My wife and I have been married for 18 years. I have not been with many women, since we married at a young age. I have had some performance issues in the bedroom lately and she has mentioned that I must be getting bored of her. I don't feel like I am, it could be just my age, but truely don't know. I want to try being with someone else to see if there is something to what she is saying. My question is: Is this a bad reason to get into Swinging? I want to clarify to everyone that I am VERY happy with my wife, she is my lover, my best friend, and the mother of my children, but adding a little spice to our life might not be such a bad thing.
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