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About greg1950

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Tampa
  • Swinging Experience
    over 5 years

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  • SLS Name
    greg1950
  • SDC Username
    eclecticfun
  • SwingerZoneCentral Username
    eclecticfun
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Trapeze
  1. Thanks to all that helped out. We have decided on Hedo, November 14th. There is a, hopefully, large group going then, and that will give me time to save money. January would be great, but we do not want to wait but so long after our wedding.
  2. Thank you njbm. My fiancee and I have been swinging before we met 5 years ago, and thought we were rather knowledgeable. However, I always wondered about the greeting with a kiss. I thought that was a sign, but just thought it might be my wishful thinking. We used to visit Caliente often, but have been low keyed for a couple of years. Finally, we are getting back out, and want to be a member there when we can get the $1950 together. I have been going since it first opened. (I still have the AANR Bulletins with the ad of Caliente opening soon, over 10 years ago.) The conversation pool I definitely agree with, from past experience. As far as the post topic, we have never had a bad experience in all the times we visited. I will say I hate the 2 or 3 night minimum, but if there are people to book it, I can understand. They have to make money as the weekdays are slow. (we live 30 minutes from there) So, we usually leave before the after party starts. (bummer)
  3. I am 50, and started right before my last marriage ended, (I know, not reason to swing) so about 8 years. My fiancee is 60, and started with a prior BF after her marriage of 31 years, so also about 8 I would say. I do want to say I love this thread as I was wondering the same thing. Down here in Florida, we attend house parties with couples easily in their 40's, and often 50's and 60's. Fortunately, we feel if the couple looks good, age does not matter. We know of some couples who got out of the lifestyle, either by choice, death of a spouse, or other reasons I cannot think of right now. So, the reason I love this is to underscore the fact that things happen in life, and we cannot wait. If we want to play with someone, ask. If we want to go to a hotel takeover, swinger cruise, Hedo, whatever, do not wait. In addition to all the benefits swinging has shown us, I realize life is short enough so that we need to enjoy it.
  4. Thanks for your ideas. Funcoupledayton, yes, we are swingers. Me for just over 10 years, her for just under 10 years. (We both started before we met each other, 5 years ago) I had not thought about Desire as I thought is was more nudists, but I will certainly look into it and check out the posts so I can tell her what options we have and what she would prefer. We are both nudists as well as swingers, but I remember us talking to another couple during a swinger's cruise for 4 hours, hitting it off well, only to find out they were just nudists, not swingers. It can be a bit embarrassing, although I am learning what to ask and listen to to learn their status. Thanks again for your help. This should not be this hard to make a decision, but this will be both of our 2nd marriage, so the honeymoon is more our focus than the actual wedding.
  5. I have been engaged for a few years, and now we decided to plan a date and plans. We decided not to do a swingers wedding, but to have a traditional wedding, but go do Hedonism for the anniversary. She has not been there, and I visited during the day when I was a travel agent. So, basically, this will be a first for us, but we both want very much to go. Question is, has anyone done, or heard about honeymoons at Hedo? The selfish part comes through now for me, and wanting to have the most fun we can, as well has her playing as much as she wants, I wonder if we should not plan another wedding there? I would do our wedding/honeymoon based around some group attending Hedo, so that swingers would be there. I have heard of others having a swinger wedding, but they did not return my e-mail. So, I am not sure what to expect, but we both love the excitement of doing whatever we can. (traditional wedding, swinger reception or traditional wedding followed by Hedo honeylmoon). Thanks for your help, as we want to get married this year, but have no ideas what to do for a swinger reception or honeymoon where people will know it is our honeymoon and maybe give her, or us, more attention. Thanks.
  6. That is why I love the swinging lifestyle. Many of the women I have dated in the past were older, and my fiancee is 10 years older than me. Being in the medical field, I see the ages of women, and have seen late teens/early 20's who were good looking, but then have seen 70 somethings. One I remember vividly was a lady who had been a dancer all her life, and she was 74. Incredible shape! Many go by ages, and that is fine for them, but for me, (more so than my fiancee), looks and attitude go farther. If a woman looks good, she looks good, no matter what age. I once read a profile that said they wanted 2 years younger or older than they were. As far as my experience, it is about 66 years old, but that was rather recently. The oldest difference was when I was 25 y/o, and was with a 52 y/o lady.
  7. Thanks for everyone's input. I (Greg) am exactly like Galanga said about the blackout hunt. I am nervous but excited. I say that as I do not consider myself bi, but in a dark environment, if someone is sucking me, and it feels good, I am okay with that. My wife is bi, so that is fine with her. We still have some time before the Splash Party, so we still appreciate anyone's input/advice/thoughts.
  8. We have been to a few hotel takeovers and have walked inside the dark room playroom once. We were met with a couple that sounded like they were in their 20's and with a Russian accent. My wife did not feel comfortable so we left, but as it has been so long ago, I forgot why. (I think it was how large his cock felt and that made her nervous that in the dark he might not go slowly.) Anyway, we are going to another takeover this May, and want to try it again. Has anyone had experience in a dark room, or heard of any? We are wanting to try all the rooms this time, (chocolate room just her, LOL) but would love to know more about it as being dark, what happens? I know about M-M contact, but if I feel a hairy leg or chest, that is a pretty good idea, and so for her, the condom issue is the only thing I can think of. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated,as we have been low-keyed this past year, and are ready to get into the swing of things again. (pun intended)
  9. Hi Julie, thanks for posting this message. We are going through very close to the same thing. We have been very low-keyed the past year or longer. This has been for several reasons, but we decided to get back out there, and went to a house party New Years Eve. It was a large one that we go to every year. My wife spent over an hour getting ready the party, and we chatted with others we know but have not seen in at least a year. Like you, we felt somewhat out of place but the real issue was she asked several men if they wanted to play, and was turned down. I really felt bad for her, as she was finally feeling sexy again and was ready, then turned down. I know we men get turned down, but I just am surprised as in the past, she could/would play as much as she could handle. There have been a couple of instances like this, but this was the latest plus with well over 100 people, plenty of possible playmates. I was told by 2 different men that out of sight, out of mind. That appears true, and now we have to change this. Please keep us posted on how things are going for you, and that might help us as well.
  10. We just returned from the Splash Party in Orlando (complete hotel takeover) and noticed some hotel room doors that were left ajar by the lock closure bar. In one room in particular, we noticed quite a few different people going in and out from it at all hours of the day and some at night. Does anyone know if a propped open door at a hotel takeover means anything? I am thinking it might be a play room for those in the know? We plan to attend more hotel takeovers, and certainly other Splash Parties, so we were curious.
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