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  1. Good point Thrax! ....Better to "FAKE IT" then to show it! Though, we too enjoy people's company that overcompensates about anything and everything in conversing! Cheers
  2. Maybe the couple that we had met thought we were so ugly (to them) that they were "Shocked" with SILENCE over the intire night!!!...LOL... They were'nt the great'est looking in the world either, though we usually don't judge people by they're looks, but by attitude. Case in point, they were NEW though to the lifestyle, and possibly had the jidders in being amongst us "freaks" there...LOL... Oh well... has'nt been the first time.
  3. Hi EvilMJ, Great answer! As you said in meeting "halfway". We too agree halfway is always much better. Just hate to send the wrong signal though to have the other couple feel that we talk to much inturn they have'nt spoken a word all night. Guess we just have to move on as we have done in the past when it seems things don't click. :surrender Oh well, thats swinging...LOL....
  4. Meeting Swingers That Don't Converse Hi, have you ever met with a new couple (first time meet with them) for drinks/dinner and you ended up doing all the talking and conversing cause they did not talk much or at all? It kinda gave us the impression they weren't very interested in us since they were really quite. Or maybe that was just they're personality? We have met our share of swingers in past years and are still trying to figure some of them out through our past meeting experiences, and was wondering if anyone here has encountered this same scenario when meeting someone new in person for the first time, and your thoughts on this. Thanks :)
  5. I think I might guestly know what she is saying by this above. Maybe she was afraid of letting her hubby give the other woman the long shlong because, she was afraid that the other woman would enjoy it so much that she might fall in love with his huge manhood! And he might enjoy it too by giving it to someone that never got it so big or good before! Or something like this anyway... But correct me everyone if I'm wrong... This also could be a visa versa for men too. Meaning, maybe the man wouldn't want his woman to be entered and penetrated by some dude that had a HUGE dong, of fear that she may not want hubbys little one anymore! Just a thought.... I dunno?
  6. I would agree 100% with OhioCouple's suggestion, by stating in your ad that you prefer the man from the other couple to be HUNG or ENDOWED! And since you are already use to something of that size. At least then, others will know what you are looking for along with your preferences.
  7. Hello Everyone! Just to set the record straight, regarding my little dilemma in question (weight & size), I am a guy that is 5'10" tall, has a 42" waist with a 48" chest, 16"arms, and yes, I have grown a little gut now thru time now in my age 40s. When my wife and I go to swinger social parties here occasionally, I am obviously a little wider ...LOL... than most guys at the party. I am also of mixed ethinc. The wife now 5'6" and basically of average weight maybe for a few extra pounds but it doesn't show. And (I think) her looks is above average. She is also of a mix ethinc too. Both our personalitys our of easygoing and likefulness of what we herd by others about us. So their is no problem there. I think (for myself) being a little wider than most, and being of mixed ethinic and "minority" and being a (("GUY")), has become a little hurdle for me when meeting people, especially when i'm just about the widest guy there and my wife and I are of mixed ethnic minority, and 90% of the 40 couple there at the party are of caucasian race. I have come to conclusion (that I think), that it's not to much my problem of my weight or size, but my ethnic background of being a minority at the party that has isolated (myself and being a GUY) even more. I think the word "minority" will become another "Thread" here!...LOL... Sorry about that julie!...LOL... To finally say and except, ...what you look like, what your color is, your body size, how big or small your tool is, ...as long as your confidant with who you are and what you look like, then we will just have to sit back and wait for the right fish to bite!!!....LOL... I could say though, I do have the right bate!!!...LOL... Just want to say, thanks everyone for all your replies regarding my question whether the replys were negative and or positive. Everyone is intitled to their own opinion, and I think thats cool!!! Regards, Avgcpl4u
  8. Thanks "CanadianCouple" and "OhioCouple" for your replys about my "Hang Up" question.! Guess you got to learn to adapt and go with the flow:) .... I also read that section: "The body beautiful" like you said CanadianCouple, most interesting! Seems like that topic get's pretty hot at times! Thanks guys!....CY!
  9. Hi Julie and Everyone Else! We're a married couple that has been in the lifestyle maybe going on 3 years now. I have something that has always bothered me regarding my wife and I when we go to swingers parties. My dilemma is that my wife is pretty much an average weight and size but as for myself, I'm like 5'10" 250lbs more on the heavy boned type of a guy. I've always been between 235-250lbs most of my life after 25 yrs old. And I have noticed that every time we go to a swingers party, people be asking my wife to play, but not myself?? And when my wife says we come as a "package deal", they say "see ya" under their breath. So we stand in the corner all night by our selves. Other people friends have told me not to worry about it, that you'll find the right people that will accept you for the way you are. But being a little heavy still haunts me. So, I was wondering if anybody else out there in swingers land has the same hang up that I do????? Any responses would be most appreciated!!
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