Livin24nic8

yeah.... thats also as hot I guess.

Yes... I actually never done it, but I do find myself thinking of it being hot because it's so bad to do... Last night, I saw the movie "Sideways".... There is a scene where a waitress who was just a normal girl bangs one of the characters in the movie and the hubby catches her cheating... Then later, he is banging her and talking dirty to her calling her a slut for cheating. Crazy but I admit I found it hot. Again, never done it... Just got turned on by the idea.

I know the swinging lifestyle is all about being with someone and having sex with others at the same time, but does anyone find it hot to cheat or sneak around? I know it's fucked up and destructive, but I am just trying to be honest.

Very nice story indeed. I think this story only works because you and the guy know 100% what you are getting into. You both know eventually you will do the deed. That's one of the reasons waiting and kind of dating the way you are is such a nice experience. Otherwise, it would just be another date which isn't bad either, but just not the same.

I think it would be interesting to find this out... This is on an individual basis, not household... If only one spouse works, then post that number. If both works, please pick the higher one of the two and use that number.

I think I would be down for just about everything as long as it's safe. About the other man thing though, I have been in MFMs and I enjoy that due to the fact that the girl is getting off so much. However there is no sexual activity between me and the other guy.