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About sexycouple43way

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    St. Louis, Mo
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    Just Started

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    STL_Sexycouple
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    PTs & Club 64
  1. Wow!!! Didn't think this topic would draw as much attention that it did. Great feedback!! THANK you ALL for the advise. I've conclude that I probably did overreact. It's just that as a military man, I've always operated by the "wingman" .....or woman concept (I got your back and you have mine.) I now realize in this lifestyle I can't fire nuclear at a target that requires something conventional. And I certainly can't "punch out" when I have a clear landing ahead Nevertheless, we've moved passed that night and are charging full steam ahead. In retrospect it really wasn't that bad of a night as first timers. Once again, thanks for the great advise.
  2. My GF and I have been dating a little over a year and midway through our relationship we discussed the issue of bring another partner into our mix (FFM). Having 2 females at once has always been a fantasy of mine and she confessed her curiosity of being with another female. Well to put things into motion, we subscribed to a couple of web sites (AFF and Sexsearch) with absolutely no results in finding a third partner. Through one of those sites, we were invited to join a local swing group. I had my reservations about it because to me it was going too far to the extreme. My GF took great interest it and informed me that our chances of finding a 3d female would be greater in that environment as apposed to sinking countless of dollars monthly into adult dating web sites that was bring absolutely nothing in return. Moreover, (she says) it would be a great way to meet other couples. Well to fast forward a tad, we attended a couple of meet and greets and to my surprise we had a great time and met few couples that we've became somewhat close to (Haven't played with them tho). Well here's my dilemma and bear with me as I set it up. Last week we attended our first party and I must say we were both a tad bit nervous. We established our ground rules prior to attending and that would be whatever happened, we would do it together. The Party; there were several couples there as well as numerous single females. We met up with a couple we met prior and mingled with others. We drank, laughed, joked, and drank, got a great excitement out of the shows being performed and oh, did I mention we drank. On one occasion, my GF asked me if I saw anyone I'd like to be with and I made her aware to one attractive lady who I was eyeing all night and who I thought was eyeing us. Nevertheless, We were really enjoying ourselves. Ok, This is where those drinks makes the recount of the event somewhat dim but from what I can recall, I was approached by one of the single females. Throughout our conversation, I was asked what I was looking for and I expressed my desire for a 3-some and asked her to proposition my GF. In my drunken state, I recall adjourning to a back room with the both of them. While there were others in the room, we started to get busy. GF was giving me a BJ while the other was pleasing the GF. It was very exciting to see my GF really enjoying her first encounted and she was really into it. Well to my surprise the female whom we had our eye on all night joined in for a moment also. Thinking to myself, "jackpot" we found just what we were looking for, we all got dressed (guess I got "star struck" because we started to become the stars of the show) and as a first, wasn't looking for such of a crowd. Afterwards, I spoke to my GF and told her she needs to hook-up with her. We hung around the party for another hour or so when we decided it was time to go which brings me to my problem. On the way out, my GF says she had to go to the bathroom. Well as I waited for her (almost 10 minutes) she came out. Wondering what was going on I stuck around briefly to see who, if any would follow her. Low and behold it was the female we were suppose to get together with. The same female who I thought had her eye on us turned out to only have her eye only on my GF. OHHHH I was livid. Our drive back home was nothing but silence. I felt left out and deceived. We arrived at the party with "rules of engagement" and I felt she didn't follow them. Her excuse was that the other female must have been following/stalking her because just as she was walking in the bathroom the other girl was right behind her. She went on to say that she got caught up in the moment and that she was trying to set something up for the both of us. Needless to say, the other has no interest in me only my GF. My GF was very apologetic saying she had no ill intentions but only to make what we both were looking for to happen. Not buying the line she was feeding me, we did not speak to each other for 3 days. We just started talking again and she states it’s really not all that serious and promises me that she’ll make it up to me. I feel our quest to charge in together was compromised by her desire to go in alone. My GF and I are an attractive couple but I really feel a deflation of my ego and somewhat a betrayal of her. She got her's but I was left out. Am I overacting????
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