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  1. Exactly... That's what I feel about it. Either one can be intimate or just be form of a way of having sex with another person, swinging. To me, that is one of the buttons that make me go,I am still at the starting line..in neutral without it. Without it, to me it is like being used for their own selfish gain , get what they want and not what you need. I have had a few men that didn't kiss and personally to me, there wasn't much enjoyment in it, hop on, hop off. I won't be calling them back. To us, kissing is part of the enjoyment of swinging otherwise... is it like we are dogs or animals with no feelings at all?
  2. It is terrible what society has done to people. It has been a double edged sword. I can remember when women were oogled at for their breasts.Men ( generally ) liked big breasts. Ok. That bothered women very much, to the point of now having the breast implants. Because they felt that they were not big enough for the men. Now... the shoe is one the other foot, men feel inferior because of their size. Sad, but true. Society had drilled this into us. It is sad to me to see this going on, I wish it would stop. My first husband was 9" and it wasn't worth it to me..the size didn't do anything. He was concerned for himself, not me. Besides..it was a bit too long and sometimes painful. My husband now is much better, smaller a little , but much better. To me it is how you use it, not the length that counts. I really don't know why some women prefer longer ones, really...i mean, you only have so much room. And from what i hear, the men with the longer ones can't fit them all the way in, making it miserable for them. Not enjoyable that much to them either. Now..if i was a man, i would happy to be able to use what i had. I always tell my husband how good he is .. :p making him feel happy with himself. This is just my opinion...but i think love and praise go a long way. Female half of FromFlorida
  3. What a boring world this would be if there weren't physical differences in people. I personally find some of the 'flaws' quite interesting, at times. Sometimes even desirable. The weight issue is a perfect example. Until a woman's weight reaches the point that it interferes with sex, I prefer the slightly heavier ones. They are softer and more physically comfortable, for me anyway, to be with. Also, from my limited experience, I have found them to usually be more playful and affectionate. As for the original topic,liars are the things I dislike the most. People that misrepresent themselves or their intentions, are plentiful. It seems that many think the politically correct thing to say, is that they are truly looking for friendships. But when it gets right down to it, they are just notch collectors.
  4. Another issue, I would think, would be the emotional impact of this type of introduction to sex. Will she still be able to develop the emotional bonds necessary for any kind of a lasting marriage? Each person is different, of course. The emotional maturity, in most of the teenagers we have come into contact with lately, is sadly lacking. From what we have seen and been told, their conception of all sex, is entirely recreational. I don't know if this changes, as they grow and mature. It is a sad thing though, to think about going through life and never be able to develop these bonds with a mate. Maybe a swingers introduction to sex would make no difference either way, for her. But certainly it is something to consider.
  5. "In the state of Fla. it is called statutory rape." A fairly recent experience with the State of Florida showed us that the laws have changed considerably, and are enforced differently from one city to the next. A lesser indiscretion, in one town, could ruin a young mans life. But a major act of rape, could go unpunished, in another. Any way you look at it, sex and minors can be a bad situation.
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