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About LOL_OMG

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    Lifestyle Mentor
  • Birthday 06/19/1951

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    where we're at
  • Interests
    Both musicians
  • Swinging Experience
    4 years

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  • SLS Name
    LOL_OMG
  • Favorite Club(s)
    ALL OF EM

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  1. Honestly, swinging is an experience you add to the relationship you already have. If he trusts you, and you trust him...a lot of honesty and conversations...it goes how you want it to
  2. LOL I enjoyed the rant also, many things we've also experienced. Swingers are pretty tenacious, this too shall pass Mrs.
  3. Playing devils advocate a bit.... Once you met and she didn't "portray" her picture and your hubby was turned off....WHY did you continue to IM at all? Pretty much for us, that's that. So then you meet them and play with yours and hers and she has to just take pictures? His poor wife had to feel like a doormat. You're informed by HER that he's in love with you. You still decide to meet them and bring it out in the open. You make a play date with them, but since they are late you are dancing/climbing all over someone else...and he's upset? Seriously, red flag 101. Sometimes people like the attention, and like having another man in "love" with them. Maybe you like having the power over him that his wife doesn't have? Seems just a teensy narcissistic to me. Mrs
  4. Oh hunny we have so done that many times. Meet a couple over drinks...have a great time...plan to meet again, and never see them again. Meet up with a couple and play, everyone is attracted to each other and have a great time...and it's kind of over. We're like... what the hell did we do? Basically it comes down to not thinking about it. If it didn't work for them for whatever reason (maybe she got a corn on her toe and thinks maybe you saw it!) it's all good. The best part is finding a couple who fit that niche you're looking for...whatever it may be. It's not as easy as it sounds Mrs.
  5. The most important thing is to pay attention to the rules when visiting a club for the first time. If they don't give you a walk through or just say 'We have the same rules as other clubs' request 'their' specific rules. I say this because most club rules are similar but as mentioned before state and local laws can make for some strange rules. An example: One of our favorite clubs had to make a deal with an establishment down the street that has strippers and porn flicks. Said club had to agree to not show porn and no total nudity outside the play area. By following these rules the club is very popular and thriving. A couple of other places we go to have total nudity and play anywhere in the club. Ask questions if your not sure and have a blast . Mr. Omg
  6. I consider these overused if I see it even once...just fyi Profiles that say 'Taking a break', yet every time their profile pops up they are on-line. Profiles that have no pics, no certs, and are obviously written by the guy and end with 'Male can play alone'. 'Hot Couple looking for Same' We just spent a day at the beach, are both crispy critters, does that count? 'We are a full swap couple' A paragraph later - 'We do not Kiss' Mr. Omg
  7. Denlin I don't want this to come off harsh, but in my eyes what your wife is doing is wrong on at least two levels. One, she's having sex with her boss, that scenario looks like a big minefield to me. Two, you both are encouraging a cheater, which in the bosses mind he is, even if he's single he thinks your wife is cheating on you. I hope things work out ok but my thoughts are that we will be hearing bad news from you down the road. Mr. Lol
  8. Hi guys Good to see you on-line again. We can relate, we're on a break of sorts ourselves. A few months ago we met a couple that we thought would be good friends for a long while. Not only did that not happen but the whole experience soured things for us very badly. We havn't given up though.(see next paragraph) Having said that try and remember the good times as well. Like...the SB meet up in Columbus, followed by breakfast at a certain monkees house, etc. The only reason we didn't quit completely is because we have had some very good times and met some good people we would not have otherwise encountered. Hope to see you both again sometime in the future. Lol_omg
  9. My thoughts, from over here in the East side of Ohio, are they already have strike one just with the name. Club Sinday? Might as well put a sign on the roof with an arrow pointing down saying 'Swingers Inside'. And isn't that area the home of the infamouus group that went after the Strippers? with the born again Porno addict leading the charge? Just wonderin. Mr. Omg
  10. 14,942 as of this afternoon. It actually kinna torques me off lol. Mrs
  11. I myself think that Mr GT has a very valid point. There are IMHO alot of women who don't know what sex can be like. They haven't been told or read or taught that sex can be good for both parties. I was one of those women, WAS... When I first met Mr LOL, I thought that a blowjob was just to put a cock in your mouth and try not to be disgusted. With some trust and honesty he taught me that it takes a bit more Now, not only do I like sucking cock...I think I'm pretty darn good at it. I'm guessing, but I think Mrs deadfish has been a bit sheltered...sexually. She probably is a bit embarassed to ask advice. Sometimes a good couple can talk frankly and honestly, and see where she's coming from, if you are so inclined Mrs
  12. If you take the words as they are Bi-Curious means what it sounds like. If a Bi-female reads more into it than there is then that falls on them. If the MRs. wants to get more into this cool, if not i will reply to any comments, after asking her of course 0_0. Mr. Omg
  13. IMO the answer for a majority of these problems(not all) is simpler than most are making it out to be. Swinging is like dating squared, 4 people trying to find common sexual ground compared to 2. Getting a bit comfortable with the other person makes a world of difference and usually that is difficult to accomplish on the first and sometimes even second encounter. Most people seem to give up after one meeting that doesn't go the way they imagine it should. My advice would be if you like the other couple, then give it at least two more attempts, if the problem persists then move on or move them to the non-swinging friends catagory if they accept that. Mr. Lol
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