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rndydebind

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About rndydebind

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 07/04/1960

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Avon, IN
  • Occupation
    Chemical Engineer / Domestic Goddess
  • Swinging Experience
    4 yr

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    rndydebind
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Reel One
  1. I agree (M 1/2). Blondie and Dagwood have GOT to be swingers ! So the next poll is, if a cartoon couple were swingers, which couple would you like to hook up with
  2. I can't speak for Mr. Goodtimes, but being that sarcasm is a high form of humor, and is not in and of itself an insult, it comes down to how you meant to employ sarcasm. I did not detect any meanness or intent to insult in your comment. However, I can see where it could look that way. Its one of the shortcomings of forums and E-Mails that there are only emoticons and formatting to convey those extra bits of meaning that would have made your intent clear. We usually get that from things like body language and tone of voice, along with the person's voice cadence and where they place emphasis. You just can't get all that in a text message. Sigh.
  3. Thanks to all of you who were kind enough to respond. Also, thanks for the supportive way in which you have treated me. You folks are great! I will try both suggestions: A larger condom (I was not using a 'large' size) and it rolled on fairly tight; and using it with the Mrs. for a while to get used to it and defray any performance anxiety that may have built up from my failures while 'in my rubber coat'. Again, thank you!
  4. Hi, I have an embarrassing problem, and the answer to it is probably that nothing but getting used to it will help. But I wanted to ask the extremely kind and insightful people on this site for any advice they might have. My wife and I have been 'dabbling' in this lifestyle for a while now (about 4 years, I think), getting out to 'play' maybe once a month or a little less. We started out with sharing fantasies and then soft swap, made the leap to full swap, and recently we have even had a separate room experience. My problem is I just can't keep it up once I put on a condom. Foreplay gets me nice and hard, but when I roll that thing onto my nice proud erection, it begins to deflate. And it doesn't really come back. Additional foreplay, oral sex or whatever after I have the condom on just doesn't help. I know that it is just me. I don't know what it is about me that makes that happen. Anybody else experience this? Limp banana in Indiana
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