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Deptydog

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About Deptydog

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  • Birthday 08/05/1962

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  • Relationship Status
    Married Couple
  • Location
    Lakeland, Florida
  • Interests
    Crafts, computers, photography, and of course Sex
  • Occupation
    Dream maker
  • Swinging Experience
    15 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    IreneNBob
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Used to go to the Pleasure Palace.

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  1. It's hard to say what I would do. I have no tolerance of abusive behavior. And I would have to wonder if my wife was safe with him, so we probably wouldn't play. If he were to become abusive in front of me, it would take bloodhounds to find the pieces of the body, ya know what I mean? I guess I would be as supportive to the woman as I could, and offer her an avenue to get professional and legal help. But if she refused, then there's not a lot you can do. After all, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. So, I guess I've pretty much repeated what everyone else has said here, huh?
  2. We've had a single guy friend who joins us on average of once a week. I love to watch my wife writhing in pleasure. Our friend is very respectful and nice and we have a realtionship with him outside the bedroom as well. He's a good friend. We look for couples and the elusive single female as well, but this is still a lot of fun for us.
  3. Thank you for the input. I have changed it a bit and added more detail. I hope this is better. Thanks
  4. I'm sure that our SLS profile needs a lot of work as well. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. However, I don't know how to link our profile to here. Our SLS name is also Deptydog. Thanks
  5. OK, here's my 1/50th of a follar. This forum is, IMHO, supposed to be for the free exchange of information, ideas, and friendship. In every group of people, there will be some who say (or post) things which, intentional or not, are going to offend somebody. Unless the post is obviously meant to be offensive, grow a thicker skin people. And in case anyone is interested in joining, I'm the president of my local chapter of P.O.O.P. which stands for People Offended by Offended People. Ok, rant over. My wife and I have swung (swinged?) with black couples as well as white couples. No difference for us. We concentrate on what's inside the skin rather than what's outside of it. BTW, funny story. I was once dating a girl between marriages and we had been sleeping together for about 3 months. One day, after bumping uglies, we started talking about our first time. I mentioned that I lost my virginity to a black girl. My girlfriend got up, got dressed, and threw me out of her house. She said that I had been tainted and refused to speak to me again. Ahhhh America. The land of enlightenment.
  6. I think you are going to find prejudice no matter where you go. I know that when my wife and I used to attend the PDC parties in Greensboro, there were several black couples who also attended and they seemed to be welcomed with open arms (and legs ) Have you tried PDC?
  7. Well, since I don't want to make this a 30 page post, I'll try to keep my answer short and sweet. Swinging - I'd define that as having sex with someone other than your partner or spouse, with their consent. However, that isn't the complete definition. There's soft swinging, full swap, and so on. So I guess I'd say that it is being involved in a sexual situation with someone other than your partner, but with their consent. Lifestyle - This one is a much broader term IMHO. The best way I can define it is to use my wife and I as an example. We started swinging 13 years ago. We had occasional couples or singles, but it wasn't really something we "were". Now, we are in a Lifestyle. We look for situations, we plan our swinging events, and it has become a much larger part of our life. One of the things that we discussed was that we enjoyed going to parties because we were free to be ourselves without having to worry about offending someone else who might be more "prudish" than ourselves. We were able to have an adult conversation and not have to keep ourselves in check. And if we met someone and there was good chemistry, well great. If not, well great. We are just enjoying ourselves. Did I muddy the water up at all?
  8. This question occurred to me while replying to another post. Is there any distinction in your minds between swinging and being in the "Lifestyle"? For myself, I'd have to say yes. I could take up several pages to explain my position, but I want to hear what you all have to say.
  9. As for Avatars, I think ours speaks for itself. Face pictures aren't a problem for me, but Mrs. DD doesn't like the idea, so we don't share ours with many people until we've spoken with them a couple of times. If we want someone to see ours, we send them in an email. If someone won't consider speaking with us until they've seen our face picture, then I think that they are too hung up on looks. And besides, it's their loss. I'll grant you that looks are important and there should be some attraction to the other couple. However, how much trouble is it really to get to know the person behind the face first. Pardon my French, but if you just want to get laid, hire a hooker. Mrs. DD and I want friends as well as bed partners.
  10. We met a single female about 12 years ago, but she was more interested in Mrs. DD than with us as a couple. More recently, we have a single female with whom we have played who we met as half of a married couple. Now, he's gone, and she's single again, and we still play with her. He turned out to be a total jerk. :slam"
  11. Like the song says----> I like my women just a little on the trashy side. BTW, that's country music for those of you who aren't familiar. I tell my Mrs. that the sluttier she acts, the better I like it, however, we confine that type of behavior to our swinger parties. It wouldn't be appropriate in the local Wal-Mart, but on the dance floor or in the party room...
  12. Mrs DD and I are a white couple. We met a black couple at a swinger party about 3 years ago. We were attracted to each other and the chemistry was right so we all hooked up. No problems. Later, after two or three more hook-ups, they invited me solo over to their house to play. The Mrs. wanted a MFM, so, with my wife's blessing, I went. While there I noticed a copy of the Koran on their mantle. This was about, what, 12-18 months after 9/11. When asked, they said that, yes, they were Muslim. Still no problem for me or my wife. They said that they don't bring it up anymore when getting together with others because they have been the target of a lot of hatred. Mind you, he is in the U.S. Air Force and she is a sweet, wonderful person. This all took place near Richmond, VA (the capital of the Confederacy) and still boggles the mind. head bang I know that I have been the target of small minded people because of my religion. (She said that she couldn't work with someone who wasn't a christian, so she quit the job. ) For the majority of swingers I've known, race and religion aren't an issue. Only what you are carrying between your legs and between your ears.
  13. Personally, I think he was too pushy. And if he told you to "relax", that was way off base. It's YOUR wife, remember! As I've stated in the past, my first responsibility is to protect my wife. That includes from overly aggressive guys.
  14. Just1gurl, I thought the carrots were cute as an avatar. I used to live in DC when I was in the Army. PM me some time and we'll swap stories. As for the rules...we had too many to start with. We wouldn't play with people unless they we had established a relationship with them first (which ruled out many of the people we were meeting at parties). We even had rules about what our play partners did for a living. Now, we try to keep each other in mind so as to not bruise any feelings. We each have "veto" power over any potential playmates. We make sure that we each know where the other is at all times. I feel that my first job is to keep Mrs. DD safe at all times. Secondly, I want her to have the best time that I can provide for her.(remind me to tell you about the dance sometime) Lastly, I look to my own pleasure. It seems to be working so far.
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