In swinging, what does your wife/SO do that you think is sexy, makes her hot at that moment, or drives you wild while watching her? Is it the flirting with another man (or woman), the way she dresses for a lifestyle party, kissing, dancing...seeing her having sex with someone else, or even having her watch you having sex with another person? In our everyday lives we can lose sight of how sexy our beloved can be (and yet notice the sexiness of those around us). So let's hear it fellas...what gets your juices flowing for your lady?