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  1. My most embarrasing moment (other than the kids walking in) was the first time hubby and I spent the weekend together. We met through work on the phone and started talking at home. We talked for about 3months when he decided to come visit me for my birthday. So on my birthday we decide to get up and take a shower. He's standing in the shower holding me up and I have my feet resting on the edges of the tub (use a little imagination) and found out that those little towel racks in the shower are plastic and will come off. So I slip he can't grab me fast enough and not only did I fall but I basically flew threw the air, hit my hip on the soap dish and my head on the faucet. He's trying to pull me out of the tub and of course I'm crying. He's thinking (I don't know where the hospital is) it turns out I was fine just an extremely ugly bruise on my hip and a major headache. To top that all off the reason we were showering in the first place was so he could go meet my parents for the first time. We kept giggling through dinner. Oh well it turned out allright. THe next day we told my parents we were getting married and our adventures haven't stopped yet.
  2. Okay really, not going to college DOES not make someone uneducated. Neither my DH or I finished college although we both went for awhile. However how many people sit our and talk about that Anthropology class they took back in college and when Homo sapiens were around? Many people today are self-educated on topics that come from newspapers, tv and the internet. And many blue collar workers that I know are extremely intelligent and have great conversations without the benefit of higher learning. I understand the wanting to reminisce about your college days, I many times wish that I could. However, I don't not like anyone who would have "professional" in their ad, I would still probably respond because really it's all in the eye of the beholder. My dh gets up every morning and drives into his 8-5 job and then comes home. And many people seem to think that the other half whether they are blue collar or no collar (in my case) just fall into the category of their spouse. Well if that is how other people see it that fine. Also, from the people I know who are "professional" college educated couples are living on a shoestring and credit. In fact I don't think I know anyone that is not living paycheck to paycheck regardless of whether they are "lower class" or "middle class". Anyway, not trying to rant here. I understand people have there preferences. I am a size 14 so most would consider me a BBW, but I don't. I would never be offended by anyone not looking for that. When I started this I was really just interested in what truly constitutes a professional couple so I know whether we should respond to certain ads.
  3. Well, for us for now it would be somewhere on the body, since we are soft swing only. However if we ever progress to full swap it would always be in a condom since I can still get PG. My dh would also always cum in a condom even though he had the big V. Just a preference for us.
  4. I love all the replies. I couldn't agree more with you. It really is a turn-off to see things like this in a profile unless I suppose you are another "professional with a high profile position" I just can't seem to justify this in my head. Although some people are more high profile (tv personality, attorneys, etc...) I am very high profile IMO to my family and my children, discretion is just as important to me as the next guy. And just because I am at home during the day doesn't mean I'm not professional I am a professional parent if we want to get politically correct. I CHOOSE not to work because my DH and I decided that this works for our family. Which leads to another topic. Some people assume that Stay home moms are dumpy stupid and sit home all day and eat bon bons, this really ticks me off. We work just as hard as the next guy. And we have many professions. Some days it is making the perfect cake for our kids, some days it is research assistant for homework, some days it is teacher, some days (like today) Dr., nurse, and cleaning. And you know I may not get paid in $ but my reward for this is so much greater than any monetary pay. I get hugs and kisses and know that I am what my kids need me to be. I know what it is to be the single mom and work at a "job" and come home and wish that I had more time and energy. I am so glad that I have found a man that understands how important this decision is for us. Sorry, I guess I went on a bit, but I am venting a little.
  5. The Mr. Here. Don't post too much but this one got me a little... BOTCPL said: "Sorry, I don't work for attorneys, they work for me." You know I think this is awesome!! The statement. I happen to work in an industry that I have been in for 15 years and only being 29 that makes for a lot more to come. The reality is that at my age most people don't have the experience I do in the industry therefore some people I work with think I don't have a clue. One being our COO and the VP of our company. Our VP is a co-owner who was given 50% of the business and projects the attitude that he is above or better than the rest of us who work there when the reality is since my 15 years I have done everything from moping the floors to running the show and probably have a better sense of it then the 50% owner who got it as a gift 5-6 years ago. So I think the term professional is a load of you know what. If you like the couple/person (whichever you prefer) Who gives a crap, we all put our pants on one leg at a time.
  6. So how many people out there are homemakers? And for those of you that do put "professional" in an ad, would that be a requirement of both people in a couple? Someone said that they would take that to mean "financially in the same area" or something like that. I can totally understand that, however how do you really determine that?
  7. Here's how I see it. Maybe them mean mature and sophisticated couple. I mean really how many people could honestly reply to that. I would think that would immediately eliminate anyone in a blue collar position or with a couple if even one of them works a blue collar job. On top of that you have so many people (like me) who when I worked I was an administrative assistant. I never considered it a profession it was just a job and a bad one at that. Anyway, I don't know what all that means, but regardless of what they are looking for we would never reply to that. I do consider my "job" now to be a true profession and one I am really good at, but that line did make me laugh. And I have noticed that most of the ads that say they are looking for a professional couple also state that they are looking for such because of discretion due to their job. Okay I can see that as valid. You will never see a picture of us unless you ask for one because of discretion, you never know who is lurking, but come on don't we all want discretion?
  8. Well, I debated on wether or not to reply and obviously choose to. My husband is actually my second husband and I had a child with my previous husband. Now both men are good "fathers" but my husband is daddy. My ex will never be daddy. I don't know exactly why it happened this way, but my husband took a more active interest in my son while my ex took a more active interest in parties. However, to answer the question: I don't have an answer. My husband and I have decided to soft swing first. As I can get pregnant but he had the V. I think that it is easy to say that you would have an abortion, but unless you have actually done that in the past, you have no idea about how you would feel about it until you actually had to do it. I have and it was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. And I most certainly would not do it again. My husband loves my son with all his heart and treats him no differently than our son together. To the couple that actually had this happen to them I think that "RNDNV" gave you some great advice. A great example of this would be: If for some reason the wife in your marriage were to pass away, the Biological father could then come and demand custody. At that point you have no legal right to the child, you would end up separating brother/sisters and father/child when you could have legally prevented something in that case. My ex won't turn over parental rights, even though we told him he could still have visitation and just wouldn't have to pay child support. He said no so we filed some papers saying that should either of us pass away the other one's family has legal right to visitation. This is the reason for us to soft swing, we have been in this situation and it is scary, not to mention that I don't want a child with anyone other than my husband. Creating a child is one of the most loving acts a couple can share. Children deserve to be loved and treasured and not something that creates panic and anxiety. I personally would like to have another child, but my hubby doesn't so we have put the discussion away for awhile. But I would beg anyone in this situation to please get legal papers on file as soon as possible to protect your rights and your child. Mrs. 95mustang
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