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  1. Well said jstlkng!!!!!!!!!! Read back to my post #31 and you will see where I make the EXACT point that you just said. And you well said that the short comings of those three great men were well documented. None of their errors involved sex or multiple partners except David and Bathsheba, where David had her husband sent to the front where he would be killed, so David could have her. Davids sins were, #1, not being with the army during a war and #2, staying home and watching the neighbors wife take a bath. And lusting after her to the point of arranging her husband to be placed in harms way. He paid dearly too, God took the first born son. Lust and covetousness seem to be a big problem. But you can lust after your neighbors car too. I wish you would post more of your thoughts on this subject.
  2. 7th Commandment; Exodus 20:Verse 14 (King James Version) - "Thou shalt not commit adultery." - This referred to a man engaging in sexual intercourse with a woman who was either married or betrothed to another man. Then what would you call sex between a married man and his concubine or maidservant? Genesis 16:2 "... go into my maid..." Sarah send her husband, Abraham, into her maidservant Hagar. Did Abraham "sin"?? Just an example of interpretation. II Samual 5:13, "David took him more concubines..." I Kings 11:3 King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines. Something to think about. Was David, Abraham and King Solomon errant sinners? Are they all in Hell? Interpretation is needed. For any verse that can be interpreted one way needs to be balanced by the whole of the Bible. According to the verse quoted above King David, King Solomon and Abraham are all sinners. Dont listen to fundamentalist loonie toons.
  3. Rain is good, but uncontrolled rain will wash you away. "Matthew 22:36-40: “ Then a lawyer asked our Lord Jesus, “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” Jesus' answer: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, you shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang the whole Law and the Prophets.” Here we find Jesus saying the opposite of what law keepers say. From the law the second one is just like the first, equal in importance. What’s Incredible neither one of these are part of the 10 commandments. This first one is found in Deut.6:5 listed under the commandments and statutes and judgments, and the 2nd one is from Lev.19:18 which is alongside the moral laws. Yet Jesus said the 2nd is like the first , unfortunately it is not part of the 10 either. The 10 commandments don’t contain the two greatest commandments but the law of Moses.! Sorry. In Mark 12:28-31, One of the scribes having heard them reasoning together perceiving he had answered them well, asked him “which is the first commandment of all?” (first is translated most important not a numerical order) then Jesus said, the first of all the commandments is this here O Israel the lord our God our God is one and love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind and with all thy strength this is the first or... “THERE IS NONE OTHER COMMANDMENT GREATER THEN THESE.” (Mark 12:31)." Lets see, love God first, ok, he established multiple wives and the concubine system in the OT, so he must be ok with it. Check: Good here. Of course we must comply with the law of the land. Love your brother second to God, ok, knowing that loves WORKS NO ILL TO HIS NEIGHBOR, check: Good here. Swinging doenst bring the element of CHEATING (yes CHEATING) into sex so therefore I am not defrauding the husband by cheating (comitting adultry) with his wife. Remember the woman brought to Jesus to be stoned? Where was her husband? SHE WAS CHEATING. IMO, and my opinion only, cheating-deception-breaking trust is the issue. You can find plenty of verses against being DRUNK. Moderate drinking seems to be allowed. Hmmmmmmmmm Perhaps the same principal applies here. It seems to reason God doesnt really care what we do as long as we dont offend God or offend another human.
  4. We consider ourselves Christian and are swingers. See no conflict at all. PM me if you want to continue this.
  5. This raises another topic. How many of you are cool with a guy eating a pussy full of some other guys cum? Would that be considered gay, bi, straight? I'm not sure how I'd feel about my guy doing that. hmmmmm....something to think about..... L I mentioned this to Denise and she LOVED the idea, even asked that if it ever happened I save some of the cum in my mouth and give to her via kiss. Like you I have reservations but am still intrigued.
  6. That is interesting... I kinda like that idea
  7. Join the club, my wife has lately expressed the same fantasy only involving me. I have two reactions: 1. Tuck and run 2. Isn't this about experimentation? I think it is more common than most men will admit.
  8. Lots of good advice here, I like this one too: "outcome a: she is happy with the event about to transpire, become overly excited at the thougth of your orgasm inside her, it triggers her orgasm and you ride the waves together." That has happened in reverse
  9. I guess I need to start doing that. We sure love the lifestyle and the friends we have made in it. Thanks
  10. Ok, question for the seasoned pros: We are relatively new at this, so here is a dumb question: When I am playing with a lady and she has had a good ride already, and I am about to climax, do I warn her and give her a chance to say "on me not in me" or just let er rip? I have never had another woman complain. I love the lifestyle but still have funny feelings when my wife's partner leaves a load in her or I leave a load my female partner. My wife actually enjoys the man to cum in her or in her mouth (she has a swallowing fetish )
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