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    Birmingham, AL
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    Hunting and killing small animals. Oh! And, shopping.
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    general F*** up

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  1. We grabbed a swing virgin about 2 weeks ago. Single male It was fun & funny all at the same time. Can you say "performance" problems. He finally managed to calm down enough to enjoy himself. We don't go looking for them, no do we advertise for them. But, we do find a single male/female from time to time. Our preference is to swing with couples.
  2. Hobby? Lifestyle? We picked hobby, mainly because the time we actually spend doing it is very limited. Much like a hobby. We do consider ourselves "lifestyle" though. It affects everything we do as a couple. We go to "straight" bars. We're looking at potential couples & singles. We're at the mall, we're looking at other couples and singles. Generally discussing taste and whether we think the other person(s) might be interested. (We know the answer already ) We watch TV, we commonly joke with each other about people on TV we would like to have. The joke part usually runs between whether we would let the other watch/participate, or make them wait in the other room, while one of us done some really freaky things with this party/parties We do manage to keep things very separate when among family and (certain) friends. But rest assured, there is little doubt when you meet us (in a "regular bar"), that something is just not quite right/normal.
  3. We as a rule, try to stick with 30+ ourselves. We've had a couple of very bad experiences with 25 & 27 year olds. Although we both have to admit, those young firm bodies can be enticing As for 30 being the young side! What clubs do you guys attend there. We'll sure want to check them out when we're in the area. We get a lot of 30 and under in TN, MS, & AL
  4. Hard to give an exact answer to that question. We have such hectic schedules. Sometimes we go out monthly. Sometimes, it's months before we go out. On average, about once every 2 months I would have to say. Summer is our slowest period, we have all the kids and it is hard to get away.
  5. I think we'll draw the line at about 55....maybe later. Depending on how well we take care of ourselves, and our looks
  6. Our first experience..... at least Maggies first experience. Was great! Abd involved not one couple, but two couples Sorry I was already in the lifestyle, a long time before meeting her LOL. My first sucked But that was a long time ago. We actually look forward to having more than 4 people in the room now days.
  7. We've made it a rule. No couples under 30 The first time with a younger couple was bad. We decided then to "not" seek younger couples. Well we decided to hook up with not one, but two couples under 30 at the same time, about a year later. Both were soft swing couples. We've both swore it will NEVER happen again. We're starting to think 30 is a magic number here now. All 3 times were insanely stupid, when you consider what happened, and the ending results.
  8. It's all about the money. Like the fortune tellers 900 numbers. There's a sucker born every minute on the web.
  9. Be warned, a couple we play with uses those types of sites. They get PAID to. The wife is a knock out, she post as single and bi in her ads. So you can't always believe what you are reading. But, she makes good money. Just an observation also.
  10. Hit the chat rooms that cater to your area. We frequent several where there are single females and couples all the time. I'm not saying it will be easy. Just that it is possible.
  11. For the most part I (David) do the posting. We both read the post. Sometimes Maggie has some input, most times she doesn't. You'll learn the differance in our posting styes, it's easy to spot.
  12. In all fairness, I think we all have a touch of that in us. It's handled a bit easier than the jealousy issue is though IMO. I doubt anyone else will agree with this comment. But, you can side-step some of this issue, by allowing your "insecure" partner to do the choosing of couples, places, and times. But since you're both having issues...that's not a workable deal. Taking you to task here now You guys are playing a very dangerous game trying to get around 2 very complex emotions, without getting the "real" issues on the table. One of you has jealous tendencies, the other is possesive. You guys really need to sit down and discuss these issues with each other. Address each others concerns, state WHY you feel this way, even if it pisses you off!! ALL good marriages have arguements, in some cases very bad arguements. The differance is, they don't take it personally. They allow each other to voice their concerns, even if it pisses them off. If we stayed PO'd for disagreeing with each other. We would be pissed almost 24/7. But we both realize, we're a team! If we can't find a common playing field, there will be no game (read relationship). There will come a point in time, when you realize that the "real" issue is whether or not you trust each other. And this is when you'll decide to "play the game" or get a divorce. Some additional advice: You're going to be taken to task here by a lot of people. The reason being, you guys haven't really worked out all of your issues/concerns. But, don't let a few biting words deter you from coming here for advice and comment. Based on your post, I would go as far as to say you guys are nowhere near ready to "swing". But you've let the genie out of the bottle, so you need to discuss it with each other rationaly, and to complete resolution. In other words, now is the time to be totally honest with each other and decide whether this is going to happen, at all. Good Luck
  13. We somewhat agree/disagree with each other on this one also. Myself and Maggie. Neither of us really care if we "hook-up". But, the possibility is what makes it so erotic. And, this possibility is very remote at a regular bar. While we both agree, we would like some form of relationship with the people we play with. It doesn't always happen that way. Bottom Line: We go to have fun (sex is fun right?). We also go knowing we might get laid. The single guys are there for the same reason we are.... a chance! With that said, there are more single guys "expecting" a chance than there are couples willing to give them that chance. I (David) really think that everyone goes for the sex, or the possibility of sex with no pressure. We all just approach the sex part in different ways.
  14. Our local club started a new policy. They ow allow 10 single mean in, provided they are sponsored. Old rule..alone..with payment upfront, and a ton of personal information. Now! The couple or single female who sponsors a single male. Is directly responsible for ANYTHING the single does. If he gets tossed out and/or banned from the club. So goes the couple/single female.
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