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Bratcat

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  1. Sorry i haven't posted in SO long, i have had the flu and have just gotten back on my feet. anyway, julie, you are absolutly right... i should have been more outgoing and jumped in the middle of things. i thought about it and i can see that now. we are planning another go round and im going to do just that. and as for the m-f-m threesome, hubby and i talked about it and we both don't want to do that. hubby is not cool with it at all, and i think it would be too much for me as hubby is not bi so we'll stick to the f-m-f thing. i think im getting over the jelousy a bit now, we have talked and i'm more assured of his commitment to me and it feels wonderful to be able to let some of that go. i want to tell you guys how much i appreciate all the advice and thoughts, such a great help. i will let you guys know how the next go round goes too, suppossed to be next weekend happy holidays!! bratcat
  2. thank you all for the advice, he's really trying to make it up to me, but i think it might be a little while before i want another go round. and i do think im going to sit him in a chair next time(loved that suggestion hehe) and just let him watch, but then again, i wont do the tit for tat thing either, i'll just wait until he's REALLY ready to play (evil little grin). I'm going to try to talk to him in a few minutes, he just drove up from work, and i'll let you guys know how it goes wish me luck! i hope i can say all the right things, i dont want to make him feel like sh*t but i do want him to know he made me feel that way. oh, and the girl we were with called today and wanted us to come over tomorrow.... do you think we should? hubby can get off work for it but i told her i didnt know if he could or not, left it kinda open, and im suppossed to call her back in the morning to let her know something. i really like this girl, just not how the hubby acted. should we try again so soon? you guys are great, thank you so much for your responses. and i'll be back later w/ the results of "the big talk"
  3. ok, i dont know how to start all this but my husband and i just had our first threesome... Well, from the very get-go my hubby leaves my side and although he was still talking to me and stuff, well, i kinda felt "not wanted". we have discussed this for over two years! not like it just came up, and he was sooooo understanding to my fears and problems about the whole thing, but when it came right down to it, it wasnt a threesome it was a twosome with a handy third person there to hand out lube, get drinks, cigs, snacks. i feel cheated on now. i talked to him and he apoligized profusely. he got so into making her feel comfortable that he forgot it was my first time too. i feel like i lost something important, what do i do know? for the record, I'm the one who brought up trying a threesome, about two years ago, because i was curious about how it was to be with a girl, very curious. You know what? i didnt even get a chance to have a go at it with her!! didnt even get a chance to try... i'm feeling very hurt i guess. I've never ever had to doubt my hubbys word before, true blue, why did he do that to me tho? he knew how much i needed him to be attentive to me too. I dont know what else to say, what do i do now? have i been cheated on? someone help me out here please...
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