ok, i dont know how to start all this but my husband and i just had our first threesome... Well, from the very get-go my hubby leaves my side and although he was still talking to me and stuff, well, i kinda felt "not wanted". we have discussed this for over two years! not like it just came up, and he was sooooo understanding to my fears and problems about the whole thing, but when it came right down to it, it wasnt a threesome it was a twosome with a handy third person there to hand out lube, get drinks, cigs, snacks. i feel cheated on now. i talked to him and he apoligized profusely. he got so into making her feel comfortable that he forgot it was my first time too. i feel like i lost something important, what do i do know? for the record, I'm the one who brought up trying a threesome, about two years ago, because i was curious about how it was to be with a girl, very curious. You know what? i didnt even get a chance to have a go at it with her!! didnt even get a chance to try... i'm feeling very hurt i guess. I've never ever had to doubt my hubbys word before, true blue, why did he do that to me tho? he knew how much i needed him to be attentive to me too. I dont know what else to say, what do i do now? have i been cheated on? someone help me out here please...