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About funnnish

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 06/23/1959

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Florida
  • Interests
    Modeling lingerie and photography
  • Occupation
    We just play
  • Swinging Experience
    3 years

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  • SLS Name
    funnnish
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Trapeze, Ft Laurderdale

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  1. funnnish

    Swingers Beach Code

    When we moved to central Florida near the Gulf beaches we found it somewhat difficult to meet new friends whom we felt would enjoy soft swinging with us. When we walked on the beach we noticed many other couples walking together who seemed to be very sexually involved with each other but none paid any attention to us which was quite frustrating. After about two months, we decided we would simply introduce ourselves to a couple we'd seen several times sitting at the same spot. They explained to us that this beach was a 'couples meeting area,' and that there was an unspoken code that 'everyone knows' that indicates you are swingers and want to meet others like you. Unattached couples would carry a rolled up newspaper in their hand or beach bag if they wanted to meet another couple to play with. We were surprised but willing to give it a try so the next day we rolled up our paper and brought it along on our walk. We'd walked about a mile when we met the first couple carrying a paper but they were much younger than us so we kept on going. A bit further up the beach we saw a couple about our age but they didn't have a paper. However, they saw our paper and approached us explaining they were aware of the code but were only interested in Soft Swap type fun. That was exactly what we were seeking so we walked along with them for about 30 minutes getting to know each other. They were very patient and not pushy which made us more comfortable. Finally, I suggested we switch and walk with each other's partner for a while to see how if felt. I was getting excited and could tell that my husband was also. Our marriage had been getting boring and dull and we both knew we needed some excitement to reinvigorate our sex lives but we didn't want to have sex with anyone else. Soft Swinging suited our needs, we thought, so here we were beginning our first encounter with another couple. I clearly remember the first time we smiled, the first time we touched, the fun we had flirting with each other, and how exciting it was to do all of it as two couples instead of two people. When my husband began touching his new partner I felt a tinge of jealousy right away; and, I was aware that he was watching my every move with my new partner, tightening up as I touched and flirted with my new guy. But, we both looked at each other and nodded approval because we had agreed to give this a try and we both knew it was working. It was both painful and exhilaratingly erotic at the same time. In fact, it was much more exciting because we could both touch and be touched at the same time, in addition to playing voyeur. I think we both exaggerated our moves on our new partners almost in an effort to act more passionate than was happening. But, what started out to be almost a 'fake orgasm' type of performance would grow further than either of us could have dreamed. We were obviously smitten by our new found friends and naturally wanted to be together with them some where that we could express our passion more privately. We decided to walk back to the parking lot and go have dinner together. We found a beachside lounge that was very casual with a great combo so we could have a drink and dance. The place was rockin' so we kind of got lost in the crowd which enabled us to briefly separate from our spouses to pay more attention to our new partners. We all realized that our Soft Swapping desires were growing to points beyond that and this surprised us. We discussed our emotions and temptations. We knew we must slow this down or we would go too far. We were seated together in a booth with each other's spouses beside us. We listened to the band and watched the beautiful sunset. We began to discuss each other's fantasies to see if some might be compatible for the four of us to consider doing together. One we all agreed would be erotic would be to spend an evening together beginning with some lingerie modeling and taking pictures of each other. Next we would grill on our barbeque then cap off the night nude in our hot tub with some wine and under water touching fun. I was getting hot just planning this adventure and I sensed that everyone else was also. I secretly wondered where all this would lead us but it felt too good to stop now. This was the first time I had felt truly sexually alive in three long years and I deserved it. Plus, I knew my husband felt the same way even though it was hard for him to admit. We set up a date for the rendezvous at our house and when that night came we were both so excited that we could hardly wait for our new friends to arrive. The hot tub was the high point of the evening, as you might imagine. We all restrained ourselves and stuck with our Soft Swap rules which I think now, in retrospect, made it all much more erotic than had we simply given in quickly to a more conjugal conclusion. About midnight, I said, 'What will be our next adventure, guys?' It was so much fun to discuss and plan with all of our erotic and kinky thoughts being revealed to each other. We decided to all go to a Swinger's Club which none of us had ever done before. We all wanted to see what the real thing was like and if we felt we could ever go that far. We found an on premise club where we could actually watch full swap couples dancing and playing together. It was expensive but worth every minute of it because we learned so much about the respect and consideration couples in this club paid to each other regarding what could and could not be done. No meant No and it was obviously obeyed by all the members. It made us feel more secure and less fearful of an encounter with real Swingers. We had a great time and left the club to go have breakfast together to talk about what we'd just observed. We decided afterwards that we would return in two weeks and meet some of the other couples there to see if they would accept us as soft swappers. What do you think happened? We don't need to carry the newspaper anymore!
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