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  1. I agree with that philosophy VaFunCpl. I often wonder about the "I'm-not-gay-but-I-like-to-suck-cock syndrome. I think there are too few classification grades to go on. So far it's hetero, bi or gay but I think there are an infinite number of grades with hetero and gay being at each end of the line. Please correct me, anyone, if you see it differently but I don't think anyone is totally hetero or totally gay but that everyone falls into the shades in between. Almost like a question of how much of one or the other you are. For example, you may be 10% hetero and 90% gay. You could be 20% hetero and 80% gay. What level are you "not gay"? If we start to discriminate based on fine differences in level then we have no chance...
  2. This would appear to be a very good time and place to ask this question: Catherine and I have a long-standing fantasy about her being groped by strangers in a club while she is dancing with me. We get off on that a lot. Now, if the fantasy was realized, what is the down side(s)?
  3. It's a very vicious circle isn't it? You "protect" your kids from knowledge about what happens in the real world and they develop this "belief" that you are non-sexual beings. So when they discover that you really DO have sex, it shocks them. Why on earth doesn't everyone just tell their kids straight from the word "go"? What is the fear of them learning at this age instead of that age? I have heard of too many "sheltered" children who end up pregnant at 12 or 13 because they simply didn't know. My advice on this is to simply tell your daughter the whole story. Not necessarily in minute detail but educate her. Tell her how YOU feel about it. If you don't, she will develop her own ideas and you have absolutely no control over that. So you could at least put her straight in that respect. Right now she doesn't know what to think which should not be construed as meaning that she doesn't think anything at all. She does think. But without your input, you have no idea where her thoughts are going. She saw the pictures. You can't change that. You can only change what she knows.
  4. I am getting so horny just reading this thread!!!
  5. LOL You should have been hiding somewhere in the living room if you wanted to see anything
  6. Hi chastityrings It was not a show off thing when we did it. I don't know what anyone else does, I never studied it. I know at the time, we were just horny and needed relief. It was a guy thing and we simply understood with all of us feeling the same way. I think the subject of sex (with girls) came up and it was just too much to ask us to ignore. That's all it was for us. We didn't know we would be judged for it later if it ever came up (as it is now). But no, it was not a competition thing or anything. We were just horny guys who didn't have hangups about relieving ourselves in company. You learn that later...
  7. We (ex-wife and I) were often nude in front of our children the same as nudists would be. They didn't run in terror, nor did they grow into sexual horrors because of it. We were simply - naked. Nothing more. We could not see a problem with it nor do we see one now that the children are over 20 years old. We are human. What is the problem with other humans - our kids or anyone else - seeing us in our natural state? Can anyone give a rational reason why we should cover up? We do because we know that some people have some weird notions on nudity that I just can't fathom. But in our own home? Where is the problem unless you consider yourself pretty ugly in the nick?
  8. I never much have the urge to have anal sex but I know that the anus is one of the three major erogenous zones and as such can be very effective in bringing on an orgasm. On occasion, I will tease her anally with a finger while having conventional sex in either the missionary or with her on top. Sometimes doing it doggy style. But I don't try to take out her tonsils through it, just light teasing generally toward the perineum and perhaps only as deep as half a finger or so. The results are dramatic where an additional hit on an orgasm is concerned.
  9. dr&mrs@px This might be a late post but it won't be for anyone reading it who has a similar doubt in their mind. I would dearly love to present the email I received from Catherine here. Suffice it to say, she had an excellent time with a guy who I found and virtually interviewed long distance for her. Even gave him some clues about what she likes so he could best "service" her so to speak. He did it so well that she wants him again and you know what? It would be my pleasure to give her that. She shared it with me the next day, I feel like I was a part of it and I was over 2000 miles away at the time. We talk now like nothing has happened except she has the experience now. I don't feel threatened in any way and she really had a great time. She knows she doesn't have to leave me to have sex with another guy. The only "rule" we have is that she share the details with me (and I with her in the reverse situation). I think it is a matter of comfort levels. You have to know each other well. I would not be comfortable if I found out she did something without telling me. At least your wife told you, its a good start. My 2 cents...
  10. So the no-kissing rule has been superseded by the no-holding-hands rule? Doesn't the "love and commitment" that could handle a deep passionate kiss also handle hand-holding? Or do we really have some physical limits after all?
  11. Ok, without wanting to offend anyone, as I have been incorrectly accused of doing deliberately, I can imagine two different people who were brought up with different views of masturbation. Some would consider it a shameful act and others would not give a hoot. I lean toward the latter. If it feels good do it and I am not ashamed of it. That doesn't mean I am silly with it as that would be as foolish to me as being ashamed of it. If you think it is a shameful act then of course you are not going to do it in company. Does that make better sense? I apologize publicly to anyone I have offended in this or any other thread.
  12. Let's get it further back on track - it is boys who circle-jerk mostly, not men (that I know of - outside of bukkake clubs). I don't do it now and didn't do it more than twice as a young teenager before I "learned" not to. Depends on your point of view as to whether it ruins snack foods. There are those in the bukkake clubs for instance who will drink a glass of the stuff. The only thing the cookie or biscuit or whatever adds is a few calories. I am sure there are some who could actually do it and would say that it improved the cookie. Finally, we did it for relief, not for pleasure, however much pleasure we derived from it... and its not a matter of standing in a circle beating in time with other or anything dumb like that. I am sitting here, he's over there, that guy is over yonder, another guy somewhere else in the house... we just happened to be doing the same thing... is that any clearer (if no more acceptable...)?
  13. CuriousAgain? Who was the man out cheating with??? Maybe you are just hearing the woman's side of it more? I mean they don't just go out and cheat do they? They have to be doing it with someone so I imagine there is a reasonably even number of both sexes, now AND then... Or do you mean "out running around"?
  14. If you bring people home or invite them over, a reasonably interesting method is to suggest a standing "clothes-off-at-the-door" house rule. The ice is broken instantly if they do it and I have found that many people are amused and even relieved by it. Their tension is broken at the doorstep. In general, don't take too long to make the first move. The longer it goes, the harder it gets to initiate and everyone feels more uncomfortable than sexy. Too much time to doubt is going to be a party killer. (ref: several swinging experiences with my first wife)
  15. Thanks LM My personal knowledge of the game is now the same as yours. I only know OF it. It's funny how perceptions work. I have no problem going down on Catherine after a dozen guys have cum in her but I am not going to touch that flippin' biscuit...
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