pixieandelf7

Many powders are made from talc, but the Burt's Bee's powder is cornstarch based and has calming herbs added in. I'm only using it in my heinie crack, lol. No yeastie beasties for me.

I am frustrated with this, also. There is more than one half of a couple, so show him! Ugly or not, the eyes speak volumes. I always wondered if the male was embarrassed that his wife hogged up the ad, or if he had hurt feelings because his wife thought his photo would turn away prospective couples?? If he balked at the picture going into the ad, then that tells me he has poor self esteem, and I don't want that, either. And if it was a matter of discretion, much can be done to doctor a photo so that the face is not easily recognizable.

Well, I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem. Elf and I took a really good look at them together. It's not *as* bad as I thought, but there's room for improvement! We bought the Neutrogena Microdermabrasion Kit. I'll update here if I see any results. I also bought Mederma, which will lighten the scars and force them to make new skin cells. I also have a glycolic peel I'll be using 3x per week. I'm also thinking maybe I need a powder in my crack? Burt's Bees makes a calming cornstarch powder with herbs for babies. Seems gentle enough. I will have a pretty (hairless) kitty and crack. If nothing works, I will shell out for the dermatologist.

Yes Julie! That's it, they're not any further in, not ON my vagina or ON my thighs, just the 'runway' flanking both sides of my vagina, and a few on my heinie crack, lol. Elf says it shows up way more in pics than it appears in real life, though. I am going to try the Dove deoderant stick, though!

That's really horrible. I'm so sorry you had to witness that. Hugs.

Okay, this is rather embarrassing to post, but here it goes. This isn't a shaving question, just prefaced by my shaving habit. I have sensitive fair freckled skin. I have been shaving my nether region for years. Occassionally I get an ingrown hair that more or less is like a volcano. The will swell internally and I have at time, used boil creams to draw it out. This happens about three times per year and they HURT. My midwife (also my gyn) says it's simply ingrown hairs that get exacerbated by a gland down there. I have exfoliated regularly, coupled with shaving. Use Bikini Zone and Aveeno Sensitive shaving cream with a Venus Vibrance razor. I have used Nair, even plucked once, and it's the same. I think it's more the gland thing. The scars are ugly, acne/pox-like, and I am terrified someone will think I have Herpes or something. My husband doesn't notice it at all, he says. Would a dermatologist touch it? How much do you think it would cost? Could I do an at home microdermabrasion kit? Other than the scars flanking my labia and crack, the anatomy is fine, no complaints. What can I do to get rid of the scars???? Am I the only one with this problem??? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!

Thanks, and you are absolutely correct, 14 *is* the average size in this country. I am content with my body and I know what to do with it, isn't that the point?? I did post to the "Ad review" thread, though. There were plenty of normal couples in our area, and I did email a few people, but no replies. Elf keeps calling me all excited to see if anyone got back to us and I hate to disappoint him by saying 'no.'

We paid for a membership to X-Match and have clean normal face and full body photos up, and we *are* an attractive couple, despite me being a size 14, we've not been added to a single hotlist yet. It's making me feel like it's because I am not Barbie. Elf has a (shorter 5'6) Ken body, maybe not so much the face, but he's a hottie. I'm hot, damn it, and sexy. I really feel like a fatty amongst Barbies on that site. Is this a known 'Barbie site"? Should we join somewhere else? Sorry to hijack...

I enjoy it, but unfortunately, Elf is quite thick and the next few days brings with it pain like razor blades when trying to do #2, so we use a slimmer dong or probe. I have a much more intense orgasm with something in my arse. I love the way you can feel the schphincter muscles pulsate and tighten when I orgasm. Mmmmm...