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jjmcd

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About jjmcd

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 03/06/1952

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Richmond Va
  • Occupation
    Consultant
  • Swinging Experience
    10+ years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    jjmcd
  • Favorite Club(s)
    The Cottage, The Private Affair, TJ's
  1. Boy, you have a really difficult challenge. (Duh, like you don't know that already). The best idea is to leverage the network of people you have. People In the Lifestyle who have friends are probably your best bet. Finding a couple of stable pairs that have external social (non swinger) friends who are available. From there, you have all the challenges of finding a partner. Biggest challenge is going to be making sure you can build a relationship while having fun. That makes it doubly hard.
  2. I had toyed with the idea of doing the history game. My problem is that it all seems so different now. We used to have (In the 1970s) "magazines" you would only get at an adult bookstore, and a few clubs advertised in them. (Washington DC had one of the nicest around, hidden in Coral Hills where you didn't want to go after dark.) Later, as the BBS age came along, you had "Lists" where you could find places to play and playmates. (The Dr.s Office in Virginia was pretty good) With IRC chat and the beginnings of the Internet, that began to fall apart, and we now have sites that are a combination of Meet and Chat and everything else. We have more exposure and oppertunity and less time and resources. I hope you can do a better history job then I can. It would make a great read
  3. Aha, Yes. The Inn Place. Beautiful Club. 2 Hot Tubs and a Swimming pool. It was located in a VERY run down area of Coral Hills Maryland (Just on the DC Line) and had 5 buildings connected. With plenty of parking and it was safe. E After it was closed (They really were not able to re-open due to some issues with the owner and what the Fire marshal discovered) I went to "The Cottage" while it was still in Baltimore. Got to know John and Dot real well. Eventually they moved to Penna (where there are 5 Very nice Clubs) and when I moved to Virginia, the drive got to be too much. But if I lived closer, I would be clubbing every night. The Penna Club scene from Harrisburg west is excellent and the places are all very well run. Yep. Nostalgia is a great thing to have.
  4. In 1980, I have mine done. Both daughters were born, and I didn't need to pay for more than two complete college educations. My wife was totally for it, until after the procedure. Seems she wanted to be "With Child" for at least three more times. We did get a divorce. But that has not caused me to feel any major guilt. In the years since then, I have been very happy to say "Clean, Disease free and SAFE' to each and every partner and friend I have known. My current wife is also "Safe" and we play with close friends who we trust without any worries. Best thing to ever happen.
  5. Absolutely the Truth. Vanilla cannot keep mouth shut, and once you are "outed" someone will always be asking you "Who else?" and they will feel absolutely offended if you don't answer.
  6. Jennifer First, welcome to this world of oppetunities and enjoyment. Please remember, however, that while jerks exist everywhere, they are usually in a minority here. For starters, People can talk. And the absolutely last thing ANY man wants is to have people say "This person is a Jerk, here is what he did". It will get him disqualified from a wide oppertunitie list (Believe me, I have seen it happen quick) The advise here is all very good, especially the legal advise. Eliminate contact, and make a police report. You do NOT have to go to the extent of saying where you placed your information. Just that he followed up and Stalked to you. Stalking laws vary state by state. Here in Virginia, penalties are quite severe. (To the point that the feds defer to the state for this issue) Take care, and enjoy Jim
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