autumnayr

I think I have to agree, I hate this too......."know it alls" or if they didnt do it, someone they know did..........ackkkkkkk Surrender You almost want to say, One time I didnt talk for 2hrs, for them to top it, and then you can ask them to prove it.... Love this topic.....

I guess if your fluffy you are self concious of what others think, because of the world we live in....most of us can do something about it, and Im working on it, but losing tons of weight is not always a pretty sight either... Im not 25 anymore, and things just dont spring back where it belongs , so I am a bit loose (we're talking tummies now) I guess like mrs good times said some will like it and some will not....how do you find the ones that wont care? I mean I look better in clothes where you can't see everything.... should I go around flashing my tummy to people asking....do you like this or not? Im not trying to make light of the situation, I know how sensitive of a subject it is....but every now and then you have to say......." oh what the hell" :rollseyes

So I guess most people have some sort of shyness about "naked" to some degree! That's nice to hear! I guess once we have our first experience, I will know what to expect. I just hope I have someone as nice as all of you to experience it with, to make me feel that comfortable. So I take it, with my description, you would not jump up and run if you saw my body coming towards you thanks again........you guys are great !

Being 5'8 and 214 lbs I am a little uncomfortable about just walking around naked or in a t-shirt. I feel sexier in bra and panties. I mean I still have nice DD tits but being almost 49 they feel perkier in my bras But the tummy, well it has seen younger/firmer days So, how often do you become fully naked before sex? Is it something that happens all the time? I don't mind being naked once we are in bed but... This is something I'm sure I will overcome, but being new to this, it will take some time... Thanks.

I thank you for the great responses...... I guess like you said its all about how you carry yourself....Which I think I do well. I guess if they dont like what I have.......someone else will......

I'm really glad you brought up this subject. I have the same concerns. I am 48 & 5 '8" and 215lbs. In clothes, I feel sexy and confident. without a top and in my bra,(great boobs here) still sexy but as soon as my belly is revealed........whammo Ive got this thing to just cover it up. Now of course my husband thinks Im sexy, which is wonderful, but I always wonder how others will see me. (I know I shouldnt but I do) Do people really get to know your personality first? Has anyone ever been put down because of their size? Im sure there are those so called barbie and kens out there that want the perfect couple. I mean I had a couple confront me about being with them.....gosh how did they know we've been thinking about that??? They were flirty with me etc...but then I thought, what would they think when the clothes dropped to the floor? Would they turn and run? BTW......you dont sound fat at all.......not by a long shot....