well vesp, before we were married (2 yrs ago) I had a fling with a co-worker, with her approval. And with the intention of the two of them getting together. I found other work elsewere before that could happen. And since the marriage I have had a couple of sexual encounters with another guy. But I didn't do any of this without discussing it with the love of my life, my wife. But...she keeps bringing up these instances, and saying that I'm being selfish, just thinking of myself. The co-worker instance was before we started swinging. And I've stopped all other relations with singles(for a long time now). I talked to her about it tonight. She agreed and called the other wife to not call it off, but to let them know that if I'm not included the deals off. I'm a little worried because my wife went to see her(his wife) to discuss the situation. He is supposedly at work. I trust my wife, with everything, but I have that same uneasy feeling.She asked if I wanted to have sex when she got home, I said that if I wasn't asleep. It's already past the usual time I go to bed. I just don't know....