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JustMrJ

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JustMrJ last won the day on September 17 2008

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About JustMrJ

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  • Birthday 01/17/1969

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    M. Male
  • Location
    San Mateo, CA
  • Interests
    Hot Rod Building, Driving Road Courses, Computer Games, Movies, Good Food, Dancing, Shooting at the Firing Range, Time with Good Friends
  • Occupation
    Network Systems Engineer
  • Swinging Experience
    A few months

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    JustMrandMrsJ

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  1. I shave my cock and balls, but I just 'cut the grass' above to the 'bikini' line. Mrs. J is fully shaved, just haven't taken the time to 'sculpt' that 'landing strip' or triangle. No complaints about looking to 'pre-pubescent' as I still have dark enough hair above the 'equipment' to show my balls have dropped.
  2. Three times in one afternoon-evening romp with Mrs. J is my record. Fortunately for me, the orgasm is not the end all and be all of the sexual adventure.
  3. Just for fun... here's a VERY recent picture of both of us... taken yesterday. We both hate the no weight or VERY wrong weight thing... AND out of date pictures. If they can't sell what they got with truthful advertising, we are not gonna 'buy' it. We have had a VERY wide range of playmates and some of our closest to date are not HWP. But they were genuine and always truthful about themselves. I weigh in at 175 lbs. ad 5'11" tall - she weighs in at 165 lbs. and 5'6" tall. We both believe in truthful advertising...
  4. Just like in sales or any other part of life... play the numbers, they WILL eventually work out. Cheers!
  5. :doh!:DOH! Now I understand. I was under the incorrect presumption that you were referring to the previous 'worry' about your family finding out. Now your original makes sense. In that context, NO, neither of us had that worry at all.
  6. We have no problem with either same or separate rooms. When we are at house parties, there is ample opportunity for both. At least half the parties we have attended have been crowded enough that it's same room with at least one more couple. Not necessarily playing with them, but them being in the same room playing as we (whoever my partner is at that moment). I have also played in the same room my lovely bride was playing in and there have even been occasions where there were three couples and two happened to include myself and my spouse. This actually culminated in a full six way pile...
  7. Never worried about the falling in love with others part. Talked about potential jealousy, but we normally had so little, it was easily solved. Never worry about friends and family finding out, just take precautions. Worry is not part of it. Never worried about anyone we tell thinking less of us. Danced around the religious subject a bit, but that was easily decided by both of us. Never even talked about the 'enough for you' part. Wasn't even thought of. NOTE: Julie, you may want to edit your original post. "Worry about you thinking less of them for doing so?" I think this should be "Worry about THEM thinking less of YOU for doing so?" Correct?
  8. ABSOLUTELY! Hit them where it hurts! The wallet!
  9. Michael, The two groups we attend house parties with are of the "Pot Luck" variety. Both food and sexual partners are provided by the guests. A lot of variety of flavors and tastes and it works pretty well. The hosts do provide water, clean towels in the bathrooms, condoms and trash cans in every room for disposal of said condoms. New attendees will be given a tour of the 'facilities' so they know where the play rooms, bathrooms, food and places for their belongings are. We find this works very well and we enjoy these parties immensely. Cheers!
  10. I have not seen this in our area, but I will say that if we can't cover our own bill for the evening and possibly the other couple we are with, we won't go out. I've been laid off since November 1st of 2008, but I've never been one to stick someone else with the bill. FYI, I had a third interview this last Friday and hope to get the "You're hired, let's negotiate your salary." call.
  11. I would have to agree this sounds like the hubby was cheating and just wanted to justify it. I think that there is a serious rift between you. This is the opposite of what a couple that thinks of Swinging should have as a relationship. Proper Swinging, if I can coin the phrase, is BOTH halves of the couple agree and BOTH halves already have excellent communication and would BOTH like variety and new experiences. I do hope you can solve your marriage issues one way or another, but I tend to lean towards ktimephoenix's response... dump this chump! (my opinion only, given the limited information) Either way, you need to re-evaluate your relationship and what YOU want out of it. Talk about it with him and make sure he does NOT convince you that you are the problem. This is NOT true. It sounds like, pardon the phrase, the 'cheating bastard' needs a serious wake up call. (again, my opinion). *HUGS* and good luck!
  12. Julie, Easy way to control the volume if your swing club takes over a place for vanilla fun. "If it is not turned down, I'm taking my 40+ friends and going elsewhere."
  13. Well, I would fail on the teeth issue (mine are NOT straight), but I do keep them clean and my breath fresh. *sigh* leftovers from my youth. Screw up your baby teeth, then find out later you shattered some of your adult ones before they even came in. As to the rest, my wife and I keep ourselves clean, shaved/trimmed, our photos up to date and try to be pleasant and unbiased to anyone we talk to. Beyond that, what can you do right?
  14. Then there is the 'acceptable measuring technique'. I measure from the top going from the base of my shaft to the tip. I am an average 6" with a hair over 4" circumference. Not too thick, not too thin, not too long, not too short... again, average. That being said, if my wife is not really relaxed certain positions will cause her discomfort as if I'm bottoming out. By the same token, when she is VERY relaxed and really into it, just about any position will do and some of those deeper ones really get her motor going. She will play with men larger and smaller than me in both length and circumference, BUT, longer and thicker men will be directed to go slow and probably hit a depth limit if they are quite a bit larger. Some ladies like them larger, it is true, we are all different... lucky for all of us that there is such a variety out there to cater to everyone's desires.
  15. Awesome... give Mrs. Fun a big wet kiss and lick in the place of your choosing for me.
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