AttentionGetter

Is there any real way to have a true friendship in this lifestyle? A year and a half ago we ventured into this having no idea that friends could be made in this. We just thought it was all sex. This was part of my reluctance for a long time. Friendship is the main thing we seek out in this, before sex. We have repeatedly met couples, gotten to know them, began what seemed like a beautiful friendship, only to have it go to crap a few months later. What is wrong here? Do we have the wrong idea about swinging? I am to the point where I'm ready to quit and just not have any friends. Before this we didn't have that many friends or a social life. Maybe this is why I cling to it so much? If we stop, I'm afraid we will go back to a boring life like we had before. Taking ANY suggestions, comments, or ideas PLEASE! HELP!

Yes, we have a friend that does this. She dirties every towel in the house and then the sheets on the bed. She's amazing and we love her for it!