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thongLover

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  1. Hmm, well it seems that Lori knows me better than myself, God or even my own mother. I'm just going let Lori have her golden moment rather than spend forever trying to explain and re-explain things. it seems as though Lori, that you have appointed yourself sole investigator for this message board. "To the fires of hell with any single guys" who's stories dont make sence to me. "Oh, a new member, lets make sure he's for real first". I felt as though I'd come in here and be welcome to express myself freely without needing to tell every aspect of my life, from when I got in a argument with my girlfriend and what we argued about so that you could pick it apart. I'll also add that I AM real, I am NOT like the other asshole single guys that are new to swinging. But you'll never know the truth will you? All you had to do, and all that I asked was, get to know me better. But you choose not to. These are just words on a screen off of the internet. It is VERY easy to misunderstand something. I've met people as opinionated as Lori, and I have walked away because they aren't worth the lead it would take to shoot them. Harsh was that?, Sorry but that's just MHO. It shouldn't matter what happened in the past, more of, what happens in the future. I'm fine with that, and I am moving on to somewhere that I will feel more welcome.
  2. Whoops, I also didn't catch this other error. I posted about nude beaches some time ago, and the words nude camp were used. Uhh it WAS a nude beach and it WAS Haulover Beach Miami Florida. Very nice place I might add. I wonder if Ohio_Couple will respond to this one........ my long, well explained reply. Also, please forgive me for not doing the proper thing, with my limited time at that particular moment, by not doing a search for a specific place to post my news. Any other questions you all may have, feel free to ask away. I have nothing to hide except the names of the couples I have, or will meet.
  3. Oh, I forgot to mention, too much to drink was no where near the issue, I have 1 beer and it took me almsot 2 hours to finish it.
  4. Wow, Ohio Couple really let me have it!!! OK, I guess I should back up to the past, which I dont normally do anyway, since it's in the past and it stays there, but I'll oblige Ohio_Couple anyway. Yes, my girlfriend and I broke up some time ago because I made the decision to quite a $14 an hour job to pursue a career in the medical field and she was against it because of the money I was making. She told me I should have just stuck it out, stuck it out in a dead end job, where I couldn't step up in the job. I spent the better half 2002 on lay off,and knew staying where I was, I would be laid off again this year, which IS the case as I type this. As for the nude beach thing, she had absolutely no problem with it. I posted that I was planning it, but I didn't mention "as a surprise". That also explains why she "didn't have a problem with it"> Now, on the aspect of "pretending to be a single male in the swinger's lifestyle"......I AM a single male. You're quite quick to judge, IMHO. BUT, on the same token, I can understand it, Single guys get a bad rap in this lifestyle, but it is ti be expected. One bad apple spoils the bunch. You'll never truly know me until you speak to me on a daily basis, rather than just going by 1, single, Uno, topic that I post in here. (besides the first posts when I joined) Have I ever or can anyone on this board quote me as seeming like an arrogant, typical, bulls**t, single male member? I have been nothing but nice to everyone, never started or indulged in arguments. Lori, Miss, ma'am, (whatever you wish to be called) Please, I only ask of 1 thing from you, and especially you since you seem to be the only one in here that has so much time on your hands to analyze the heck out me; Just get to know me. I'm a nice guy, otherwise I would have gone off on you like any other typical ***hole single male. but I didn't. and I remained civilized. Please dont be narrow minded against a single male swinger. I am here to make friends, to meet people. I am NOT here to "nail some dude's wife" just for a good one-nighter. I actually prefer to meet and get to know people before we venture to the bedroom. I want them to got to know ME. If you'd like to read 2 profiles of mine, email me and I will give you the links to where you might find them. I am discreet as can be, that's why I ask to be emailed. I'll leave it on this note: Many thank you's to those who DID hear what I had to say, and gave advise or expressed understanding with what I went thru on my first time as a NEW and remaining swinger. Thank you, I'm here all week. ?
  5. Thanks for the input. There has been another get together planned soon with them. I fell a bit better about this one too. Julie, my dear, I hope to make you eat your words, LOL, j/k kidding. ? I think it just went a bit too fast. We didn't start til around 10 or so, went to the hot tub for about 30 minutes, I did to much talking (obvious for a first timer) then right out of the hot tub to the bed next to it. However, they didn't do anything wrong in my book, I just got chilly feet at first. I think I'll be better next time. I'll keep you all posted on how my next shot goes.
  6. Thanks guys!, I spoke with them this morning and I also told them last night that I was kinda rattled and the totally understood. But you know us men, we sometimes have complexes about such things. The couple did enjoy themselves and I informed them that I did also, so I think there's open communication there. The hubby made a comment along the lines of next time that her and I spend a bit of time together first before he gets involved. I honestly feel I can relax around him, it's just getting past that first hurdle. Thing is, I will NOT let this happen again! hehe!
  7. Hello. I finally got together with a really nice couple recently, but I have to say, I didn't perform the way I should have. I was completely nervous and I couldn't function at all. I WAS able to perform orally but when it came to being erect, forget it! Now, don't get me wrong, the female was quite attractive and I was attracted to her, but the whole thing of her husband being there just kept me from really getting into it. There is absolutely nothing against him, I suppose it's just the whole idea, or something. I've never been thru anything like this before. I would very much like to meet with them again, I need to figure out how to get over the newbie jitters. Any thoughts/ideas on this folks? Thanks in advance.
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