stiff1can

We have been to temptations. Fun resort and you don't have to swing. I am in a similar situation to you. I thought and continue to think about 3 options, 1. Giving up on the idea and getting past it (harder than it seems for me) 2. Splitting up with her to figure myself out 3. Staying and trying to deal with it - keep making suggestions and hope. Discussed the 3 options with her and she is trying to meet me half way so thus the temptations trip, and a few since then. I love her of course so would prefer we stay together.

Wife and I have been talking about swinging for a long time. She is reluctant but listens and we have been to a few swingers clubs to check things out. I would like to go online with her so we can look at ads and chat however she seems to have little interest. Since she has stated swinging is not for her I want to respect her words so I am reluctant to bring up the idea of going online. Any suggestions on what might get her more interested in going online more?