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Beardedknight

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About Beardedknight

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 11/06/1960

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    Couple
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    Arkansas
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    Disabled Veteran
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    16 years

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    RVCC

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  1. I scored 803! I guess that makes me pretty kinky!
  2. Okay, here is my thoughts on this and you are getting what you paid for so don't bite my head off, please. MFM is with the woman in the middle getting all the attention, and is usually considered a straight 3some. MMF is considered a Bisexual 3some, where there is a man in the middle getting the extra attention from the other two, possible with the males swapping out and the female fitting in wherever she wants or can. But as earlier stated most swingers consider full-swap to be 2 couples sharing each others partners. The next question would be whether it is same-room or separate rooms? But it all boils down to what you and your wife are comfortable doing, so go slow and make sure you honestly communicate with each other and enjoy yourselves!
  3. I guess I have been fortunate, with the fact that my current wife and my second wife both get VERY turned on when watching me with another guy. In fact my current wife usually has an orgasm just from watching me with another guy, without even touching herself! Unfortunately it hasn't happend in awhile since we haven't been able to find any Bi-Couples where we are not living. Or at least any that want to hook up, a lot of talkers but no action.
  4. Sorry, didn't see the other discussions on this topic. Thank you for pointing them out. I will read them. My thoughts are that the double standard stems from society as a whole and the way people are raised concerning this topic. Just like the comment about a Bi-male not being manly (by Bigguy138). That is such a Homophobic comment that it is funny, to me. Nobody that knows me would not describe me as unmanly. And the comment by "SCcpl40 Re: Why the Double Standard? Go to the CDC and read about the risk of AIDS in male bisexuals. That should answer your question." Makes me shake my head. And the reason for that is that anyone who does not use condoms in this lifestyle is not only having sex with the currant sex partner but with everyone else they have had sex with (with no protection). And it really amazes me how many people we have met that do not use condoms, have even had a few couples who decline having sex with us becuase we require everyone to use condoms. But back to the topic, I think that Spoo and Maria both said it better than I can so, I will just say THANKS for all the comments. Maybe someday we can all be accepting of EVERYONE, no mater what their sexuality is. Thanks again for the comments.
  5. I would like to hear comments from anyone that wishes to add their thoughts without being rude or vicious about this question: Why is there a Double Standard when it comes to Bisexuality in Swinging? It is okay, if not expected, for women to be Bisexual. But when it comes to guys being Bisexual it is totally frowned on or even banned, in most "On Premise" Clubs and even in most swing groups that are not On Premise. Also wondering if the thought of two men together, turns any of you women on? Thanks in advance to all that reply.
  6. First, everyone else has pretty much covered the point of this being an issue of honesty and communication and cheating. But I would like to add a different view, but not saying what he is doing is right or wrong, that is for you to decide. Anyway, as a Bi-Male I can still remember the feelings I had before I was able to not only admit it to my GF, but also admit it to myself. I had all these fantasies about being with either another guy or a TG or a female with a strap-on, etc. For a few years, but never acted on them do to being in the Military, but when I got out and my first wife left me, it was my chance to explore. But I felt that since I was still fantasizing more about women then I couldn't be gay, didn't think about being Bi. So I started hitting some of the adult "book" stores and would let guys suck me off while watching a video, etc. Well, my GF (second wife) had an idea that I might be Bi. We would read variations and bi-options and of course I would get extra turned-on when it involved MMF situations. She finally confronted me, first by using her fingers in my ass while giving a BJ, which was wild. Then after she started talking to me about it and I finally confessed, and with her help I was able to accept that I was Bisexual and not Gay. I can also say that during my bookstore days, it was only getting and giving oral, and I do follow the Europeans that believe we have too much acid in our stomachs for any std's to survive. But I also did make sure I didn't have any open gum sores in my mouth too. So, maybe he is being safe at what he is doing. The other thought is that maybe he is having an affair with a gay man and that is why he doesn't want to admit it. But as everyone else has said, you do need to talk to him in an open and honest way, not attacking. And you do need to make sure he is being safe! But you should still get tested, at least twice! Hope this point of view helps some.
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