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  • Birthday July 28

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    wicpl2002us
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    clubmadison

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  1. Just a Happy Birthday have fun

  2. When you agree to enter into marriage with someone you agree to repect their wishes. Let's say that your partner would like to have sex with you but you are either sick, to busy, or not in the mood. (Yes, this even happens to males) You are in control of your sex life. On the other hand you could very well choose to have sex with your spouse. There are no outside forces controlling you to have sex with your spouse. And if they are forcing you to do so then you need to seek help and have someone interfere. You are absolutely correct here. However, you can choose to go outside your marriage and have sex with someone without your spouses permission. This is not recommended and can be extremely harmful to your marriage. Here you are choosing to have and to hold, forsaking all others. You made an agreement to faithfull to the one you love. Again, another choice. Bravo!!! You both know and understand what your boundries are. You choose to respect the wishes of the one you love. Each of these are choices here.
  3. We host couples at our house from time to time and have a hot tub for just this reason. We find that if a couple is comfortable enough to go into our hot tub with us then we're fairly certain they are ready for more. The hot tub is secluded so we offer the option of wearing suits or not. If the couple is really hot we just come walking out of the bathroom naked and ask what they are waiting for. facelick
  4. WOW, so many alarm bells go off when I read this thread and it's not so much from the original posters but from the respondents. Neither the husband or wife in this situation are making an unreasonable request. Where they fail is to find a common situation that meets half way. The husband here has given his wife an opportunity to enjoy the pleasures of another man so that she can find out if she has missed out on something in her life. However, she would like this without his presence. Most conventional sex carried out between a man and a woman is done in private between just the two of them. How can she feel as if she's missed out on anything if she has someone watching over her? Especially her husband. If he truly feels she has missed out on life then he should let this fantasy become a reality but on her terms. If she becomes comfortable later on down the road with including him in this then thats wonderful. Here's what so alarming to me. I can't count the number of threads on here where new people (especially the male half) have posted about their new desires to enter into swinging. The overwhelming response has been to go at the womans pace. Why is this any different? She's willing to try it but on her own grounds. Lets not forget which gender rules the roost in the lifestyle. I would suggest a possible solution. Let her find someone suitable to fulfill this fantasy. When she returns home she should share every detail with her husband and explain her feelings to him. This may lead to some very passionate love making as many of us know sharing the experience afterwards can be more exciting than the act itself. A suggestion would be for the wife to video tape this for her husband to view when she returns. This way he could view the tape and fulfill his fantasy of watching his wife with another man. Marriage is about compromise and without that your success in swinging, and your marriage, is sure to fail. Society places high regard to an individuals rights, especially when it relates to ones body. Whom a person chooses to share there sex with is there right, not an obligation. If you can not come to an agreement there is no doubt you walk away from this. It sounds like you have a strong marriage and should be happy with what you have.
  5. When we first started swinging it was exclusively in hotels or at someone's home where the children were not home. As we've become more comfortable in the lifestyle ( and put a hot tub in the back yard ) we've welcomed couples into not only our home but our bedroom. Occasionally we'll set up the sex swing in the living room and move to the bedroom from there. Our children are young (4,5,7) yet and I'm sure when they get older we'll stop and find others who can host.
  6. We know a couple who have tried for years to become pregnant. Recently they shared with us the desire to add others into their sex life. (long story for another thread) I think part of this is driven by their desire to have children and the cost of invitro fertilization. They didn't come forward and say it but after hearing how much they've spent in doctor bills to get pregnant I got the feeling this is what they want to do. Anyone who does this should take in to consideration their health. Unprotected sex with someone other than your spouse can lead to STD's. Always play safe and wear a raincoat when it's pouring out.
  7. We recently experienced the opposite effect from our experience. We met a single woman who has very little experience and had all sorts of questions for us about the lifestyle. When she found out about our variety of partners she felt as if she may be inadequet for us. We assured her she wouldn't be and welcomed the freshness in her.
  8. I just recently (m) had the opportunity to experience this with a couple we play with. It's something both females said they were interested in trying. We started with mrs. wiscpl but she's not all that in tune with anal alone and we didn't have lube handy. The other female however, accomodated both us men and certainly got off on being DP'd. Mrs. still wants to give it another shot at it as she enjoys anal from time to time.
  9. We haven't forgotten about the fun in the tub part. In fact, the weather has cooled off here in the midwest. We've had more swining fun in our tub in the last six weeks than we did all last winter. So much so that we've influences a couple into buying their own and we will be going to their house to "check it out" soon!!!!!
  10. Getting caught by your kids when your together is very embarasing...but getting caught while your with someone other than your spouse is down right frightening. I was in our basement with mrs. wiscpl's best friend when our oldest son busted through the door looking for us. Mrs. wiscpl was upstairs and knew what was happening and keeping an eye on the kids. We quickly seperated and acted like nothing was happening, attended to his question (young kids have so many), and asked him to go find mom. Needless to say thats the last time we did that while they were still awake.
  11. I (m) have had sloppy seconds one time after she was alone with a friend of hers. I was the one who prompted her to return immediately after she was done with him so I could get the full effect. It was exciting and very intense as I went down on her for my one and only creampie while she told me the story of what had just transpired. We too are very cautious about STD's and would only allow this with someone we're certain would be free from disease or the squigly fellas also.
  12. Dito with what spoomonkey said!!!! Take a step or two back to asses the situation calmly. Grab a piece of scratch paper and write everything down and come to a conclusion that BOTH parties are satisfied with.
  13. He should have gotten the hint the first time, and even that was more than he should have done. In our experience going there takes special permission for anyone. Anytime you go there a lubrication should be used otherwise serious injury could occur. If someone were to try this with mrs. wiscpl he'd be walking out with a limp, if he could still walk. Of course that's after he became a eunich.
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