spiffyandredhot

we were approached (instant message) by a nearby couple. out of habit, i instantly go to the profile, to get the gist of things. there were no pictures, but the rough measurements were just about "barbie and ken." "well," i think to myself, "looks like they did the math on their own." by that i mean look at our profile, and work out if we are HWP or not. just to make sure (and i do this out of habit too), i had them read our profile again, just so there were no misunderstandings. the male assumed that Red was HWP and had a big chest...which is exactly opposite of the truth. she has a small chest and a juicy booty. once i explained this to him, he left and we haven't heard a word from either of them. in retrospect, i think maybe he tried to give us the benefit of the doubt. then again, maybe he was a moron that couldn't do math...i have since modified our profile with the words "slightly overweight" and "we are not Barbie and Ken, they live down the street at Toys R' Us." Truth in advertising.

we've only gotten into the lifestyle in the last week or so, and i have to tell you it's kind of like the "dating game" so far, only multiplied because of the extra people involved. it starts with simple mail or "hello" in a chat room (we use swinglifestyle.com), then it turns into email tag (mails back and forth). if all is well so far it graduates into instant messages on yahoo, msn, etc. mostly just people trying to feel you out, making sure your not some freak, psycho, or single guy with a video camera. we have yet to meet anybody in person, but the prospects for the weekend are looking good. find a site like swinglifestyle.com, and see if you can find what your looking for. above all, it seems "patience" is the best way to meet people.

I did mail them and ask, and I was upfront about my habit. Still waiting for a reply (assuming I get one at all). I never thought about the clothing bit, but you're absolutely right.

You've found a couple that you think you could have some fun with. You smoke, and they don't. Could you quit smoking for a night? Does "non-smokers" mean for the night, or is it an all-encompassing term (no smoking at all)? We are kind of in that boat now. My lady managed to quit, and I still do a pack a day. We've found an interesting couple, but their ad says "no smokers." I thought I would get some advice before we emailed them.