Jean

Ya know, we have started putting our info on different boards hoping for a response, but I have to tell you, by looking at the pictures on different boards not everyone is a Ken and Barbie type. The meet and greet thing sounds like a really nice way to meet folks, I will have to do some research on finding something like that here. I just want to make sure that my hubby and I don't end up at somthing really freaky, and we aren't prepared for it. But I figure if we do we just walk away. Ain't that big of a deal. It's not like we are going to see any of those folks a wholelot anyway. : )

Hey All, I have to totally agree with the truth and together part. That was the absolute first part when we were thinking about this. He reads the posts from this page at work and I from home, and then we talk about it when he gets home. You are right the first part of meeting people is very odd, but it is a step that has to be taken. I am very excited and hope to at one point to meet a nice couple here in the Dallas area. Who knows what can happen, but we want the friendship first too, I never dated my husband before we got married. We grew up together, and then decided to get married. We had the friendship first in our marriage and made all the difference.

Thanks so much, I am truely interested, I will just keep looking around and seeing what develops. I really appreciate ya'lls replys and will continue to look around and see what happens

Hi, I am new to this and my husband and I are interested in softswinging and I have a few questions. I read the ads for swingers in the DFW Texas area, only I am a little nervous about how I look. I would consider myself bbw, only not huge or nothing, anyway, I guess I am a little self-conscience about how I look. Plus I hear about how it is formed thru friendship, only how do you go about finding that friendship? Are the posts in the ad part of the webpage ok? I am so afraid of meeting some weirdo. Not that they aren't ok, it's just not what I want ya know. With me being new to all of this, I want to step into this slowly, and not be pushed. Anyway sorry to rattle on, but I would like to find a couple and they be a nice normal couple like us and are ok to softswing and let me go slow at this, plus not mind the way I look. And if it goes farther, then I can decide later. If anyone could respond I would appreciate it. Everyone in this board has seemed so nice and I felt really comfortable asking. Thanks to All.