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ohcpl43952

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About ohcpl43952

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    Active Contributor

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Ohio Valley
  • Interests
    sex
  • Occupation
    $$$$$$$$$$

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    ohcpl43952
  • Favorite Club(s)
    DJs
  1. Personally, I don't like the bar scene. Don't know if that's quite a 'night club' or not. Too many drunks, barflies, and attitude agendas there. Swing clubs seem to rule most of those undesirables out. Plus at most bars/clubs, you can't get too racy. At a swing club, we all know why we're there and have no problems with overtly sexual behavior.... with or without clothing.
  2. Cut him off. Explain that he needs to learn how it feels to not orgasm. Maybe that will get him to open up a bit.
  3. You'd be surprised at how many couples feel that swinging has increased the pleasure of their own personal sex lives. Look around here and you'll find so many saying something like 'we screwed like bunnies for days after our first meet up.'
  4. Watching anything to do with sex is a complete turn-on. I do it for her and she for me. Fortunately for us, we have verrrrrry few hang ups.
  5. I told the Mrs. last week, I'd never need Viagara so long as I could lick her butt. Quite the turn on for both of us, giving and receiving.
  6. That's the problem with single males. Some of them don't follow rules. It took me two years to get rid of one of our problems. Wifey wasn't near as cooperative as she could have been. It seems to have stopped now. But it sure has turned me off to inviting a single man into our lives.
  7. Isn't part of sexuality our vision? Some like blondes. Some like women with small breasts. Some like women who are BBW. No sense in being prejudiced toward someone who wants a specific type. We all do it in one way or another.
  8. I've actually been that guy. And in both situations, the other couple talked to my wife on the phone to make sure everything was kosher. Clean conscience everywhere for everyone.
  9. Here's a thought. Invite a woman to be with him and you explain that you'll just sit and watch. After a while, you might just find yourself a bit horny and wanting to join in somehow. It is a bit hard to watch two people writhing about in pleasure and not get a bit interested. Make no promises about anything except that you'll be there to watch. After that, see how you felt and if you want to proceed or not. At least he'll know that you gave it somewhat of a try and he got a little bit of strange.
  10. Be blunt! Tell him you want him to join in on some adult fun. Some people just don't take hints well.
  11. Interesting topic! If we're in a 4-some, I prefer separate rooms and the Mrs. probably does as well. That allows us to become more involved with the other w/out any distractions. We've done both and been happy both ways. There have also been less than happy episodes as well. If it's a same room 4 some, it seems like at some point, someone may feel left out or ignored. Other than tactful suggestions or guidance, there really isn't much you can do to improve the matter. As always, COMMUNICATION is the key. I think that each episode takes on it's own personality. We've been in same room 4 somes that were great and some that weren't. The key is that everyone is tuned into everyone. Being overly focused on one person can invite another to feel left out.
  12. Or as they might say in the military: Fuck 'em all, let god sort 'em out. We're not very picky. Hey... it's meaningless sex.... for FUN! But to each their own.
  13. When we first married, I told my wife that I could probably never commit to monogamy. I was just a slut. But after about 8 years together (all of them in the lifestyle), I could say now that I could probably commit to my wife. Sex with her is just that good. As of now, we rarely play. Our great sex has produced too many kids to have much spare time.
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