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About stu

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  • Birthday 08/24/1959

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    stu
  1. 5243... in the last 30 days. .. but then we never recieved more than a hand ful of mails ...so there. I doubt if this figure really corresponds to the last 30 days
  2. Though wife doesnt orgasm from nipple play....she just loves them fondled, pinched and nibbled.
  3. Thought this kind of stuff only happened in porn..turns out I am wrong. For me...even if I could last the 30 minutes of continuous thrusting, without cumming...I would run short on the physical stamina lol However, we indulge in foreplay...for as long...maybe a couple of hours..and then the actual penetration is only for a few minutes...of course.foreplay may include penetration for short durations in different positions.. ...and we have loads of fun .... never had any complaints ... honest
  4. If a person treats his wife as a mere tool...it is degrading/insulting to the wife...on that score I doubt if any one would have a different point of view.
  5. you are probably right there chris and amelia...about how spoomonkey used the phrase 'partners in crime'. On the other hand I think Roundstick also was not really implying that 'wives were the property of the husbands....like 'Tools'.....' I doubt if any body in this age and time, could imagine so. In the same breadth 'wife wapping'...isn't it a terminology used since long, and in the flow of thoughts Roundstick might just have framed his question the way he did. Well I though Spoomonkey was being too harsh on Roundstick,..equating women with tools' ...and I just wanted to convey to Spoomonkey, we must be gentle with our criticism...that was hitting below the belt. I should feel very offended if one implied that i believed wives were the property of the husbands....like 'Tools'.... I am quite sure, Roundstick didn't imply so,either just as in Spoomonkey's use of the phrase 'partner in crime' ...did not have any 'deep-seated subconscious meaning.
  6. The question is flawed, as has been stated by spoomonkey, but we can give Roundstick a little leeway...may be he didn't mean quite what he said. Like the term 'Wife swapping' has been used since long...and in the flow of thoughts he might just have framed his question the way he did...not really implying that wives were the property of the husbands....like 'Tools'.... 'Swinging isn't about me letting other men fuck her. Swinging is about us, partners in crime'...well I wouldn't indulge in anything I thought was a crime. Referring to Swinging as a crime...even as a passing thought...shows that somewhere in our conscience, we feel we are committing an act which is improper. well I don't think its a crime...not by a mile. It's an act that builds trust, develops love, improves the quality of life...you don't have to eye the opposite sex...hiding your appreciation from your partner...and above all it checks you from cheating your partner..that's enough good done for the day...no crime committed. My 2 cents worth...anyway
  7. It all depends on ones interpretation of the meaning of 'slut' If a woman enjoys sex and wants to have lots of it..."I know a woman that will screw anything with a dick, she doesn’t care who or what it is attached to"...I wouldnt call her a slut...she is just crazy for sex...like one may be crazy about ...say Golf. In the eyes of the Vanilla world...all in the lifestyle...would be slutty I think ..Slut.. is not such a nice word..and so a woman who uses never ending obsenities..acts in a cheap manner..during sex, well may be she could be called a slut...but certainly not any woman who enjoys and wants to have a lot of sex...may be she could be called ...nympy....but certainly not slutty Anyway... whats Masculine for slut. Just wondering.
  8. We put our stamp on 'Won't play with cheaters'. Yes, in a given situation, maybe we would.
  9. The soft touch of a woman, curvaceous, sexy, cute, gentle, all traits attributed to a woman ( and rightly so ). Cant say that for men. Those are the qualities most men are looking for. Beauty is hardly ever attributed to men. Hirsute. Cant really blame the men for not being able to appreciate the body of another man. (for sex)...it's not curvaceous, not soft.... Though women are genetically engineered to desire a mans body..they can still appreciate the beauty inherent in a woman. Men appreciating a woman...is no big deal...they are beautiful beings...but appreciating another man...(for sex).... I wouldn't know what to look for I dont think they are double standards....just plain common sense this is just a man's point of view (Mine)...and probably I haven't been able to put it across too well. Two men having sex...can't really imagine finding it sexy.....but that's me....Everyone to their own point of view.
  10. Swinging is always with mutual consent of the spouses. its about seeing ur spouse have a great time. Its about having a great time with ur spouse.. and another couple...mebbe.Nothing wrong with that. I think its more a reflection of deep love & trust among Lifestyle couples which mebbe the vanilla couples are not able to share between them selves. Dont we know many folks who fantasize a threesome or a foursome...but never have the courage to participate, with their spouse.They may cheat though...to fulfill their fantasy. No, swinging is not for every body...you have to be honest, deeply in love, trusting,be able to enjoy seeing ur spouse in throes of ecstasy L Then why do swingers hide the fact that they are swingers... Simple...History...some body was hanged( I cant rcollect the name) when he told the world that the world was actually round...and not flat..Moral...It doesnt always pay to be right. My $ 0.02 worth anyway
  11. It's a question of being on the same wave length...of liking or disliking...culture has not much to do with it.......its a different matter that one might gel better with some one of their own culture...but then on the other hand...some one from another culture...'intriguing'...I should think .
  12. The 'G' Spot...have still to locate...Can any one help me out as to where exactly it is located. Thanks....June of stujune
  13. we average two times a week, but then we like long sessions, two hours...of lusty sex
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