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  1. When it comes to Bi-sexuality and women, things become complicated because most women are afraid of their sexuality, even women in this lifestyle. Even in this sexually drive world, women are afraid to face themselves as a sexual being, and to admit that they might enjoy being with a women is something that most don't wanna think about. Women are stuck on appearances and in their minds being Bi-sexual or being a swinger automatically makes you a slut and that's not something that they want to be. A women decides that she wants to try sex with another woman. It's easier for her to say to someone, "I'm Bi lets play" than it is to say "I have never been with a women and I wanna try it with you to see if I enjoy it." Just like you are probably not gonna find a girl that will admit to her boyfriend that she is a virgin. As for women that say they are Bi and don't wanna go down on a woman that's a different story. It's not really that they are being selfish, it's that they are afraid that they won't do it right. They are afraid to ask how or what to do, because they think that as a woman I should know how to pleasure a woman. I enjoy all aspects of women and men, and I know what turns me on and gets me off, and going down on a women gets me off. If that means that some of the swingers in my circle are using me, well then they can go right ahead, because I got my cookies right along with them.
  2. I take offense to you saying that I am being used. I know what I enjoy and I know when I am being used. I play with a great couple who are both Srt8, and I know that she won't ever return the favor and I a perfectly fine with that. She is honest about her Str8ness, and never pretends that she is Bi. She does not just let anyone or thing play with her. In fact I am one of the very few women that she has ever been with. What the difference in what I do and a man that enjoys Oral Sex and doesn't expect a return?? There are people out there like that. Personally I think that it is selfish to expect a return. Do you expect a gift from your neighbor when you give them their mail that was in your mailbox? Sex is supposed to be enjoyed not expected.
  3. Ok, that's a good way to look at it, however I am VERY Bi and would never expect a women that I played with to return the favor if she didn't want to. Seeing the look on their faces when she is done is thanks enough.
  4. I have seen many topics about bi-sexuality in this forum, but I wanted to pose a question to the group, especially the women. Just because a women may say that she is str8, In my opinion doesn't necessarily mean that she would not enjoy a women pleasuring her, it means that she may not want to return that pleasure. Do others share this same opinion, or do most believe that you have to be Bi to enjoy another woman??
  5. I had always heard of girls that squirted, but I had never done it until I met a couple that knows where and how to use the g-spot. Squirting is all about relaxing and enjoying the stimulation. All women can do it, but most are scared to relax enough to do it cause it really feels like you are peeing, and it only makes sense that it feels that way because the g-spot is underneath your urethra. The best advise I can give is to, go to the bathroom first, get comfy, have lots of lube and lots of patience. Have your partner stimulate the g-spot by itself first, I know that's all it takes for me, but if after a while that's not doing it for you and some clitoral stimulation. It might not happen the first time you do it, but don't give up, try again tomorrow. It might take a couple tries before you know exactly what your body wants. Remember there are several different ways you can stimulate your g-spot, I like the "cum here" way, also try using more than 2 fingers or a vibrator on the clit. Most importantly have fun and don't get frustrated with it. Sex is all about fun and the more you try the better it will get. Good luck Bella
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