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CLITFRIEND

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About CLITFRIEND

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 07/28/1964

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    single male
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    North Stonington, CT
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    Sales

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  1. welcome back HappySexAddict. Thanks Julie--it is good to be back---I was going to use that name again--but I like this name better.
  2. Thanks Julie--how did you do that when I wasn't able to? To clarify--Last year Swapper made it available to its members to be able to open and run what they called "Group Central"--where we can have themes for groups--and perhaps gather a community of those who share specific interests---I opened up the group singles wanna mingle too--which apparently is becoming quite successful, and I am please with the results. I know I do have advertisements on my profile--but that info is only pertain to the specifics of that group--the non advertisements is me--so what you think? But really Julie--how did you do that?
  3. It wasnt originally--but it seem to have worked out that way--hehe--I seem to have gotten more letters since I did that--then when I didn't have that stuff on it--you should see my yahoo IM list now!!!
  4. I licked on your link and it prompted me to write an email to u--not see your profile.
  5. Nope--can not do that either--swapper has their profile protected from being copied or cut or pasted.
  6. I am on swappernet, with the same name--and I believe you have to be a member to see the profiles.
  7. Thanks GT--must be good to have the power!!! But I would still like to know--if one night stands are ok to some folks--why are singles males--and I am talking about the good honest--true non abrasive--non selfish--always respectable--ever gentlemenly (did I cover all of the bases--or did I miss something?) more successful in the lifestyle?
  8. Dang, I wish I would hve put up a poll for this. :rollseyes But I am now curious as to whether or not the one night stand swinging is the majority as to the relationship/friendship swinging? And if the ONS swinging is the majority--it does brings up the question as to why single males are really not successful with the lifestyle? After all--like the guy who put it on his profile--I am sure that quite a few single males are geared towards the prospect of a hit and run night? As for me, personally--I did join to seek relationships--especially with a single female to share the lifestyle as paart of our relationship. I do have a couple of prospect towards that end---I also have a couple that we I guess u could say have been becoming best friends with each other--we been playing for nearly 2 years. However--I do attend swingers party on occasions--and played at almost every one of them--So I guess I am a 50/50 mix bag here. However--I still would like to know--what dampers the success of single males if a good portion of swingers do not mind the ONS?
  9. Well---I must say I am surprise. I must be as Naive as I originally thought I was. I just see so many profiles that has listed "not looking for one night stand"--that when I saw that guy's profile--it just struct me in a strange way. So then--from what I am gathering here is taht it is not unusual, nor is it neccessary a bad thing to be looking for a one night stand then?
  10. You know folks, some people just put the most interesting TMI on their profiles. I just read one from a single male from another site who put right into his profile "I am looking for couples and females who really don't mind the few and far in between one night stands, since I don't have enough time to commit to any serious relationship!" His words. Not mine. I do have to admit, I have to admire his somewhat honesty. But it made me think of something. Maybe just the slim one or two person actually looking for the one night stand. Now here is my question though; How successful do you suppose these individuals are and would this be something that you would be involved with? And along with this question, maybe this could be a twist. If you attend a swingers party and end up playing with people at that party, and that was it, would you consider that to be a one night stand you just experience, and in a strange sense, maybe even sought?
  11. Oh my gosh---I am not even quite sure how to respond to that one. Hey Eternally single--got any idea?
  12. Exactly!!! Why are you worry about whether or not the other couple swings--if you dont even know whether or not your very own wife will swing?? I noticed that your status on here is not couple but rather MARRIED male--is that to indicate that if your wife does not want to---you still will w/o her? If this is the case--why are you worrying about ANY ring on any fingers?
  13. JnCC--I have to tell you I am quite baffled here. I either do not get what you are trying to say--Or I am just not understanding what you are trying to say here---I mean are you angry that couples generally don't swing with single men? Or are you angry because there are not enough couples going around for the men to swing with? Is it horrifying to you that single ladies and couples who plays with single males prefer the guys to be well mannered, well groom and yadda yadda??? I really dont think it is the single guys themselves that are at the bottom of the list---I think it is the cheating single guys and YES even the chating single gals who are on the bottom of the list---and right in that area of cheaters--there are also the dramatizers who certainly make the feet of the totem pole----this post you put on here--sounds like dramatizations. Look---ok--so I am not involved with sexual activities--beyond self gratification every single night. However it is not because I am not well groomed, or yadda yadda--it is because I am single--and because I am single--I unfortunately do not have a S/o to enjoy every night. However--that does not mean that I am totally inactive--because there are couples and single females out there who I have befriended, and they have befriended me, and are you ready for this next part??? That befriendment takes place both in and out of bedrooms!!!!!! You know why? Because I want to commend their friendship with me by staying well groomed, and well manner and yadda, yadda. And they do the same with me as well! So all of you beautiful ladies and wonderful, friendly couples, can I as a single male yadda yadda with you????
  14. I wonder if that guy been getting any advice from you on this group of yours!
  15. Ok then-m, a twist on the question here. In most casese when no means no--and a no is not taken--the person who repeatedly does not respond to the no is generally escorted to the curb (An act that I have seen done twice--not to me--but I have seen it done!!) Now I am not saying I want this treatment to be given to any ladies by any means at all, far from it. But, should these ladies who don't take a no get the same and equal treatment?
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