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  • Birthday 12/07/1967

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    Chicago
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    3 small kids - no hobbies!
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    Real estate developer

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  1. My wife has the most awesome orgasms when I gradually slide her xlarge (8in) vibrating dildo into her wet and waiting pussy. Soon she gets on top and takes it all the way while giving me oral. After many yrs of this, we are in the planning stage for our first MFM experience - set for May/June. My question, if other factors are generally equal, does bigger get you wild like it does her??
  2. Have or do any of the women out their give bjs without condoms? How much do condoms and dental dams lessen the experience?
  3. Focus on his fantasies for awhile to let him know its a mutual benefits lifestyle. He like's sex in public, play around with it - maybe having sex in the same room with another couple. Focus for awhile on unearthing his fantasies then maybe he'll accept or hopefully embrace yours. Would he go to a strip club with you?
  4. Eager - wonderful news and passed on to the better half. How long after tummy tuck did you start having sex again? Was it full out or cautious? We're new to this great site as well, plan on first experience (mfbm) after her recovery and final procedure - lift and tuck of old breast, to match new one. May\June probably. Have you had first time yet? How was it?
  5. Interesting. My wife had a tummy tuck/breast reconstruction surgery 2 weeks ago. We saw the surgeon today. Two drains were removed - which may her very happy, even gave sex a brief thought. Dr. said "healing is suberb - have faith the seams won't come undone, but no exercise for 3 wks." Can start driving though. I asked about pre vs. post op weight loss and was told it made no difference. The results are amazing and much healing is still left. We agreed that it felt great to again add the "s" to "breast" when that sweet topic is raised. Ya know its such a "work in progress" - she also has to deal with only 1 nipple, as the other will be a tatoo. My questions: I realize the following thoughts are most importantly discussed with her, so ultimately they WILL be (to the extent not already open topics) - but these are issues on the back burner for a few more weeks as recovery takes hold and her thoughts drift away from "where's that foot stool, I need to lay down". Her 2 seams (or incisions) were glued - not stitched - was that your experience? I couldn't care less about any scars myself - the masectomy never bothered me in the least, though it did make her insecure even after 13 yrs of marriage (she's 37). We are in the "seriously curious" phase - she is expressing ongoing interest in mfm and is increasing bi-curious. Any thoughts whatsoever on how her residual scarring, etc. may affect her self-esteem (i.e. willingness to be with others)? Thanks for any advice or shared experiences.
  6. My wife weighed 150 lbs before her surgery 11 days ago. She wasn't required to loss any prior to. She still has two drains, though they finally appear to be lessening to a mite trickle. Pain is low-moderate, but she hasn't gotten out of her pj's since coming home. Her's was a tramflap procedure, so more than just a tummy tuck - but the tummy part is no walk in the park. The doc did promise her the flattest tummy in the neighborhood though. When the dust settles, she is going to be very happy with the results. Good luck.
  7. Thanks to both of you for the messages. She's been amazingly positive the whole time. Women are indeed much stronger than men - here's to her, my hero.
  8. My wife had reconstructive surgery 1 week ago - she had a single breast masectomy 1 year ago - followed by chemo/radiation. The 10 hour surgery included a full tummy tuck and relocation of skin, flesh to the missing breast area. Performed at one of the countries premier teaching hospitals - at least the best in the midwest. Anyway, she spent the first two nights afterwards in the burn centers ICU - skin grafts, flesh relocation issues the same I'm told. By the way, the doctors and nurses working that self contained unit are the finest, the absolute finest I have ever seen. She has been home for 3 days now and is essentially on best rest - two drains coming out of her still. The surgeon was almost giddy with how well the surgery went, checked his data base - "fastest Tramflap he's ever done" - 10 hrs! We have 3 small kods and she cannot be left alone with them. We were promised a slow 4-5 week recovery so its par for the course. She said initially if she knew it would be this tough she would have said no - but that's not true. I told repeatedly that it didnl't matter the least bit to me - I was always prodding her for fun and games over the last year and she was amazed at my who cares attitude given one of her beautiful, bountiful breasts was gone. I told her it was her mind and attitude that always got me revved up and damn if it wasn't true. She did this for herself - I believe to feel "whole" again and has looked forward to this mental "end of a phase" for 12 months now - she would do it again I'm sure. 2 mths from now she has a 3 hr, much easier, surgery so to make the 37 yr old breast match the 19 yr old puppy slapped on last week. And to think the insurance company covers the whole thing! Seriously, from what she's been through, its only the start of what she deserves. She said several months ago as we held hands during chemo that she could not wait for this operation and the wild sex she wanted thereafter. Go for it honey and don't back down! So, per her life long fantasy, call us MFBMFANTASYCPLE (in the making anyway)! We'll see if we/she are really suited for the lifestyle soon enough. Sorry for all the detail, but I feel like I am in therapy - its been a tough year...
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