driveme2000

i have check response's regularly since i posted this and trust me i hear everyone loud and clear no play with the child home. in trueth i guess we thought we could slip by and she wouldn't be an issue since she would be "sleeping". Yes we did lay down the boundaries and spoke about all the issue's beforehand but my husband turned into a 3 yearold who couldn't control himself. We keep talking about the isseu's and how not to allow this to happen again. i read and make him read all that yall had had to say but i don't want to stop swinging, we have put everything on hold till we resolve this but not forever. so i guess i would like to know how to handal everything differntly. thank you everyone jenn

we have been together for almost 6 years and in that time our sex life left alot for me to desire, after a separation(geo only) the last 6 moths have been the best ever. im pretty sure thats where my anger comes from cuz it just got so goooooooooood!

i should also ad when it comes to sex for the past 5 years i was the one who chased him around for it, he never got things started and i found out that night he was the on chasing her. i feel like that night he was a pussy warrior and with me he's just just a pussy

so we took for ever to ever go to meet anyone cuz i was in charge of picking the chick and i didn't know really how to go about the task. after turning down several woman i met "the one" she was my speed and could handal my personallity as i'm a person who it totally brutally honest, my feeling is it not mean if its honest. so she and i met alone and it went great, a few days later she came to our house we were both set and ready i thought. we have a 3 year old who big suprise wouldnt go to sleep. i left the room to attend to our daughter and get her to sleep, while gone he and the other chick started without me. as she started giving him head and he had the presents of mind to stop and say we have to wait. he didn't remove himself from the situation and of course they started again and this time they didn't stop, i walked in on the seen and just played it cool i was not mad seeing him with her i was mad about the fact that i wasn't playing to. i had to leave the room one last time to makesure the baby was out, but they did miss a beat. i just so jealous not of her mind you but of the fun i was missing. i stood for awhile mad enough i almost left the house but i forced myself to go on with the night, uncomftable is an understatement but fun was had by all. after all the action slowed down we sat naked and talked for about 10 to 15 mins we started to dress and i left the room to get a drink and my hubby the sweetheart that he ask her to scrump before she went. he was waiting for me to leave to be with her, and true to me i walk in just as the deed is about to insue. i made a commint that it was not right and i let him know i was mad at him. her back was to me so she could not see what i was saying or doing but i looked him in the eye and told him to stop, and he didnt so after she had dressed and gone the war insued full force. its now been 2 weeks and i'm mostly over it buti feel like he cheated because ive told him from day one do what u want as long as your honest and i lived by those words still. am i wrrong in my feeling and how do we prevent this from happening again