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    Paragould,AR
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  1. I forwarded the whole file of cheating e-mails that I'd collected to everyone in his work and personal contact list. I know that action probably seems like overkill but you see we'd been married for 30 yrs when this came out and I'd stayed faithful the whole damn time. Plus he appropriated over $20k of communal funds :rollseyes & ran up debts without my knowledge. head bang Revenge was the one area of my life that I still felt I had under my control! I may pay with some extra Karma but damn it felt good to hurt him just a little. Surrender
  2. Great news, but please keep an eye on his e-mail and also any odd amounts of money that come up missing or can't be accounted for. I went through so much with my husband; multiple affairs that he said 'meant nothing' including one 'friendship' where he also claimed the woman was a full lesbian and I was just jealous of him having friends. When I found out about the many affairs; some physical, some emotional & some that started through internet chats; he put on this big production that he was a changed man and he 'gave them all up' because of his love for me. :rollseyes It was a few more months before I found out he'd just traded calling on his cell phone for buying calling cards to keep in contact with his honeys. I found the e-mail where he told his longest lover(8yrs) that they'd have to be extra careful; that I was still suspicious but he thought I was convinced that it was over. Do you know how painful and humiliating that was; I'd never want anyone to go through those feelings. I'm not saying your hubby will do that but I know how it feels to be way down on the ladder of importance and made a fool of-I just don't want you to blindly allow yourself to be decieved also. Best of Luck and I really do hope he saw what a treasure you were and gave her up.
  3. This is a true story. A friend of mine wrote about his first foray into the swinger lifestyle. He asked me to post it to get some feedback! Enjoy! I'd been catting around the swingers chats for a couple of weeks. Ended up in one by accident {honest!} and liked the witty reparte'. Didn't hit on anyone because A} I was pretty freaked out that this stuff existed outside of Penthouse Forum, and B} Single guys were not welcome critters, for some very good reasons. But before too long, I found myself approached by a couple who wanted to meet me. Pictures and pleasantries were exchanged, and a meeting was set up. Nice little wine place in a nice {read rich} part of town. I was scared. I mean petrified. Couldn't eat or drink more than water. I also couldn't afford the prices....whooo. Anyway, the couple showed up. Very nice, both slim and in shape, in their late 40's I guessed. She was tall, I mean tall, over 6' in her heels. Elegant is the only words to describe her. WAYYYY outta my league. She had these long long legs, and a short black dress, and lovely breasts. {probably worked on, but who am I to judge free boobies?} Serious Vamp action. We all chatted for a while, they had a few drinks, and we were all getting along famously. After about an hour, the husband excused himself to the mens room, and she turned to me and said, 'Kiss me.' Now a dozen thoughts went through my head, about the husband coming back and kicking my ass, or shooting me, or this all being a huge joke, etc. But damn she looked so good I said to myself, 'Fuck it!' and went for broke. She was a great kisser. Lots of contact, and just the right amount of tongue. Enough that you could tell she knew what to do with that tongue. After we were done, she smacked her lips and said, 'Mmm, tasty.' Her husband returned, and she announced, 'He's good, he passed the test.' And I didn't even study! Now meanwhile, some of the patrons around us are wondering whats going on. They saw this lady come in with her husband, and now shes smootching this guy? WTF? Too make things more confusing we left arm in arm, her husband following. As we walked, she asked me where I'd like to go next, their place or mine. I said mine, because I'd feel more comfortable there. No problem. She even decided to ride in my car with me! So as we're riding in my car, I'm being the perfect gentleman, and she reaches over and puts my hand on her leg. Nice. Then, out of the corner of my eye, I see her reach up and undo one of the spaghetti straps of her lil black dress, exposing a delicious breast. She says 'I know you've been looking at them all night, so here you are.' Then she proceeded to place my hand on her tit. I started rubbing it and tweaking her nipple. Even when we stopped at a light and people in the car next to use could see, she just waved....and purred. When we got to my place we went straight to the bedroom, the three of us. She excused herself to the loo, and her husband and I sat down on the bed on opposite sides. We chatted a bit, and both stripped down to our shorts and socks. And then she came out of the bathroom. Naked. Wow. She laughed at us men and asked, 'Why are you guys still dressed?' And our remaining clothes flew. She placed herself in the middle of my bed like a big cat, and began making out with her husband. After a few minutes of deep tongue action, she kissed me while he sucked on her tits. Then both of us worked on her tits, and she was purring again. We shifted, and I got to see her ruby lips slide all the way down his 6-7 inch cock. Long and slender, like him. She sank all the way to his balls, and trailed her tongue along the shaft on the way back up. Taking initiative, I switched from her breasts to her legs, kissing my way up from her feet. By the time I reached her knees, she had opened the doors of heaven for me. Her pussy lips were small, and glistened with her juices. I couldn't wait any longer and dove in. I licked around and around her outer folds, getting a taste of what lay within. When I pierced her inner folds with the tip of my tongue, barely flicking her clit, she gasped and locked her free hand in my hair, gently urging me onward. She didn't speak, because she was still bobbing her lips up and down her husbands cock, stroking it with her other hand. I went to town, circling her clit with my tongue, flicking the tip, and fucking her with my tongue. She came for the first time, and pulled me up for air, kissing me and licking her juices off my face. Positions shifted, and now I was the one receiving her oral gifts. She deep throated me with a passion, while her hubby took my place. One hand on my balls, and one on my shaft, she devoured my cock, and I let her. It took all my control to keep from blowing my load in her beautiful mouth. Meanwhile, her husband is eating her pussy like a champ, and has two fingers in her pussy. As I watch, he lubes up another finger with her juice and slowly slides it into her asshole. When he does, the suction on my cock doubled. She came all over him. She loved that ass action! Hubby wanted to fuck after her 2nd orgasm, so he slides his dick into her hard and to the hilt in one stroke. She's still going down on me, and I'm totally digging the tableau before me. Several minutes pass, and he asks if I want a turn. 'Am I breathing?' I ask, and we extricate ourselves, and switch. I start in the missionary position, and holy shit is she tight. Just a small triangle of pubic hair, and so wet and tight. I was having a ball. So was she. After about five minutes of fucking, she came again, all over my cock. She wanted to ride this new cock, so she got on top, and went to town. I started feeling like I was gonna need a new bedframe after this, when something completely unexpected happened. Her husband, who had been having a bit of a break, got on the bed behind her while she was riding my cock. I heard her moan, and felt him pull her hips back towards him. At the same time, I felt his cock enter her ass! Holy shit, he was fucking her in the ass while I was fucking her pussy! This was the stuff you only read about in Forum, and here it was right in my own bedroom! We got a rhythm going, both of us sawing in and out of her holes at the same time. I was sucking and biting her tits at the same time. She shuddered and screamed and came endlessly. After about 10-15 minutes of this, I felt him tense, and say he was coming. Well after all of that I wasn't holding back either, and I flooded her pussy with my come as well. And then we all collapsed. We took some time to have some wine and cool off, take a potty break, and recover. We talked about my intro to swinging, and I said, 'It's going great so far!' with a big grin. Then she turned to me and asked if I'd like to try the double penetration thing, and offered her ass up to me. I'd never had anal sex before, but I was always curious. I said sure. During the whole break, she had been playing with both our cocks, giving us little mini blowjobs, and we were ready to go again in no time. She mounted her husband, sliding his cock in her pussy with a happy sigh, then had me get behind her. I had already lubed my cock, and following her instructions, liberally lubed her asshole, sliding one, then two of my fingers gently but deeply, into her ass. Then I placed the head of my cock against her ass, and let her control the action. She pushed back against me, and the head of my cock popped into her ass. She held us there for a short while, letting herself adjust to the new invader, then began to move slowly. I settled for using my thumbs to spread her ass cheeks wide, so I could see all the action. In no time flat though, slow was out the window. She was screaming, 'Fuck me! Fuck me Hard!' at both of us, and we obliged. I grabbed her hips and pounded my cock into her ass like there was no tomorrow. I warned her that I wasn't going to last much longer and she said, 'Come in my ass!!! Fill my ass up!' Her hubby and I came right at near the same time. Two cocks spewing cum into her ass and pussy, and she couldn't be happier. Me either. What a night. What a beginning!
  4. Following that line of reasoning, anything is acceptable both in the vertical world and the swinging world. Example-looting in NO was considered wrong but hey if those folks hadn't done it someone else Would have-right?? Swinging is supposedly a couples activity; yet by that reasoning if some single playmate turned one partners head & heart there should be no fingers pointed at the single mate stealer or need for an apology or guilt on the married swingers part because hey if it wasn't that person it Would have been someone else! And one last thing, everyone was so into high fiving and trying to demean those who found it sad to enable an engaged guy to cheat; can you remember how you felt a few days before your own wedding? When you were first a couple and ready to be married, assuming you weren't into swinging-how would you have felt finding out after the wedding that your beloved screwed a woman he just met and knew nothing about concerning her physical/sexual history? Try humiliated, wondering about his committment, as well as scared that he may have infected her if there was something contagious. Assuming and that's still a big assumption that condoms were used-there's other STD's that he could have passed on. Herpes & HPV both come to mind. Nice potential wedding present !! Would you have wanted to be the new bride who had to go for an STD screening to find some peace of mind? It is truly amazing how poor choices can be rationalized if they fit with one's own ethical standards. One should have ethics even if they don't have religious based morals so this has nothing to do with religion-in fact I'm not even Christian! Don't bother flaming me; I now see how those who don't follow the herd mentality are treated on this board. The few who spoke out against being an enabler to infidelity were all labeled as religious, holier than thou prudes -real open minded & mature I must say. This isn't a open discussion board; it's a cheering section for a select group-opposing opinions just get you labeled & shouted down. I have gained a lot of respect for the few that maintained their ethics and choose not to enable cheating. You guys are what I thought swinging was all about! I now see why some non swingers get the impression that swinging is a free for all where no one is off limits from adult/adult sexual conquests because hey if it feels good do it-even if it hurts someone who's unaware! I truly thought that swingers were in it to enjoy responsible non monogamy; where folks tried very hard not to be involved in cheating or causing marital/relationship discord. I was so wrong!
  5. No disrespect, but it is appearing more & more like when you're called to clarify on points that have been brought up on other threads (that recieved negative comments), you get snippy. That just seems to show a certain defensiveness ; maybe because in hindsight it may not have been the most ethical or safe decision?? From my POV, there is a difference between morality & ethics just as there is between safe & risky sex. Guess double standards are alive & well in the swinging world just as they are in the monogamous world. :rollseyes Gee, I must have misread a book that was suggested on this site; called Responsible Non-monogamy! head bang
  6. . Rather I feel it's right or wrong 24hrs before it's a legal marriage is not going to change any minds on here; so I will point out one other surprising event. There's no mention in the OP or follow-ups about condoms or such. Here's a complete stranger who; if you think he's totally responsible for his actions, apparently didn't think fucking a stranger was wrong. How many other strangers could he have been with in the last couple weeks-unprotected? So how do you know he was disease free-or how did he know you were? I've seen so many previous posts about only playing condom free with people you really know & trust-can someone clarify why it doesn't seem to have even been questioned when it's this particular set of players? Btw, I am assuming(wrongly?) that if only a bikini was worn there's not much place to keep condoms. I am not the morality police but damn, why is it ok for some folks to make questionable decisions & get a high 5 but then I read negative/judgemental posts about others that decide to do similar things?? I think for some of us, especially myself; it just seems like a double standard and could be confusing to new swingers or posters.
  7. Yes I would call it cheating and no you didn't start it in the same way he ended it! If he'd have just kissed and fondled her as you had done, then it may be more understandable & forgivable. He didn't stop, he knew for a fact you were passed out and still chose to take it all the way to intercourse without your input or permission. That is cheating in my book! Plus making plans with her without telling you shows he's capable of secrecy and not stopping when he saw you were there' shows great disrespect for your feelings, pride & marriage. This is just my opinion,I"m sure others will disagree. I'm sorry this happened to you; I know first hand how much pain & about all of the questions cheating can cause. Forgive him if you can(it will take a while to even fully do that) but don't ever forget it completely. That doesn't mean to dwell on it; just be aware that he has the capability/mindset to do it and then tried to turn it back on you; so you feel like HIS choice to screw her was your fault.
  8. I've had the pleasure of playing with some great black guys. I didn't get a sneak preview so had no idea what kind of package I would be enjoying. Of the 7 I've enjoyed spending time with the smallest was 8.5"!! Coincidence maybe, lucky definitely!
  9. I wonder if the boss had wanted more than a feel and taste of her tits, if you'd have let him do whatever he wanted? You mentioned you're glad that nothing more happened which means you may have allowed it-am I reading that wrong? I don't know about others but to me this is just too damn close to you giving her boss consent for rape/molestation!! Yes it ended at the tits but if inappropriate (due to her being unconcious) touching, licking & kissing took place then I would feel very much like I'd been pimped out by my husband! Dentists have been imprisoned for touching, fondling & intimately kissing their drugged up patients-why is this any different? In fact to me it's worse-she trusted you; the man she loves, to protect her when she needed you and you betrayed her trust totally! Especially since you already knew this man was NOT someone she wanted to play with or found appealing!!
  10. As a polyamorous married couple I say it can work! It's working quite well for us! Our partners are single so the success isn't based on it being only because we're with another couple. It does take work, understanding and a whole lot of communication to make it successful.
  11. Well, I guess I get to answer on both threads. We started out with an open marriage which now has turned into a polyamorous one. For us it's working out wonderfully; no jealousy, no insecurities and no secrecy! I guess it takes two people who are can communicate (in ways you'd never dream) and that are on the same page as to the level of commitment to the marriage in order for it to w0rk well. We've been married 30 yrs so we knew each other very well, maybe that makes it much easier, although I never want anyone to believe it's a walk in the park. Subjects you never thought you'd discuss with your mate are now freely discussed and it's a continual work in progress to make sure the commitment to each other is intact & healthy. Can't wait to answer the poly thread!!
  12. We started after hubby 'stepped out' to explore his sexual fantasies without me! I asked him what about we both explore our fantasies and the rest as they say is history. It's been 8 mos now since we started and things are going great.
  13. We discussed this even though it's highly unlikely-hubby is surgically safe for the last 26 yrs and I went through menopause almost 3 yrs ago. We also use condoms for STDs but they also give some protection from unplanned pregnancies. But on the outside chance that I became pregnant-my family history is weird to begin with regarding our reproductive system , we would raise it. Now, we both know that this child couldn't be passed off as our own-I only play with black men and hubby is a very light skinned Irishman! But for us, who only had one child by choice, we feel it would be our responsibility to l0ve and raise this child! Questions, odd looks and even loss of family ties wouldn't change the fact-we made a choice to play so we will face the outcome with L0ve and a full commitment to do the right thing by this child. Oh and this isnt' about not believing in abortion; I had an unplanned pregnancy in 1973 and chose an abortion.
  14. April 22, 1971, 12:15am tThe morning of my 19th birthday!! I had a guy friend, in fact we met when he hit my car about 4 mos earlier. We worked in businesses next to each other-me as a college student/cashier & him as a mechanic in a gas station. Both of us got off w0rk at 10:30pm. One night he walks over to my job and asks if I want to go for a ride in his car after we got done at w0rk- who could resist a midnight blue convertible Catalina with a kick a** stereo? Plus my birthday was coming up really soon, like in less than 2 hrs. We rode around for a while, parked at some little roadside park and made out. He suggested going back to the gas station to get something to drink-smooth ey?? :rollseyes We get back there, have a Coke and start kissing again. One thing leads to another, he apparently was a boob guy and I had a good set of 36DD's. He slowly took my clothes off and I his. I'd never even seen an erect penis before so had no concept of size. All I remember is it was rock hard. We did the 'deed' and afterwards I wondered why all of my girlfriends complained about pain and bleeding. I had neither but figured I was just lucky. I didnt' get much out of the actual act, but enjoyed the physical closeness-again blaming any 'lack' of enjoyment on myself. We dated for a 6-7 months and then college took too much time & I quit my job. He went on to w0rk at one of the big automobile plants in Detroit. I dont' think we ever saw each other again, even in passing. It wasn't until almost a year later that I had another boyfriend who I decided to have sex with. Boy, was I in for a surprise, He was so handsome & I was shy around him so no lights were on when we undressed. At the approrpiate time he entered me- I saw stars and cried out in pain! I thought he'd done something intentional to hurt me since after all I was 'experienced'. I bled like a stuck hog!! He was what I know now was average-maybe 6 1/2" but my 'first' was about 3" erect and pencil thin! After that I found out that yes, size does matter to a point, if you've had regular sex for months only to still be physically a virgin-then you might be dating someone with too small of a unit to do the job!
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