thump69us

As I said in my original post, I don't have a vendetta against single men. There are a lot of nice respectful ones out there. It just seems lately that a LOT of swing sites and clubs that allow them have been inundated with single men. A lot of who think it is just an easy way to get laid. Yes, there are single women who have the same attitude. But, there aren't nearly as many of them as the single men. The last "club" party we went to had so many single men in there that the ratio of men to women was at least 3 to 1. (the club's fault I know). Kinda hard to enjoy a party when the singles out number the couples. (if you're not interested in a single)

I was talking to a friend of ours who is in the lifestyle about singles and we came up with a thought. Since both of us are married and play with couples we were wondering why singles are called swingers. The dictionary definition of "swinger" is married couples who swap partners for sexual pleasure. It says nothing about singles - male or female. We have no vendetta against single males, but sometimes it really makes you wonder. Most (not all) single males think that they are gonna rock your woman's world and are great in bed. Well, if they are so great why can't they get a woman of their own to swap?

we agree also. we get tired of single men contacting us and saying that they play but their wife isn't into it. well, then we aren't into you is our response.