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purpletiger

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  1. oops - That's the play on words I thought also. Oh well, Sweet Tea n Ass might go well together too.
  2. I like your profile name! I think it's sexy without being arrogant or blatant. Wow, I never knew they had swings on the beaches there. We're going to have to plan a vacation there. Our kids can play on them during the day:), then at night.......
  3. lol... I had to look this one up. I can safely say, we would answer "Not only no, but HELL No". This has to be a joke:lol:. We usually discount most of names posted above as guys posing as couples. Really, if you are serious, why start with an uphill battle. We've actually used a different profile on SLS because some thought this one was sexual. In reality, I like purple and tigers so I put them together (similar to the purple monkey I see running around here occasionally ) On the other hand, Redeyes, 69 has never bothered us:D. We think of that as the user ID being taken and trying to come up with one that will work.
  4. Well I learned something else new - I didn't know the SLS IM worked at all. I'll have to revisit that one. We have a yahoo account that is only for contacting other swingers and swinger friends. Use an obvious alias name in the profile, and only complete part of the yahoo profile you are comfortable sharing. Yahoo IM let's you group people and you can appear offline to any person or group at any time (set one group to permanently offline). Anyone that becomes crass, you can put them on your ignore list. We don't cybersex but we do find it a great way to chat for compatibility and keep in touch with friends.
  5. I've read the responses and now have more questions:rolleyes:? Are you talking about friends, profiles, or initial emails? Friends - None of these would be an issue. I know they know better and are either having fun with a word, or trying to type a quick response. Profiles - Well, these should have been thought out, read, and re-read. There may still be a typo, but your profile says who you are to anyone reading it. It should have words spelled out. Acronyms can mean several things. Emails (until we know each other) - These have more leeway than a profile, but it should still be coherent. Put it all together, if it's a bad email, and a poorly written profile, then chances are good there will be a "No Thanks" as the reply.
  6. Willyoats - There are exceptions to almost every rule. I believe your's is one of them and one men like to read on the story board - some to fantasize, some to justify. I think think it's great for you:D Shelly, I'm not a marital counselor and simply don't have the qualifications to meddle in such things as a marriage either, but, I don't think cheating is his answer unless he wants to ruin his marriage. I think your sister would never understand the reasons and would be devastated to the point she would try to ruin his life whether or they stayed married. You know your sister better than us, so you would be a better judge of her reaction if she ever found out, but, usually this isn't taken as a wake up call, but rather a cheating, deceitful spouse, that honestly they can't see any reason why he (or she) would cheat on them. But, I do feel sorry for him. I don't have a solution, just a word of caution to the one you were thinking. I hate the thought of counseling myself (seems most counselors are as messed up as their clients) but will she even consider that?
  7. ok - here goes the flame - lol just kidding! First - Congratulations!!!! Now would we swing while pregnant, NO, in fact we quit swinging for awhile for that very reason. She was pregnant, then nursing. and we were being parents - who had time to swing? Would we be freaked out by it - NO, I've seen pregnant women, even had sex with one ;)and it was FANTASTIC everytime. It wouldn't bother me in the least to see someone pregnant at a meet & greet or club. Would we play with you, that's a hard question to answer until we are put in that situation. My initial thought is we definitely wouldn't play that night, but we would talk with you, get to know you, hopefully become friends for fun after the 9 months are up:facelick:, but then again - if we became friends, (and you did say softswap), then possibly? As for advice - some people will be freaked out about it, hell, some people would be freaked out just to know you were swingers - some people will be turned on by it, some people will be indifferent. Do what feels right for the three of you, be very careful and safe, and have fun.
  8. I've found crow tastes better with lots of ketchup:cool:
  9. We reply to initial contact from everyone, but..... some we have had some occassions where I thought it best not to reply later. One couple we politely said no, we're not interested now. A month later we had an email "How about now?" - what do you say? :lol Another, we usually open a gallery of our pics (G rated with faces) if we're interested. We reserve all our private pics for people we've actually met. I told them to view the gallery, let us know. They also said they opened up their private pics, but when we tried to view them, they were still private. I sent a nice email, saying hey can't see you pics? No response..... until, I closed our gallery to them almost 2 weeks later, then we get an email asking if "we had figured it out yet because they'd really like to see our private pics." WTF! Thought it best I not respond to that one:surrend:
  10. We're members since 2005. We took a few years off for family reasons. I considered starting a new profile since we had been inactive for so long, but in the end, decided to use the one we had. I think this is the 1st time we became paid members. We don't accept certs, as Julie said, it's no one's business. On the other hand, I will look at certs, not to exclude a couple, but just nosy to see who's certifying them. It may lead to someone else we're interested in If any of this excludes us from someone's contact list - We want lose any sleep over it. On the other hand, if they do contact us, we might just lose a whole night's sleep.
  11. Just an FYI - You can rearrange your pics so your public ones appear on the front page. If you click on my account, manage pictures, change sort order (under your default and above your pictures), then move them up or down the list.
  12. We'd contact you but we get the impression we may be a bit too far away I love the pic of her framed by the arc! The wife wishes people would put pics of the male on the public side also (she likes to look also). You might look at rewording the last sentence. When I read "We are NOT interested in married couples," I almost clicked out of it, then I read the rest of the sentence. Good profile!
  13. Ours are condoms a must, we always play in the same room. Other than that, we seem to bend them as we go:lol:
  14. Now that's exactly how it should be. The reason we like swinging is because it lights the spark in our sex life:facelick: Good Luck and have fun!!
  15. There ya go - for us, this sums it up nicely. I know I'm a lucky man, she thinks she's a lucky lady - and we still got it:EG: and each other! Good Luck and have fun!
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