Annamal

Thanks for posting that link, Brad & Janet. I'm thinking if the others are ok with playing, then why not? I'm ok about playing on my period with guys. I have been with a woman while on my period too. (My ex girlfriend) she just had me insert a tampon before she went down.

Yes I have used birth control pills before. However I am not on them right now bc I had my bloodwork done in July and my triglycerides were slightly elevated. So my gyn took me off them but when he saw me at my annual exam, went ahead and gace me a script for a years worth of them anyway(after he looked at my bloodwork from my primary care dr who originally drew the blood) I am hesitant to go back on. i was always hungry, and had like zero sex drive

Ok all this is probably a very dumb question! Jon and I are new to the whole on premise party thing. there is a party coming up next month that we need to rsvp and buy tickets for ahead of time. But there is one small problem. . I have sometimes irregular menstrual cycles and am not quite sure whether i might have my period or not. Should we just book our room and pay for the tickets and go anyway, even if I have my period? Ladies, what do you all do in situations like this? Do you even bother to attend a party where playing is a strong possibility when you have your period? Or do you jus stay home and not go at all? Or do you go and participate anyway? Or do you enjoy pleasing others without having intercourse? What's the deal? I need some enlightenment please!

Jon dislikes piercings and tattoos. He only has his ear pierced. I used to have a diamond stud in my nose about 10 years ago for a brief time of 3 months or so. I had it taken out for personal reasons. I have 2 holes in each ear. I had a 3rd hole in my left ear but it never healed right and was always bothering me, so I let it close up. I have been with 2 women with tongue piercings. I liked it. I would never get one though. My ex gf had her nipples and hood pierced. The hood piercing looked good but it was inthe way. I want to get a tattoo of my black cat. Hubby is against it so Im going sans tattoo for now. I just have my ears done.

I prefer shaven... totally. No strip, no kind of hair at all. I used to have a bunch of hair on the top before I started having bi experiences. One of my first bi experiences the woman had me trim down and shave. She had my husband do the same! Since then (about 3 years ago) I have been totally shaved. I cannot give oral to a female unless they are clean, and shaved up. I'm extremely selective when it comes to my female partners. Probably because I have had quite a few bad experiences in the past.

This was an interesting topic since I have wondered what others do about birth control too. I know its a big issue for me and is always on my mind. My husband is not fixed and I am not either. I dont take the pill anymore bc it caused me to have elevated tryglicerides. So I went off in September. Now the question is: Do I feel safe enough with just the condoms? I sometimes worry about that. I mean peopke have become pregnant before due to incorrect condom use as well as breakage! I dont ever ever want to be faced with a pregnancy and not know whos baby it is. That is one of my biggest fears. One time we got carried away 2 years ago during a full swap encounter. I wound up letting the guy go bareback and my husband thought that he saw the guy cum in me. I was not sure since I had been drinking. So the next day we called my gyn and got a morning after pill prescription. I dont want to deal with this situation anymore... so for now it is condom & withdrawal even tho the guy is wearing a condom. For me I have had 2 unplanned pregnancies when I was in my early 20's/ I feel I can never be too careful

I know this might sound dumb, but a good old fashioned game of "Spin the Bottle" or sometimes "Truth Or Dare" works! Once things get rolling, we sometimes progress to that game I forogt what it is called- the one where you go in the closet for a certain amount of time with a partner. the other couple stays in the living room and is supposed to call out when "time's up" It is fun