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SnozzberryBlu last won the day on December 27 2007

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About SnozzberryBlu

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  • Birthday 01/01/1967

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    M.Female
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    South Mississippi
  • Interests
    Roller derby, art, food art, fishing, swimming
  • Occupation
    Legal Researcher/Derby Girl
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    Not long enough!

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    http://SnozzberryBlu.swinglifestyle.com
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  1. Now knowing about the ammonia/hot tub, this post probably won't apply here. But it might help anyone else getting into a similar situation.. Right after my second son was born, I got some kind of infection. The smell was AWFUL! I never got used to it, neither did hubby. Maybe because it didn't smell like hot restaurant bread? LOL.. anyways... it was so strong at times that I could smell it through my clothes. I bathed 3-4 times a day, went back to the doc 3 times... nothing. Finally, I switched docs and this one listened to me, smelled me I'm sure, and treated me. But it was months later. Months now, no oral.. waaaa it was horrible! Anyway, our experience is that a very BAD, odd smell is likely infectious in nature, and if you are one to go bareback, might want to pack condoms in the "emergency bag" lol. And not just for hubby... what she has, her hubby has! If it isn't that kind of smell, or urine, then you can probably bet it has to do with diet or her cycle. Other causes can be medications and illnesses. Just as diet changes the taste of sperm, it changes a woman's smell. I can eat seafood weeks on end, but eat shrimp? oooo bad smell lol... Turnip greens.. yuck.... It's not too many foods, mind you, but there are a few. Then there is her cycle.. the closer she is to her period, the stronger the smell. Right after her period, all roses lol... well close! Oh and as for telling them.. I understand what the above links are saying but I don't think it applies here. I don't smell my pus all day long lol, to be desensitized to it. If it is a little "odorous" for the most part it hits me when I sit down to pea. So I have a good many hours of the day I don't smell it, then a nice kick in the nose for a few minutes every several hours. Can't miss it. So if it is a long-standing problem, she knows. And, she should have told you ahead of time - so on that note, I say it isn't worth the stress of telling her. If it's not a long-standing problem, it likely will disappear in a few days.. and why embarass her? Hope that helped some
  2. I guess your first question doesn't apply here as both my guys are not into guys lol... As for sleeping... It was hard for me personally because the other couple to us wanted to maintain sleeping together at night. We occasionally have "swap naps" lol when things just happen to work out that way. But it's probably best as we all have different schedules that do affect bedtimes.
  3. I always think this one is funny I translate it to mean "If I have to do it, she's gotta be this and this and this and." (insert: really good looking; aggressive cuz I don't know what I'm doing; passive so I can stay in control; someone who will go down on me and I don't have to return the favor; etc... there is something she has to "be"... other than who she is ... and what's good enough for hubby is not necessarily good enough for her lol) For me, the "right" woman is one who is bi because that is who she is, not because she is trying to please hubby. God what awkward situations those are!
  4. Yes we do play as a foursome with others or as seperate couples. No one goes it alone though. For us, the main detractor to swinging is what is happening right at this moment. We have a date for tonight with two people we think are great but they haven't contacted us since last night so the final plans (exactly what time, where to meet outside a large casino) aren't made yet... it's the "left hanging" thing that ticks me off lol... We did originally want just a few couples to play with on a regular basis... but finding those outside our foursome has been a little harder. First, you have to get them to meet you lol.. then see if it "works", then see if later they're not crazy, yadayada... a lot of hit and miss just to find 4-6 other people! LOL Wonderful & tragic... couldn't have said it better lol
  5. Well... not implying here that a cliche or two would turn us off. An entire profile full of them, however, to me is an insight into their vocabulary and creativity lol... as for profile turn offs/other pet peeves... all caps, one sentence info, blatant bigoted profiles, awful (not just rusty) grammar and spelling, overly boastful... It's also a turn off to start talking to people who have contacted us, only to find - usually very quickly - that they didn't read the profile to start with... ugh! LOL
  6. It doesn't take much profile reading to come across overused/overrated cliches and phrases in swinger profiles... and I SO hate using/reading cliches! Here are a few just from this morning's surfing.... - We are not Ken and Barbie - Cum out and play - We can go all night - ...that just won't quit - Notches in the headboard - Won't take one for the team - Well hung - No drama Can you add to the list? Or do you have other pet peeves when reading profiles, things that turn you off before you even get to email a person? I think a little honest critiquing here could be really helpful in writing a great profile
  7. Well lemme see if I can answer the different questions all in one post (or at least try lol!) We were in the lifestyle briefly in 92-93, and left due to it being hard to connect with people at the time (no internet.. remember when? LOL) We got back into it in late 2004. We joined a local club, put our profile on SLS and we were having a ton of fun. We hadn't been with a lot of people, but the lifestyle in general and the atmosphere at the club were very liberating. We really enjoyed things. In January of 05, we met another couple who started wanting us to be exclusive with them. We liked them well enough, but not that well. We had heard about "those poly people" and were really kind of freaked out by this couple. We backed out of that pretty quick, and swore (haha) to be more vigilant as to who we hung out with. SIX WEEKS LATER... lol.. no joke... we realized that another couple we had been playing with were just the greatest friends. They had been in the lifestyle for several years, so of course we felt pretty safe with the friendship aspect. That's all we thought it was, really - friendship. They worked at the club we went to, but lived 90 minutes away. So, on weekends we would invite them to stay over so they didn't have to drive back so late at night. Then it kind of got to where we were missing them, and them us; not wanting them to leave... they not wanting to leave... and it just sort of stuck that way. Before we knew it, they were moving in to our recently-enclosed garage and making arrangements to sell their house. It just sort of happened that as Mr Snozz was developing feelings for her, I was for her and her husband. It just worked. I can say it has had some pretty big highs and lows.... Six months after moving in we faced Hurricane Katrina together, and the loss of a home business we all started together (due also to the storm), and then peri-menopause hit for her and for me (ouch!). So before we were a year old, we had three major life stressors occur. But we have managed the bad times pretty ok, especially considering there really IS no directions out there for this lol! The hardest part, I do have to admit, has been having two women in one house on equal standing... that still takes work on her part and on mine. But, the most surprising thing has been the insight that having another married couple living with you can give to your own marriage -- as well as you to theirs. We have learned a lot about our own selves, things we might never have learned, had we not had two other mature adults being around us when we are most ourselves (ie in pajamas, with dishes in the sink lol). A lot of exploring and feedback is given all the way around. We are not interested in expanding like I guess "pure" polyamory families do.. and if we broke up, I am not sure this would ever happen to us again either (all though I guess at this point I really cannot ever say "never" about anything anymore lol). Our immediate friends and some trusted family members are aware of the situation, with blessings (some had a few reservations though). And, while we tried to hide it, our kids do know. Thankfully they are older teens. We shared with them that this is not so uncommon outside the US, and just a different way of having a family. They kind of like a double mom and dad (and double the presents yesterday never hurts anything! LOL) We do play seperately... we at first did not want to. But there are times when Mr Snozz and I want to hang back, and they don't, or vice versa. And then there are times when we are attracted to different people, or vice versa. So while we prefer to play all together, we will play as two couples. That's all I can think to write. Feel free to ask anything though.. I will try to answer PS... the last I looked, online poly groups are out there, but sorely lacking in networking/"customer service" skills lol
  8. Well... hmmm.. My hubby and I hung out here a while in 04/05, loved swingersboard, thought this was just the mecca of information for anyone in the lifestyle. Then something weird happend to us... polyamory. Somewhere around the time that we met our SOs, someone had posted a general statement in one of the other SB forums asking about polyamory. The response was not too positive. So.. there we were with this new thing going on, the people at our club were acting funny about/around us, we generally felt like "freaky people" ... and well life in general got busy as hell. So we didn't post anymore. Last night we met with a guy (and his new wife) that we were friends with in college -- who found us on SB, lol... so I came back, re-read some of our old posts, and then scanned the forums.. and found this one! Oh WOW! Thank you SB for creating this area. We never intended to be where we are now, and it may be forever, or we may eventually move in a different direction. I am not even sure if we were um "single" that it would even happen again... as the lifestyle has always been our main focus. This was more sort of an ambush... we never saw it coming. I haven't read a lot of the board, so I am hoping (assuming?) that posters in this forum are comfortable here, and posting away as if this were any old internet BBoard. I do hope I am right. I have so missed this place. Again, thank you SB for creating this.. without it, we might only have read some posts today and moved on again.
  9. Heidi Ho! Me... I love a gentleman.. now not one who hides in a corner and gives me no inkling that he is interested... though to me that is hardly a gentleman, more like a hermit forced out of his recliner at home lol! Total turn offs to me are men who paw, grope.. or ugh.. drool! There is one guy at our club that thinks he is the god of kissing... he should be an ENT with the range he has on that tongue. He nearly strangles me! I don't kiss him anymore. Another one leers at me whenever I am within 20 feet.. a third talks so filthy he would make most LSers blush, and this is supposed to turn me on too, you can tell. One guy thought since he was sitting at the table next to ours and I stood up (facing the other direction) that it was ok to lift my skirt up... needless to say, these guys will never come near me naked! On the other hand, we have a few couples we have been with and the men are sweet, caring, yet sexy and seem to know when and how to grab my ass in just the right way. Because they look me in the eye, don't gawk, and talk to me about everything from politics to idiot drivers.... I feel like a human being. That, for me, allows me to then feel like a very SEXY human being... which, of course, benefits them in the end too! So... Caveman? Come on... I left those bozos in Jr High! LOLOLOL
  10. I am a real bi...sex, emotion, etc. and can fall in love either way... head to toe, women are incredibly beautiful to me. Yet, I need that extra touch from a man. We have no problem being with couples where the woman is not interested in me. Now if we only wanted one set of swinging friends, that would be a problem lol, but I do like the guys very much! And, once I have been with a woman I have a very deep need to be with a man. I just want it all I guess lol!
  11. Hey waaaaiiiitttt a minute you!!!!! Do you know what the rust alone could do to my ass crack? Oh wait, that's ANOTHER thread! LOL He makes it sound so difficult.. we are just covering a few bases until next week, when I get "the shot" ... gee, can't wait. Ugh!!!! Seriously though, yeah, probably keep it and hope for a girl (we have two boys).. shoot for the longest time we wanted to adopt another, and didn't. In my heart it would be our baby... genes only go so far. Still.. shoot our kids are almost grown and we have PLANS lol!!!! I guess I am weird here, but I am more disturbed by having to start over really... denial on "who's your daddy" is a lot easier to conjure up than "now when are these people getting outta my house????"
  12. Hey thanks for all the replies It really helps to have some idea of what is out there... But.. as for the REST of you guys... I must lodge a complaint ...!!!! I know that there have to be more than five stories out there with all the times people write that stuff in their profiles that there must be some interesting things to share... and things we can prepare each other for. Soooooo.... if you can think of anything to post, I would love to read it!
  13. Heyyyy I'm 38 and hubby is 39... Married 14 years, swingers breifly in 93-94... then back again this past Oct.
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