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15 GoodAbout NaughtyKatt
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- Birthday 12/22/1979
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Couple
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Clovis, CA
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A little bit of everything. I can wear sxy black leather, listen to smooth jazz and bake cookies or I can dress like a soccer mom, listen to metal and swear like a sailor at a hockey game. No stereotypes here!
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NaughtyKatt started following Decoder Rings & Secret Handshakes... lol and Things not to do in a picture
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Things not to do in a picture
NaughtyKatt replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We are guilty of having more pics of myself on our SLS ad, too. That is our default pic over there. Sometimes I think it looks like my legs end at my knees, though. We have 4 "sexy" pics of me and one normal clothed pic of him in the first 5 pics that can be seen by anyone. Although we don't show our full faces in those first 5 pics, we're pretty sure that anyone who knows us would probably recognize us anyway. Paid members can see a pic of both of us that shows our faces. We don't really have many good pics of both of us, but we were able to get that pretty decent one by using the timer on the camera. I wish I could get more good pics of my hubby, but I just have more fun in front of the camera. I love his body, but in general I don't think there are many sexy "poses" for guys. I did take a really great pic of him the other day, just a really cute and casual pic of him with our dog. I don't think it's really the right kind of pic for SLS, though. ~Kat -
Decoder Rings & Secret Handshakes... lol
NaughtyKatt replied to intuition897's topic in Finding People to Swing With
This is something that I really wanted to post over there whenever someone would ask why we get married in the first place, or where is the intimacy: If their idea of marriage is based on sex alone, that is a sad marriage indeed. Sex is a wonderful part of our marriage, but I didn't get married because he's good in bed. I married my husband because he is my best friend, because we laugh together and cry together, because we share similar interests and have fun little arguements about our differences in opinions when it come to sports teams, music and chick flicks. I love watching him play with our spoiled rotten dog and one day I'll watch him with our children. I love his family, as crazy as they may be; and they have always been wonderful to me. We were high school sweethearts that went through a whole bunch of drama and eventually ended up together again. I never want to live my life without him again. He knows just the way I like to be kissed, and I know how gets completely focused on hockey for the whole day before he has a game. He knows just how I like my eggs in the morning, and I know the weird way he eats pancakes. He'll gladly come with me to yard sales and help me dig for those hidden treasures - toys that remind me of my childhood. I understand those times when he just wants to be a slob and sit in front of the TV all afternoon. That is our intimacy. These are things that our other partners will never really know or understand about us. Sex is such a minor part of our lives - a wonderful part, but a small part of ourselves that we choose to share with others. Wow. I really wrote a novel there! -
Decoder Rings & Secret Handshakes... lol
NaughtyKatt replied to intuition897's topic in Finding People to Swing With
The first few pages of the post are mainly lifestylers who posted before the show aired. If you get to the posts that start after the show aired, that's where the flames begin. I really have nothing else to do at work today . . . I'm through post 750 of 1230 right now . . . -
Decoder Rings & Secret Handshakes... lol
NaughtyKatt replied to intuition897's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I really like the bitten apple symbol, it's really subtle, and not likely to be construed as some kind of sexual symbol by those who aren't in the lifestyle. I'm still in the process of reading through the posts on Oprah's board This is the last post I read: What are all these online lifestyle communities about that I am reading in this thread? I've seen some sites mentioned a couple of times already. I've checked them out, and was surprised to see how easy it was to get my trial membership. I looked in my area and recognized someone I know. What's this world coming to? I'm tempted to spend the money to become a full member and find out how many of my neighbors are involved in this unacceptable behavior. I know my friends will feel the same way when I tell them about the discovery I've made through these sites. Maybe we should start a neighborhood protest to protect our children. Thank you lifestyle sites for your easy access and assistance. I'm spreading the word. Scary. ~Kat -
Swingers on Oprah
NaughtyKatt replied to Tom & Bonnie's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
I have some time to kill at work this morning, and I'm reading through the posts on Oprah's message board. There are some wonderful posts from people in the lifestyle, but those judgemental posts are downright scary!! (and so far I'm only through 200 of about 1100 posts) -
Swingers on Oprah
NaughtyKatt replied to Tom & Bonnie's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
I agree. I watch Oprah on occasion and she is usually pretty neutral. Although, sometime last year, she totally RIPPED into a woman who had posed for pornographic pics. I was a little worried that she might have the same kind of judgemental reaction to the topic of swinging. I'm so glad that the whole focus of the segment was that swingers are NORMAL people, and that they have strong and fulfilling relationships. No Springer-esque theatrics . . . whew! If the 20/20 segment ever airs, it will be interesting to see what kind position they take. -
Swingers on Oprah
NaughtyKatt replied to Tom & Bonnie's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
I was really impressed with the way the Oprah show was handled as well. I also noticed that here on the board the most users ever online was yesterday. The exposure is bringing more people here. Of course, some of them are just lookie-loos, but I'm sure there are also others genuinely interested in the lifestyle that have come here for answers. -
570 Guess I am a little kinky. And we don't even have any experience as swingers yet Gotta get the hubby to take the test . . .