Wunhungdude

I must say I have enjoyed reading the replies to this point. If posting something on your boards that goes "against the grain", makes me a troll, so be it. Let me clarify what I was initally posting about as my point seems to have been lost. Initally, I was mildly bothered by the posts from single men in which it appeared that they were complaining about not being able to hook up with couples, or married women. Similar to homeless people which I have VERY LITTLE sympathy for, they have every opportunity to make a way for themselves, but instead, in my view, sit and complain about what they DON'T have. Have any of you guys ever read Who Moved My Cheese? All I could think about after crossing several of those types of posts was "hey! There's Him & Haw!". As mentioned previously, I was experiencing a little stress about some completely unrelated issues, and made a poor decision and lashed out. Again, thank you all for bearing with me and for allowing me to participate in your friendly forum. Contrary to what has been posted, I didn't just come here to "stir up a mess". I just thought that for someone like myself who does not surf this type of site very often that it was apparent from the start that reading posts like that were a turn-off to me. Think about other visitors who have an interest in learning about the lifestyle and what type of impression they might gather if they constantly see posts wherein the singles are whinging and crying. I think the site would be better represented if those types of posts were not so frequent. In the end, I hope some people were able to look past the negative aspects and take something positive away from this shipwreck. For the record, I am 36 years old, well educated, and hold a professional position. No, I don't live with mommy & daddy, but I do own the house they live in...

Gentletexan, I appreciate you taking time to respond. If you seriously ever want to get together to chew the fat, I am available. Do you have any favorite haunts here in Houston? I have been frequenting Uptown Sushi, The Capitol Grille, and also Marks or Pierres. I occasionally go over to Sullivans where there are easy pickings, but the crowd is a little older if that suits your tastes.

JnCC-I am trying to make sense of your comment "The remaining .1% are, well, let's just say, "YOU ain't one of 'em." In fact, the only "beautiful women" you "spend time with every night" are in your gratuously inflated MIND, Buck-O." I gave you the benefit of the doubt and researched the word "gratuously" as I previously had not heard it before. Alas I find the word does not exist-at least in the Kings English. Were you by chance going for "GRATUITOUSLY"? If you were, that really does not make a lot of sense to me either. Here is a practical application: "JnCC found his grammar had come under gratuituous criticism." Which is blatantly the case at this point. I am not feeling the love from you.. A SMARTER person would be slower to pass judgement, and more open to the idea that just because it is NOT POSSIBLE in your life that it does not mutually exclude someone else from being successful in a similar venture. Only the ignorant fear what they do not understand. Embrace me brother, I can be your best friend. Life is far too short to harbor negative feelings about ANYONE! Remember what I posted earlier-everyone has something to teach us. I am searching patiently for what it is I am supposed to learn from you..

You guys & gals crack me up. Glad I could be of service to you. Something I am quite used to-being of service that is :-)~ ! This post did not start out as me bragging about how much sex I get.. It started out about me bitching (imagine that!) about the single guys crying about NOT getting any. I don't know the people on the board very well, but I am enjoying your company immensely. If I am still welcome, I would like to continue to participate! Just so you know, my feelings are not hurt in the least.. I respect that you can speak your opinions here. By the way, if ever any of you are down in Houston, and would like to get together for a drink, and enjoy some good conversation, I would like that very much. Until then~~I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year! I wonder who's stocking I will find myself in this Christmas?

Thanks for the feedback guys & gals. Some things I would like to respond to: I am SINGLE as is indicated in my post. Arrogant & conceited? Amazing how quickly the line between assured self confidence and conceit is moved by someone who does not even know you. Shitty Attitude? Guilty! Admittedly I succumbed to the negativity, and thus became guilty party by responding with negativity. Is there room on the boards for forgiveness? Do I spend time with beautiful women most every night? I would counter with another question-what do you consider beautiful? I find the company of a "beautiful" woman to be quite intoxicating. Beauty however is a very limiting adjective unless and until it is opened up to include more than physical appearance. I spend time with soccer moms, single moms, doctors, politicians, socialites and anyone else who would choose to honor me with their presence. Every single person has something special to offer, and are unique in their own way. That is where the beauty comes from. I have yet to meet a single person who does not have something to teach me. You simply have to be a good listener to hear the lesson. People in general very often overlook other individuals based solely on their physical appearance. I am a little deeper than that. I wonder how offended some of you might be to learn that my time is paid for by the company that I keep. The years of refinement, and social lessons and pain at learning the correct social graces to achieve this level of success I fear may be beyond comprehension. My years spent at college were childs play considering the lessons I have learned in the real world. I am not advertising as I am sure the site prohibits that.... In hind-sight maybe it is not such a bad thing that many guys are spending their time on-line and surfing this site as it leaves that many more women unattended, and lessens competition. Thank you! In closing, single guys-the world is your oyster.. You simply have to have the drive and determination to make your wants, needs & dreams a reality. I've enjoyed my time here. This is a very healthy outlet for me. Thanks again!

Regarding single guys looking for sex with hot married women, here is my take. After much reading on this web site and other related "swinging" web sites... I am NOT a swinger per se, but I am a very sexually active individual (single) who finds himself involved in multiple partner scenarios, and with married women quite frequently. My reason for posting now, instead of just continuing to laugh my ass off at all the single guys bitching and moaning about not being able to hook up, is this: I am going to make a general statement to all of the single guys who frequent the boards looking for hot, married-girl action... It's never going to happen! If you have not figured it out by now, someone needs to tell you - IT AIN'T GOING TO HAPPEN! Get a freakin' clue! The "Swinging" lifestyle it occurs to me is almost like a "Members Only" club, meaning if you don't bring something to the table to swap... you really have no right to be sitting at the table! Get off your ass, and off the internet, and go out into the real world and prove you have some redeeming qualities by actually getting a girl on your own merits! Stop hounding the guys here about wanting to screw their wives! I have a strong suspicion that once most of you (if possible?) get girlfriends, you won't be posting here anymore! Lastly, this site is like going to a car show. Lot's of pretty people on display - but NEVER be so crass as to ask for the keys to someone else's car!!!!! Unless you show up in a Muscle car, exotic sports car, or other fine collectible (your woman), you have no RIGHT to ask to sit in, sit on, or drive someone else's ride! I don't come to this site to hook up with anyone, I come here to read stories from like-minded individuals. Somebody has needed to tell your bitching, whining ass single cry babies for a while now to GO OUT AND GET YOUR OWN ASS - THEN COME BACK TO POST! I don't know of a single woman who responds to a guy whining about what he does not have! It seems to me there are posts every day about how people don't want to meet you, or hook up with you. Boo-hoo! Let me tell you, every/any night of the week I can go out and find sex (no, not for money either!). Why can't you? If you are intelligent, decent, caring, warm-hearted, or have anything to offer - a woman WILL notice and WILL choose to spend time with you. If you find you can't EVER meet, or succeed with any woman... Probably time to take a long look in the mirror and figure out what the fuck is wrong with you! Spending too much time frequenting "swingers" boards that you are not developing your social skills? Too much time chasing illusions of sex with married women? Too much time spent chasing porn on the internet? I know my statements ARE inflammatory - hate me if you like as I really could not care less. But know this, you know that I am right about you. I am out having sex with beautiful women pretty much every night of the week. I am being introduced to new ladies by females I have already slept with. What does that tell you? Not only do I not have to hound other guys girls for sex, I have women working for me to introduce me to other girls! I don't ask for it to happen this way... I simply treat each woman that I meet as if she were a queen. I show respect. I try and make women feel comfortable about themselves. I offer compliments often. I SHOW, not just talk about how much I care and feel for them as individuals. I hope that any single guy reading this takes something away from it that can help them be more successful with women. The one thing I take away from the pissing-posts is that my life is SUPER! I now realize how good I really have it! Thank you very much~!