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  1. We've done the wild thing with friends while the kids were home but they were in diapers and asleep. They were so young that even if they'd woken up and gotten out of tghe crib, they wouldn't have known what was going on. The kids are 9 and 7 now so no we would not run the risk of getting caught by them. We don't feel there is anything shameful about what we do, but as responsible parents, you never want your kids to see any of this even if it's just you and your spouse. However, if the kids were asleep and friends were in the jacuzzi with us we might do some playing under the water.
  2. On the bar on the nude island at the Couple's Resort in Ocho Rios, Jamaica. At first, I blew hubby in front of everyone. he has a tough time cumming from a BJ but, it did get him excited that I blew hi in front of a crowd. He picked me up, laid me down on the bar, and the bartender "Scooby" and everyone else watched as we pounded away When it was all over, we got a round of applause and then the rest of the couples in the pool did the deed. Of course, they close the nude island at 5PM and the fun ended way too soon when Scooby's boss came over from the main property to shut us down
  3. MrAV8R bends very, very, slightly to the left. I've only seen a few penises in my whole life and have only actually experienced five. Only one did I not enjoy at all but that is because it was extremely short and kept slipping out. The guy went soft, got pissed off and blamed me. Bad experience! I don't ever remember any penis with a significant bend either way. I like my hubby's penis and I don't care whether it bends or is straight. I cum and have multiple orgasms EVERYTIME with him. But, I am lucky that way because I orgasm very easily. So, I guess it really doesn't matter to me
  4. Swinging is not cheating. Deceit is cheating. Swinging is sharing with consent. Oprah needs to be more responsible if indeed she tries to equate one with the other.
  5. I measured Mr AV8R on the top, from the base of his penis at the abdomen (where us ladies have our pubic bone) to the tip when he was fully erect. Not much of a curve, though slightly to the left. Is that the right way? I have read that some of you guys measure from underneath. Don't your balls get in the way and how can you see where to place the ruler?
  6. It's weird. I am the first, and so far the only, able to make Mr AV8R cum from a blow job. He says he loves them and Iknow the visual drives him wild...But we've been married for 11 years and I have only been able to get him there maybe 10 times in our whole marriage. Sometimes, it relaxes him right to sleep. I have at times woken up the next morning with his pecker in my mouth as if I'd been nursing on it all night. He loves that. More often though, he just goes soft and we can't complete it for him. When we are having regular sex though, he's like the energizer bunny...he keeps going and going...Am I doing something wrong? Why is it sometimes he just goes soft even though he tells me it feels great?
  7. Great! As if some of our vanilla friends didn't already think our proclivities were strange, now I find out I am married to a "freak". God I hope this string has faded away before hubby gets back into town and starts reading these posts!
  8. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate all of the thoughtful posts and advice you great people have provided here. I think I used the term "circus-sized" as opposed to stating actual measurements because no one would believe it until they have seen it. Frankly, I have never seen a penis this large before and it is more of a problem than a blessing. In fact, it has been a big problem. I indeed want to give all of myself to my husband. I love him. I am willing to try the recommendations you have suggested but I am not talking about a 9 or 10 inch penis that is a little extra thick here. It is massive and although I am not really in pain per se when we have regular sex, the internal pressure from so much being inside of me is distracting at times. I think we'll try a few more times and I'll give it the old college try. If it doesn't work, oh well, there is so much more to our relationship that is so wonderful I can go without the DP. It is indeed fun and very pleasurable having vaginal sex with him when we go slowly at first and have had a few drinks. If he is not insistent about going all the way in, it can feel incredible. When he gets excited though and trys to pound in deep, the pleasure quickly turns to pain. I want to try a penis anally and wish it could be him. If he were shorter and not as thick, we could do it. Again, we'll give it the old college try. Still, the mere length and girth of his penis gives me serious doubt we'll get much past the head of the penis. I think if he were to allow a smaller penis to take me anally (lets say 8 or 9 inches) he to would enjoy our MFM sandwich. I have read all your posts and again, appreciate you great folks putting advice on here but I think until hubby and I can work out our boundaries and limitations, my DP will have to be put on hold.
  9. I just got that!!! Oh that was good!!! What a comedian!!! By the way, I want the Mr. to try taking something (preferably another man) but at first I'd be satisfied with a dildo up his ass. He claims men are not built to have anything put up their asses but wants to have anal sex with me. Is there any truth that women are more physically able to be anally penetrated than men?
  10. I dunno guys...My hubby has quite the package and it has not been the blessing you guys might think it would be. His length and girth have scared off potential playmates and have caused some of the guys we had hoped to play with to get jealous and back off. Too bad too because I can enjoy a 9" or less penis with complete relaxation without worrying about getting hurt. Mr AV8R is lugging around a huge penis and I don't think he experiences any more pleasure or brings any more pleasure because of it. In fact, he is very self-conscious about it. He has been teased for years and when we swing, often the mood is broken because instead of things flowing to the next step, everyone takes a break to discuss his dick. Often the woman chickens out or the guy gets jealous and refuses to allow things to move further along. I enjoy sex with my husband, but when he gets carried away, it can be too much. I wish he was slightly less thick and slightly less long. When he is flaccid it is a monster to look at but attracts lots of attention especially at Hedo. When he is engorged, men often ostracize him and women look at him like a circus animal. Makes for quite an uncomfortable situation especially when you are hoping to make friends and enjoy this lifestyle. Don't put so much energy into the dick size thing. It IS NOT what we women are looking for and does not determine the level of our satisfaction with you. I am very happy and in love with hubby, but definitely wish he were smaller down there. Besides that, I am only 5'2" and HWP, I don't have any desire to be stretched out so much. Hubby's size has also created another problem in that I want to have a DP, but am unable and unwilling to allow him in my ass. He is unwilling to allow another man to have me in a way I will not allow him. So, for all you guys out there who think the Holy Grail is a big dick, I can promise you there is a downside to having too much meat. Let's go back to Physiology 101 too...A woman's nerve endings are only in the first few inches of her vagina. When I was in college I dated a guy who was so short he often popped out when we were going at it. He was however sufficiently thick and felt very good. We dated for nearly a year and I would have been very happy with what he provided had we gotten married. Hubby is the light of my life but it is because of the friend he is, the father to our children he is and because he is such a great human being I fell in love with. When I think of all the great things I love about being with him, his circus-sized pecker does not AT ALL factor in to it!!! In fact, had I not fallen in love with him, I would never have allowed him to have sex with me because it is simply too big. So guys, don't get wrapped up in the size is everything hype. Don't go wasting your money on Enzyte, Penis Pumps, etc... Kiss us...Caress us...Lick us and hold us afterwards...Get over the dick size issue because it isn't what makes us love our S/O's or enjoy the great benefits the lifestyle brings!
  11. Hubby likes to see me with the younger guys. I personally would not have a problem with a man 10 to 15 years older but have to admit I do enjoy a twenty-something guys who want to prove themselves. Our last experience with a 23 year old was simply awesome! He was handsome, oh so fit and full of stamina! Hubby took a break to watch but our young stud kept pounding away Our one experience with an older guy was awesome too for me though. He took his time and was so concerned for my satisfaction. He asked lots of questions and made sure I was feeling good. Hubby didn't have as much fun, but it was still enjoyable.
  12. Why the need for a label? We are two adults who love each other. Occasionally we enjoy adding someome or another couple into the mix. We are not swappers, swingers, etc...we are adults who enjoy a great sex life. Let's stop the labeling.
  13. Be very careful while pregnant as another man's sperm in the woman can abort the pregnancy. Look into it and you'll see. We didn't play while I was pregnant but gosh, I was so horny all the time I would have if weren't for the danger to the baby.
  14. The wife here...Hubby is both blessed and cursed by an enormous penis. It is literally scary to look at and has cost us some swinging opportunities due the the women backing out due to fear or jealous husbands. I have to admit, when hubby and I first started dating, I wouldn't let him come near me with his penis and unfortunately that led to even more anxiety for him as he was often teased in high school and while we were in college. After four years of dating and falling in love, we finally had sex a few months before we got married. The pressure was distracting but I wouldn't call it painful because he was patient and slow. A few drinks seemd to help too. Although he does have a tendency to go too deep when he is really excited, for the most part, the vagina is elastic and will conform to the shape of the penis. I can tell you however that when we swing and a man is less than 8 inches or so and not quite so thick, I am able to relax a whole lot more and enjoy the experience. All in all though, I wouldn't trade my husband for any other on earth. We have been married for 11 years now and every day just gets better and better. We're still on our honeymoon In a way, I wish were less endowed...even less than 9 inches would be better, but he is a wonderful lover, father and husband and my very best friend. If you are just starting out with a man who is too endowed, go slowly, take your time and make sure he respects you and takes his time too. It can indeed be a wonderful experience . Good luck
  15. Good advice from all and thanks for taking the time to help us out. OK, well, I have had anal stimulation before but not from my husbands penis. He has put his finger in my butt as we were having regular sex. It felt great. I understand his feelings and I would so much love for it to be his penis in my ass rather than anyone elses but that simply is not possible. Like I said, it is circus big. We have tried getting me really tipsy on Long Island Iced Teas and then he has tried to put it in. I really tried my best and relaxed as best I could but even he gave up and said he was afraid of hurting me. It just doesn't fit. Took me a long time to adjust to him vaginally but we are able to work that out. I do not want to hurt him and I will not. I respect his boundaries/feelings but would really love to try a DP. I think he and I just need to talk a little more. If he cannot deal with it, it will be a dead issue. I don't expect to feel resentful, but without his consent, this is something I will never get to try and it is not something I want to exclude him from I just need him to take the front door while we let Shawn take the back. Well, thanks again to all who responded. He'll be back in town in a short while and maybe onced we're back together this will work it's way out. Bye
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