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Sean_n_Jen

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About Sean_n_Jen

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    M. Couple
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    Eastern Colorado

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  1. (Sean here). Actually I have thought about this somewhat. I'm not ashamed of the choices I've made, including being a swinger; in fact I'm proud that Jen and I have a relationship sophisticated enough to do this. We're careful who knows this about us because there's no reason to ask for trouble. I'm sure there are those whom would try to make our lives difficult if they knew, and more so if they knew I didn't care what they thought. But, no I don't believe we would stop if discovered. As for my job, I don't work somewhere where I believe it would be in serious jeopardy; but I have avoided working anywhere that my personal life would be an issue. Its a small company, so I don't consider playing with co-workers (imagine that environment if something went wrong). Besides that, weirder things have happened between coworkers that wouldn't even make me being a swinger that interesting. I don't see this as an issue in Jen's job either, although since I'm the primary earner, we could live without it if necessary. I realize that many are in positions, in jobs or otherwise, where the oppinion of others has a much bigger influence on their life. I guess what I'm trying to say is that although we're still somewhat new to this, our future decisions (where we live, our jobs, etc) will be made with compatability of our lifestyle in mind. As long as we want to continue to swing, we'll make sure we're not in a position such that our jobs or other circumstances could force us to stop. I feel truly sorry for anyone forced to stop because it didn't fit someone else's moral ideas.
  2. This thread is interesting. There's a point that's been hinted at here, but not outright said. It seems that most people I've had the experience of discussing the subject with, and reading about, seem to think that if I'm into watersports, that I'm naturally into D/S, or at least humiliation, etc. This is not always the case, and certainly not for me. There are different things we all find interesting, and just because I might think watching a woman pee, doesn't mean I want to be peed on (in particular), nor do I wish to taste it! My wife can't understand the attraction to it, or what's erotic about it. Ok, I can live with that. I do find SOME aspects quite exciting. I have an interest here, and hope to some day come across a partner willing to share it. However, this is NOT the focus of our sharing or what I am particularly seeking. I certainly find a woman peeing, in some situations, to be an erotic thought. I personally don't like toilets, I think they're disgusting, but necessary. However a woman peeing in an erotic way is something I'd like to watch. It's been a fantasy of mine to have a woman lose control during an orgasm. I realize that it might get on me, but that's not the point. I'm beginning to wonder if being interested in watersports in a limited way doesn't put me in a real minority, or are others just afraid to admit it, even to themselves?
  3. Ok, we've been reading this thread, and other related threads, and have learned that there are a lot of feelings on this subject. We can understand and respect most views we've seen and heard. For what it's worth, I'm a complete beliver in the protection that condoms provide. My wife and I, however, have a complication. We've been maried 7 years, commited for over 12, but are just now getting into sharing our sex lives with others. She has discovered that she has, what we think, is at least a mild alergy to laytex. Not severe, but causes her discomfort. We've never used condoms, so we didn't know this until now. We certainly don't wan to miss out on the learnign and exciting adventures we've just decided to start exploring. We considered non-laytex for birth control (she was on the pill, but hasn't been since I've been fixed). So, I've been thinking that if we can find a copule to play with, how hard (or how expensive) would it be to get a reasonable STD test set? We're going to start looking into this, but hopefully some out there would know the pit-falls that we may not be aware of, and could make suggestions. Also, how do other couples feel about this idea? It's not good for sex on first meeting, but that's not what we expect anyway. How fast can results be obtained? How much should we expect it to cost? How reliable are such tests, and can they identify carriers or thos whom have "dormant" conditions? Thoughts?
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