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clearlykt

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About clearlykt

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 10/26/1967

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    unbelievably, happily married
  • Location
    TX
  • Occupation
    Mr-Pilot / Mrs - Dir of Operations
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    ckswinging
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Secrets in Ft Worth
  1. WORRY! In our opinion she is cheating with your knowledge. Your first question was – is this a problem. You stated several times that you were not comfortable with this. I (Mr.) have learned long ago that if it is real to you it should be real to her, where she feels so or not. This has to be addressed – and soon! You are not comfortable with her activity – end of story. Second, if I read it correctly your fantasy was to WATCH her. This is not your fantasy; she is getting something from these guys that she is longing for. It could be several things, attention, and the idea of being desired by other men or a myriad of other possibilities. And no, this is not normal….
  2. It’s our opinion that swinging is an “amplifier”. Meaning if you have a strong marriage, it amplifies it, but if there is any “chinks in the armor” it will amplify those as well. They were going outside the marriage to find a “fix” to HER problems. He was “taking one for the team” and he was getting tired of it. Just our thoughts.
  3. My wife and I are newbies and are constantly learning linguistic code of swinging. I am finding that just like in most jobs or hobbies you have to “learn the language”. I am willing to bet you won’t hear the term “mach tuck” outside of aviation, much like you would not hear “hard swing” in the “vanilla” world. We are full of questions and hope that we can ask the wise on this board with out being talked down to.
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