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reed&diana

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About reed&diana

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  • Birthday 01/08/1951

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    West Virginia
  • Swinging Experience
    Since Sept. 2004

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  • SLS Name
    reedanddiana
  • Favorite Club(s)
    The Farm

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  1. Hell, I (him) started shaving in the 70's. Stayed that way ever since.
  2. WOW, what a vision. Well, I guess there wouldn't be much of a vision in a dark room, but the thought is a real turn on. One thing that can alleviate the condom problem is to have no penetration, just groping and oral.
  3. As long time nudists, both at home and at resorts, both of us drop our clothes when we get home from work. At home, we wear nothing unless if we have to keep warm. If we have a couple over to our house for play, we usually are nude when they show up. A frustrating part of the swing club we go to is that clothes need to be worn. We would like to be able to strip at the club and stay that way.
  4. We know two couples that have been swinging for over thirty years and do not use condoms. They say they have never had any problems. It seems that people in the lifestyle are aware of the risks and act accordingly with screening the new playmates. There is risk associated with this lifestyle. What is disturbing is the ones who look down and put down others who will accept more risk in their fun. Unless you use dental dams and condoms for oral, who is to say that your risk is better than someone elses.
  5. My wife and I enjoy watersports at times. I don't see where is is a dom thing, we both enjoy drinking it from the source. Why, we don't know, I just know that I enjoy everything that comes from a pussy. We would like to find other couples into it but are afraid to say so in our profile. I have the feeling that putting watersports in our profile is the kiss of death. How can we meet others that are into to it?
  6. That is the best explanation that I've seen so far. It all boils down to "if you don't like it, don't do it". If you don't want anal, don't do it. If you don't like watersports, don't do it. If there is anything that you don't like, don't do it. It just seems that bi males are the pariah of the lifestyle.
  7. That is the line that got my attention. The fact the only bi males are singled out to be scary, not bi females. We do go to a club and to be honest we haven't had any problems with "bi furious" woman or men. That's not to say that it doesn't happen. If you are getting unwanted advances from someone in your club and security doesn't do anything about it, maybe you need to find a new club. They are not doing their job. As far as Bi males go, look at the number of threads on this board and the number of threads about bi males. Probably less than 5% and those have many posts from straight males explaining why it is it is not for them. I can't understand why any newbies would read this board and come away with the idea that bi males are the norm. I believe that most start out checking out the sites like SLS. They don't see bi males as the norm because there are very few bi males listed on profiles because of the perceived scariness. To many, a male listing themselves as bi or bi curious automatically means they are infected or they can't keep their hands (mouth) off of someone. This has gone way too long a probably a little incoherent, it is late. Maybe some come into swinging because of the possibility of meeting bi males.
  8. Whoa, just reading through this thread and this hit me like a ball bat. To me that says a lot about Chicup's attitude. If you have no desire for bi sex, that's fine, but why call bi males scary? Why are they any more scary to straight people than bi females. Bi males can respect boundaries just as straight people. The chances of a bi male tying you to the bed and having their way with you are very slim. My wife is bi but to my knowledge, she has not forced a straight woman to eat her.
  9. Diana knowa how to suck a cock. She makes love to it with her mouth until cums in her mouth. I have no problem with her doing that with playmates. She loves to do it and it is a turn on when I watch her. It's kind of a "eat your heart out sucker" feeling. I know that she is coming home with me and she can do that to me anytime. Reed
  10. We also came into later in life. We are both 55 and have been swinger about a year and a half. Sometimes it is frustrating to find inticing couples that have an age cut-off of 50, Don't know whether to contact them or not. My wife wouldn't like to swing with couples younger than 35 - 40. As for me, anything from 18 up works, (Hey, I am a guy). Just ruling out older couples can be ruling out an incredible roll in the hay. Although your bodies show our age, I feel that we can be quite a fun time. I like to think that I'm still very capable and my wife can give a blow job to die for. After all, we have been at it a lot longer and had more practice. Something has to sink in. Reed
  11. An Update - She is coming home tomorrow. We are both hoping that she has learned the tools to help her. I am ready for her to be home, the house has been very empty. We'll spend some time together and ease back into the swing of things. I shoould be hot for the ladies, I've been on a weight loss program for last few weeks. It is the "Eating My Own Cooking" diet. It does wonders. Thanks for all of your support. I'm sure things will be better now and we'll be ready for some fun. Reed
  12. We like the certs. By checking out the people who have given them certs, it can give us an idea of if we will fit in. I mean if their profile says to age 50 and all their certs are from couples under 25, it can make you wonder. If we find a cert from someone we know that tells us something. But they should be general, "we spend some time with them and we enjoyed them". No one, in a cert, email, or whatever should get into how another person is in bed.
  13. Happypair, thanks for the kind words. She is a wonderful lady and I am in full support of her. I want her back. She is now in a place that we think can really give her the help that she needs. ernglo, when we go to a club, I will be with her and keep an eye on her. I plan on keeping her fucking so much that that she will not have time for a drink. She is a strong woman and she will be OK. Reed
  14. Happypair, we have tried AA. The demons in her head just wouldn't let her alone. For the last 6 weeks or so, she has been going to AA meetings every day, some days more than one meeting. She would go to the meetings and sometimes she wouldn't get home before the demons appeared and she had to buy a bottle. This is more than just a booze problem. The problem is 75% in her head, the other 25% in the alcohol. The place she is now will work on both. This is a real case how an abusive childhood can fuck someone up many years later. She worked as a nurse for 30 years, always putting others before her. Now she has to learn to put herself first. She has saves countless patients over the years but she has b=never learned how to save herself. Now, she has to.
  15. Oh yea. What, you're saying that her having a sex addiction is a bad thing?????? Damn, I guess I'll have to re-think my priorities. Reed
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