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  • Birthday 06/08/1960

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  1. Well this is what it's all about. Everything else is yada yada. Unfortunately this is not the 60's and 70's.
  2. Hmm, see I am the mainstream here on the poll. I have been to a few clubs that have "interracial" nights but that means a few black males show up. Have come across few black couples that are in the lifestyle, more black male/white female couples. I could go into the NASCAR thing but suffice to say, swinging lags behind mainstream America in accepting diversity. This is one of the dirty hidden secrets of the lifestyle, just like the no bimales allowed thing.
  3. People lie. At least you know people who admit they are wild, unclean, or untrustworthy are probably not lying to you. Reminds me of a joke I was told when I moved to Utah. How does a Mormon say "Fuck you", he says "Trust me." Works for Christy Fundies too. The best thing is to listen to that little voice in your head. If they are too good to be true, they probably are. Once you dip your toe in the pool of swing you accept the dictum "You are fucking everyone the other person has fucked." If you are not a risk taker this is not the lifestyle for you.
  4. It's just something you have to do. The only time I spit is when its a much larger amount than I expected and I am just not ready.
  5. People with the kissing thing are an automatic "Danger, Will Robinson."
  6. Maybe its as simple as supply and demand. Single women are so rare so that whether is truly single or, married and cheating, it's irrelevant. Where as cheating men are so common. But seriously, as someone above pointed out, swinging is so complicated anyway that introducing an injured spouse into the picture is asking for trouble. What gets us is the number of married men who say they are swinging with their wife's permission because a) she has an illness and can't fuck anymore or b) his sex drive is just so damn strong she can't satisfy it, or c) she is just so open minded. But when you ask to speak to said spouse to confirm this arrangement they seem to disappear. On the other hand we know couples who play almost exclusively with cheating males because they feel they have more to lose if they get caught and are less likely to have an STD.
  7. Guess I was being too subtle for the crowd here. My point is that swingers suffer from the same stigma in the public eye as gay men - that is, that it's all about looking good, being young, thin, and hip in order to maximize the amount of sex you have. If you get a little fat, a little old, ciao baby. Personally I have a deeper view of what swinging and the lifestyle is about. I am glad some of the women here have supported my position. So the next time you get rejected by that hot bi-honey who is your dream lover remember - maybe it was you who didn't fit her ideal.
  8. Sometimes tough love is necessary. We've meet some very strong anti-drug types who are also swingers. Just trying to save both parties some possible embarrassment if not worse.
  9. America has a sick obsession with nudity. Siccing the FCC on Janet Jackson's tit and not letting a nursing mother feed her child in Starbucks. Under our clothes we are all naked, all the time, everyday. Get over it. Get naked as often as you can.
  10. Well I wasn't intending to be rude, but you certainly are by describing my views as bs. I was using the term "attractive" in counterpoint to male ideals of what constitutes female beauty, i.e, big boobs and blonde hair. Not sure what your problem with hunchbacks is, but a lot of people have physical deformities that in no way detract from their personality. You strike me as not only rude but immature. And gee, the question was I see again, only for bifemales.
  11. Like a lot of couples we started out with the idea that same room was the only way to go. As time goes by you realize, separate rooms can add it's on special flavor. Its a turn knowing my husband is comfortable with me sometimes exploring my sexuality in private. I've found some men away from their wives view to reveal a completely different character.
  12. In for a penny, in for a pound. The term 420 has been around for a while though.
  13. Pot, weed, maui wowee, etc. Obviously these parties are not for you.
  14. I can't speak for other women but this seems kind of superficial. I like women who are clean, attractive, confident and intelligent irregardless of hair, eye, or skin color.
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